Love and open relationships - Page 3

Originally posted by: KhaanaBaDosh

Nehi, we have spoken on phone. He seems polite and friendly. But since I have this mental block, I didn't carry forward the conversation with him yet. I would have to talk to him this weekend though. And I can't think of anything to say.

You know what's so strange, I could carry on a conversation with stranger (my Airbnb host) or my friends for the whole day and still have stuff to say, but with him, I get this trepidation!

PS: this turned out long, sorry! But I feel good to let it out.

You are fine. You should try to have a longer conversation with him and see where it goes. Maybe ask him about his relationship with his family etc. That would make you less nervous.

Honestly I have only heard about all these things.Dont know whether i’ll ever meet someone who has open marriage.I find it very strange..married people having flings with others and the husband/wife knowing it and still living happily is a concept too complicated for my small brain.So when I read about the blinds about Akki-Twinkle having such a relationship I dont believe it..for me its just an assumption.

https://www.instagram.com/p/BypV8_GBDVd/?igshid=a6tvex1thdqu

These pics too. Feel like srk and gauri have the same thing going on.

Image, power and money

Originally posted by: KhaanaBaDosh

I have another question, my parents have found this guy for marriage, who has a foreign citizenship. That's his usp. While I have recently graduated from some University in India and just got into a well paying job(6 figure/month after tax). I know I will live off comfortably.

My parents want me to marry and move to a developed country. While I don't really find the guy interesting and I want to concentrate on my career. I know if I move there, my future will definitely be good, but it won't be solely because of me. And then there would be added responsibility with marriage, is it worth it?

Do what makes you happy. It might be hard for you to adapt over there and bear in mind, you will not be able to work straight away. So, things are not going to be easy. If you are with the wrong person, even heaven will seem like hell!

These star wives choose status, fame and money over their dignity and love. You think the whole of Mumbai don't know what their husbands are up to? 😆 Now that Imran Khan is out, the only actor probably having a happy marriage is Emraan Hashmi. Leading actor, I mean. Even Shahid cheated and all his wife wanted in return was to announce the second baby!

Is it really a open marriage though if only one is sleeping around n the other is accepting it not out of choice but to keep the relationship n the game n stablity of it? Open relationship or polyamory both of them are extremely difficult I feel, because human are possessive by nature. But if it works for two people who m I to judge,but it should be discussed n communicated,or else it's just cheating.

some people also argue how Humans go against their evolutionary natural urge by being monogamous cz evolution wise sticking with one partner doesn't make sense,it causes less variation in the population also the potential of reproduction ability is not being utilised.that's kinda true but I feel human beings have much more of a developed brain to just go by basic primal urges.

I feel like most open marriages would end up in broken hearts and angry memories

Open marriages are not for everyone but if it works for anyone then it is perfectly fine. I do not agree that it always end up in break up. It works for people, it just it doesn’t come out in open.

I am surprised how people are so narrow minded that they are not even entertaining the possibility that it might work for some even if they won’t go for it. Open marriages does not mean no commitment. This is such a wrong assumption. Open marriage has its own rule for example, how long can you sleep with other partners, how much time you spend with them, how much financially and emotionally you will engage etc. these rules are decided by couple and not society. If one of these rules are broken then it’s like breaking commitment. If someone says twinkle is not sleeping around but akshay is so it’s not right, but I disagree. We do not know if she is sleeping around or not maybe she is just good in hiding it.

Unless you know someone closely who is in open relation, you can’t pass judgment on their love. Love means different to different people and you can’t force your definition on others. And no only monogamy doesn’t mean Love.

We say Relationships are not just about sex but at the end of day five so much importance to sexual monogamy? Contradiction?? Relationships are so much more, how much you connect with your partner, how comfortable are you with them, trust with all your secrets, open your dark side to them etc. If someone is such a partner but sexually active with other ppl and partner is fine, why can’t it be love??

Originally posted by: GrumpyTheCat

https://www.instagram.com/p/BypV8_GBDVd/?igshid=a6tvex1thdqu

These pics too. Feel like srk and gauri have the same thing going on.

Image, power and money

Seems so. Though apparently Akki had more number of affairs than SRK, Tina seems to be in more happier place than Gauri. Just an observation. Thats why I feel Akki has just sleeping relation while SRK got mentally involved with his ex gf. Probably other bollywood couples like Aamir Kiran, Sanjay Manyata etc also have the same thing going.

Anyway thats bollywood. I dont think in real life both way cheating happens a lot. Its mostly one sided

TM- all these couples have around 2 or more decades of togetherness. May be they only have companionship or friendship left between them. No physical intimacy is there. But Its worrying why a young person like Alia is looking for only emotional fidelity. Too rich coming from her. It was a facesaver I feel. Not what she wants in reality

Originally posted by: Her-mion-e

Seems so. Though apparently Akki had more number of affairs than SRK, Tina seems to be in more happier place than Gauri. Just an observation. Thats why I feel Akki has just sleeping relation while SRK got mentally involved with his ex gf. Probably other bollywood couples like Aamir Kiran, Sanjay Manyata etc also have the same thing going.

Anyway thats bollywood. I dont think in real life both way cheating happens a lot. Its mostly one sided

TM- all these couples have around 2 or more decades of togetherness. Many be they only have companionship or friendship left between them. No physical intimacy is there. But Its worrying why a young person like Alia is looking for only emotional fidelity. Too rich coming from her. It was a facesaver I feel. Not what she wants in reality

True.

Srk got emotionally involved as well.

As for Alia , the emotional infidelity line was Kjo’s. He mentioned in one of his interviews as well. Alia just ratta maro and copied what she was fed. I don’t think she understands the gravity or the meaning of it. She is making hay while the sun shines.

Not all the things written on tabloids is true.Some celebs do live a normal life.Women forgiving cheating husbands is not only in Bollywood but in outside world also but at the same today's women be it in Bollywood or in normal life would accept cheating.

Being in media has pro and cons . The pros money fame love but cons shit written about u.