Minnie Naiem Bi tie up ........ - Page 4

yes Hanuman having really bad childhood many aspects still undisclosed .....

may be loosing Imarti and unborn child makes him more insecure when things started getting serious between him and Babita..... before he had hope or desire now he can see Babita also longing reciprocate towards him.....makes him bit insecure

But I feel its his Male Ego....after Imarti nobody is there to challenged him or seedha kisse na kiya usse .....

Originally posted by: inlieu

Grieving, especially when it is longer-term is not always visible. That is the whole point. He's not crying or moaning over Imarti's death out loud, but his heart cries all the time. Think back to every time he has been drunk and talked to Lala about her. In every difficult moment of his life, he has mentioned her, when he was about to lose his job, his house, Babita. He has also mentioned her in the everyday activities of his life, how Imarti used to scold him, how she used to cook for or do various things for him, her ladle spoon and even the diya using which Babita challenged him to release Ashok.

Most of all, Imarti is present everywhere, in his life, in his home, in his heart, and now the two women in whom he wants to see her image - even I can feel it. Does it have anything to do with the promise he had made Imarti of not loving another woman?

But isn't he open to loving and accept her wholeheartedly already? I thought the whole Imarti conflict was over with Naim Bi and him deciding that it's best for him to move on and take the leap of faith and love. I know, it's easier said than done. But I thought he's open to having her in his life.

He mentioned of not getting him triggered. I think maybe he won't able to stop then in his limits, if she continues to meddle with him like that. It surely pointed out that why should he alone have decency and civil limits. And also, he still has some tad bit of insecurity in losing out his own self and personality in the quest and acceptance of his love for her, by his own self.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Maybe after this, the focus shifts to him, from Babita. We'd get to see his personality too. Until now it's always been about her, maybe it's time to be it about him. He has a fair share and half part of this.

Aap ke moonh mein ghee shakkar. I want to learn more about him. They have been referencing his personal issues more and more, and even through Naeem Bi. Also, I think he hates being called a sharaabi because it's the same label his father had, and the same trait that he abhorred in him.

Originally posted by: blushing

yes Hanuman having really bad childhood many aspects still undisclosed .....

may be loosing Imarti and unborn child makes him more insecure when things started getting serious between him and Babita..... before he had hope or desire now he can see Babita also longing reciprocate towards him.....makes him bit insecure

But I feel its his Male Ego....after Imarti nobody is there to challenged him or seedha kisse na kiya usse .....

I think it does have something to do with Minnie, maybe on some subconscious level. Even though he tells her not to worry about it, the whole incident the other day got him thinking. He is now thinking as her father too, something he did not do early on, and this is maybe adding some other concerns that he wants to sort out. Maybe it is as simple as, will Babita accept him as her daughter's father? Does she love him both as Minnie's father (figure) and as her potential husband?

Ugh, these CVs will make us speculate all weekend about this.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Aap ke moonh mein ghee shakkar. I want to learn more about him. They have been referencing his personal issues more and more, and even through Naeem Bi. Also, I think he hates being called a sharaabi because it's the same label his father had, and the same trait that he abhorred in him.

Yes. They were being playful but they always take too much liberty with him.( He has occasional drinks when he's feeling overwhelmed about something).

And he knows that they push him around ALWAYS cause he's seedha. Maybe it's time to be tedha now so that Babes can say Tedha hai par mera hai❤️🤣

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think it does have something to do with Minnie, maybe on some subconscious level. Even though he tells her not to worry about it, the whole incident the other day got him thinking. He is now thinking as her father too, something he did not do early on, and this is maybe adding some other concerns that he wants to sort out. Maybe it is as simple as, will Babita accept him as her daughter's father? Does she love him both as Minnie's father (figure) and as her potential husband?

Ugh, these CVs will make us speculate all weekend about this.

No, he knows that he's been the father first. That was pretty much sorted in the hospital track. Infact he is a father to her first and then everything else. His love for Babita also somewhere partially stems from the fact that she is HIS VB's mother.

