We fight with people whom we love

In life, we fight with people whom we are really close to. General public and colleagues, see a polished version of ourself. Only our loved ones, see the true self, without any make up. So loved ones, take up the most brunt. It is also the loved ones, who give us the grounding, when we try to be unreasonable.

Similarly, when we argue with someone, it only means that, we disagree with their point of view. It is nothing to be taken, in a personal way. But in reality, when we argue, people take it personally to heart.

I am really happy to see Hanuman Singh, trying to correct Minnie. I am also happy to see, minnie knowing the truth. Either way, Babita by herself is not going to say the obvious. Neither will Hanuman Singh out of his inherent goodness, will tell his feelings.

It will be one step towards happies endings. Picture abhi baki hain mere dost🙂🙂🙂.

Originally posted by: maharathikarna

In life, we fight with people whom we are really close to. General public and colleagues, see a polished version of ourself. Only our loved ones, see the true self, without any make up. So loved ones, take up the most brunt. It is also the loved ones, who give us the grounding, when we try to be unreasonable.

Similarly, when we argue with someone, it only means that, we disagree with their point of view. It is nothing to be taken, in a personal way. But in reality, when we argue, people take it personally to heart.

I am really happy to see Hanuman Singh, trying to correct Minnie. I am also happy to see, minnie knowing the truth. Either way, Babita by herself is not going to say the obvious. Neither will Hanuman Singh out of his inherent goodness, will tell his feelings.

It will be one step towards happies endings. Picture abhi baki hain mere dost🙂🙂🙂.

I don't think the fighting is the main or only concern. It's Minnie's general demeanor and rudeness that gets on my nerves. She doesn't respect people enough and no one corrects her except HS. He told her off for it once by scolding and the other time by pointing out in the kitchen upstairs, after which she apologized. Doesn't look like it's hit home, though.

It is due to absence of a father figure in life. It will change now though🙂.

Originally posted by: maharathikarna

It is due to absence of a father figure in life. It will change now though🙂.

Yes!

I remember when she told Ashok that always wanted his affection AND disciplining, something she never got. She will realize over time that HS is doing it perfectly and will value him as a father (figure).

To be honest, I am looking forward to her accepting him as /calling him her father (figure) more than even the Hanita story. He started to love her as his own way before loving her mother.