Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness
May be you are right...
He may be pulling her out of passion, but gently and not out of vengeance. But still, he needs to respect the fact that there are two ladies staying in his house. I know he respects women and all that, but there is a certain limit to showing mardaangi. He was right when he said, when the male ego once jumps into existence, a man loses his sanity. Drinking like this, does not make him do any justice to his wishes. As you rightly said, there is no one perfect in this world. Everyone has flaws and none is flawless. Thanks to CVs for bringing out such a topic too about alcoholism and addiction....❤
I don't think he's drinking to show his mardaangi. I don't think he believes in such a concept since Imarti entered his life. However, he does not appreciate people taking him for granted or treated like a punching bag, which mother-daughter do quite often, and neither does he have limitless patience to put up with their tantrums. He's human and I think all the drama in his otherwise peaceful life ever since he met them takes a mental toll on him too.
Yes, he needs to respect the fact that there are two ladies staying in the house, but the fact is that at the end of the day it's his house, his life. He can do whatever he wants as long as he doesn't disturb them (which he never does), it's his wish. Of course, health concerns are a different point altogether and I don't think HS is ready to accept someone telling him to change his habits yet. Even Naeem Bi couldn't manage to convince him. For that matter Babita, who's been so standoffish with him so far, suddenly coming and telling him off for drinking and showing care might seem strange to him.
He's been living alone for a long time so it will take a while for him to accept such changes and accept that someone can care about him that much, especially Babita. Keep in mind, so far everything has been about him helping mother-daughter during all the changes in their lives. He tried to make them feel secure, tried to adapt a little bit in order to give them space, gave them emotional support wherever he could, and fell for them in the process. However, he's not ready for the focus to shift to him and for them to be part of changing him/his lifestyle. He has so far maintained his own daily routine with no one to question or interfere.
There's a reason he started talking about his repressed pain regarding his mother. I think and I pray that we are going to see more and more about his past in the next few weeks so that mother-daughter can see what made him the man he is today.