Good heavens its Friday! I was thinking about just waiting for another 24 hours. OMG NO they cant do this! Completely forgot.😵

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think it does have something to do with Minnie, maybe on some subconscious level. Even though he tells her not to worry about it, the whole incident the other day got him thinking. He is now thinking as her father too, something he did not do early on, and this is maybe adding some other concerns that he wants to sort out. Maybe it is as simple as, will Babita accept him as her daughter's father? Does she love him both as Minnie's father (figure) and as her potential husband?

Ugh, these CVs will make us speculate all weekend about this.

bingo i felt too....his face looks serious when Minnie asked.....with Minnie's Q him when she find out make him more alert....

yeah CV are super smart

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think it does have something to do with Minnie, maybe on some subconscious level. Even though he tells her not to worry about it, the whole incident the other day got him thinking. He is now thinking as her father too, something he did not do early on, and this is maybe adding some other concerns that he wants to sort out. Maybe it is as simple as, will Babita accept him as her daughter's father? Does she love him both as Minnie's father (figure) and as her potential husband?

Ugh, these CVs will make us speculate all weekend about this.

No I don't think it can be about Babita not accepting as Minnie's father.. Babita has already given him that right.. during hospital scene when he shouts he is Minnie's father.

I guess Babita understands there..also Hanuman has made it clear to her in starting that he has fatherly affection for her..Babita has trusted him more than anyone else for any fatherly duty for Minnie. It started with them going to doctor together for Minnie..I feel complications that he said is more about what accusations they have gone thru and how they have denied those and finally they succumbed to their hearts there by making people say that may be Hanuman helped babes for his own benefits.. something like that.. I m just guessing..let's see :)

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

But isn't he open to loving and accept her wholeheartedly already? I thought the whole Imarti conflict was over with Naim Bi and him deciding that it's best for him to move on and take the leap of faith and love. I know, it's easier said than done. But I thought he's open to having her in his life.

He mentioned of not getting him triggered. I think maybe he won't able to stop then in his limits, if she continues to meddle with him like that. It surely pointed out that why should he alone have decency and civil limits. And also, he still has some tad bit of insecurity in losing out his own self and personality in the quest and acceptance of his love for her, by his own self.

He is definitely open to loving and accepting her wholeheartedly but for that he need not erase or change anything about his connection to Imarti. When Naeem Bi mentioned how Imarti had died, and when I saw how he felt about Minnie above all else, it was even more obvious that he would never forget Imarti or his first child or stop hurting. It's just that over time he would learn to deal with that hurt better.

Again, maybe I'm completely wrong here. I think as he was leaving for Chandigarh he had time to think that he must continue to maintain his control over himself, and never lose control that way again. I think he surprised himself and I think he is afraid of making an irreparable mistake that could hurt Babita. Especially after what Minnie and he discussed in the hospital, he might be worried about crossing the lines of decency.

Naeem Bi had also told Beeji that HS had been crazy about Imarti. I don't think it was just a sweet innocent kind of romance. They were both strong-headed and passionate people, and I don't think that aspect of HS has changed at all. I think he is afraid to unleash that on Babita because he still sees her as a gentle soul who would never be able to handle his craziness the way Imarti used to be able to.

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I'm not sure I understand what you mean here. Are you referring to his loss of self-respect? Or are you saying that he is cautious that he channels his emotions in a reasonable way instead of going nuts for Babita the way he used to for Imarti?

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

No, he knows that he's been the father first. That was pretty much sorted in the hospital track. Infact he is a father to her first and then everything else. His love for Babita also somewhere partially stems from the fact that she is HIS VB's mother.

Good heavens its Friday! I was thinking about just waiting for another 24 hours. OMG NO they cant do this! Completely forgot.😵

I can't quite express it. It's not about him feeling that VB is his daughter or about Babita accepting that perse, but what we saw between Minnie and HS in the hospital was only for our eyes. HS was showing fatherly affection but I do not think Babita knows the extent of his paternal inclination towards Babita in the way we the audience know it.

It would be super super cool if for a change he were more worried about the impact on their daughter than Babita was.