SWEET POISON - Page 2

Originally posted by: guddi01

Jaanavi

She was shocked by this type of behaviour from him. He was totally different in London. When he came back to India, he went back to his normal self.

I have said this from the beginning, when he returned to India after his Business failed in UK he was coming to Babita to play happy families but his plans back fired when Mita followed him to India and forced him to tell his family about her. Otherwise he was going to leave Mita in the UK as the other woman.

Hence his constant anger on Mita.

She is right to get angry as She is the one to put up with lots of taunts etc from everyone and he is getting none.

But I say again that Babita too is at fault with the breakup of her Marriage, she never put any effort in at all. In a marriage there are 2 people but if these 2 cannot clap hands together than the other will look outside of the Marriage for love.

If only she had put in the same amount of effort in becoming the ideal bhua as well as a ideal Wife, than Ashok would not have gone looking for love elsewhere.

Also his Parents are at fault as well because they should have known to sent Babita to UK with there Son. But no they kept her as a unpaid cook, etc all in the name if being a Bahu to take care of them.

20% blame Babita

20% blame in laws

25% blame Mita

35% blame Ashok

Her inlaws are not in the village but in a city where they have a son in law staying with them.

I have to agree with the bold parts. It's not like victim blaming, but this is marriage and she had to do everything to save her relationship... Ashok surely stayed with her after their marriage for a while to make her pregnant. So it could have been a couple of months. And when a newly wed hubby is going off to overseas, she should have tried her best to go with them. And even if it wasn't possible owing to her aging in laws and the responsibilities towards them, she could have tried at least once Minnie was born and a few years older. She could have sensed his distancing from her , lack of proper communication from him in the eventual years and tried to know what's happening with him somehow...

But sadly Babita stayed too much ignorant and oblivious to the happenings around her , which was her biggest mistake. She is the victim here obviously, but if she had been little bit smarter she could have avoided this long waiting and the heartbreak she and Minnie went through...

Originally posted by: Sudharies

I agree with your views... 👍🏼

But what's with the PS these days 😆 I'm finding it used by few members here. I don't know what happened, coz generally I quote someone's post only when I agree with theit post. But this phrase used repeatedly in our forum made me wonder why it's been used repeatedly nowadays🤔🤔🤔

Asking out of curiosity😆 no offence intended..

lol. Sudha I started the quote because two days back a member quoted me and accused me of saying something which I clearly did not. I don't know whose comment she read but she quoted me and started fighting. That's y I give this P.S.

I can understand that while watching a show, we all can have our own perspectives but to come and display this kind of behavior is neither right nor polite. Hope this clears the mystery of PS.😊

Originally posted by: rose1000

lol. Sudha I started the quote because two days back a member quoted me and accused me of saying something which I clearly did not. I don't know whose comment she read but she quoted me and started fighting. That's y I give this P.S.

I can understand that while watching a show, we all can have our own perspectives but to come and display this kind of behavior is neither right nor polite. Hope this clears the mystery of PS.😊

Oh I see! I seem to have missed this post which you're talking about... This is an open forum and everyone have their own views and opinions, which they're absolutely free to express here. If we have different povs it's better to respect the others povs and end it right there or by agreeing to disagree amicably rather quoting them purposely accusing or fighting that is totally uncalled for, which a few members don't understand...!