RUHAAN LOST HIS MARBLES !!!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: mili9

Chandu, seriously that was the best scene. He came in between Veer guy and the girls, threw his job in his face and told him that ki woh zinda kaat degaa🤣if he ever comes near Mishti. Veer guy's face is a riot to watch🤣Suddenly, he is not the center of the universe anymore, everybody left his orbit. My goodness, that was truly hilarious.

Ruhaan, I am a bit distressed. I had such regard for this guy. Somehow, I just couldn't take the screaming from the get go. Hopefully, he will make it up tomorrow for us. They better make it up amongst each other tomorrow, before drooling people get in the middle🤢

Veer Guy face 🤣🤪there is nothing I guessrather Feel by The Scene how The Character reaction Possible 👍🏼😉 it would be super shot watch😎😆.

Ruhaan may come tomorrow his Part 👍🏼😳Today Is Arnav⭐️Day .

I wish Later Epis Cvs Give Mishaan convo on this Angel Bond+Boy They Had in their lives Present 👍🏼😳 rather they both Dwelling 🤔in Confusion state of how Tht Solar Lamp turned as battery less torch light 🤣torture 🤣..

Arnav Deserves Applause 👍🏼+Mishaan Revealing of Them to him Make Story Up 👍🏼 we get rid off Sissy Drool torture as well 👍🏼use Extension cvs rather Don't come up Line of Stupidities 😳

I really like today episode but I found that screaming unnecessarily and funny(I know this was intense through 😆) Mishti ki puri baat sunke bolta hai kyu di kasam bapas lo 🤣 I like his expression and all but that screaming was very bad, that was so not kunal. His small but dangerous voice would have work like magic. So ya I am disappointed with him. That phone convo was funny as well 🤣 but at the same time it was quite intense when he break beer's bottle from his hand, Like I said his expression would work, apne screaming kam karta tho aur bhi acha lagta 🤣

I love arnav and pari today, do dala veer ko 🤣 poor man, insult mishti ka karna tha kud ka hogya 🤣 I felt bad for him. But he is quite smart itna sab karne ke baad bhi blame mishti ko kar raha tha and complain about her to ruhaan and ruhaan ko apne ehsaan gina raha tha to emotional black mail him. I starts to like Veer after yesterday when they give clarity to his character and he is quite funny as well 🤣

I don't think Veer's character is butcher as his fans are claiming.From first episode only cvs are showing how cunning he is .His business deal highlighted then his dominance on Ruhaan to attend his engagement.His flaunting of wealth car, mobile before Misti.Cvs were clear how his character will shape after break-up.It was decided I think if the show will get extension otherwise his character could have ended after break-up even Rohan said in an interview his character was only to make Misti realise her true love for Ruhaan.

Good morning girls !!!! Liked reading all opinions😃.

Glad most of you liked the screaming, angry Ruhaan. I tried to watch it with an open mind again, I was still very uncomfortable. Here are my two cents about screaming, raising voice in genera🤔l.

I am not a saint, actually far from it😈, I fly off the handle, I get angry more than I should, but I don't believe in screaming matches, raising voice, yelling etc. My approach usually is to tone my voice waaay down, when I get angry, or trying to make a point, so people are actually paying attention to what I am saying NOT my emotion ( anger ). I really don't care whether they acknowledge my anger or not, my intention is for them to understand where I am coming from. Of course, people close to me understand when I go into monotone that they are walking on a slippery slope and try to make an extra attempt to understand what I am actually saying. I feel expression of anger by yelling , screaming distracts one from the problem/argument/debate on hand. All attention goes to that emotion ( anger ). That is such an unnecessary use of the interaction.

Last week, in a professional encounter, I had to raise my voice to control an uncontrollable person. Within a second, the other person calmed down and was fearful of me abandoning that person, as this person had never seen me angry/raising my voice or this side of me. Even though the atmosphere calmed down, her attention went off to apologize and appease me rather than the problem we had to tackle. My energies were spent reassuring that is not what my intention was, but rather to calm her down. We had to postpone tackling the problem as the conditions were not conducive for objective discussion. So, I feel like when the interaction happens in a paternalistic relationship where one person has a little more power ( real or perceived ) , then a show of anger will invoke fear, but not amicable or judicious resolution of conflict. I personally didn't like how I handled it, I didn't expect she could trigger me and it happened in a split second, since then I spoke with so many of my colleagues to see how they would have done it. Of course, the opinions were varied, I have to sit down to think through this some more.

But, if you are in a equal relationship, like Ruhaan, Mishti, when one starts screaming, the attention then goes off to " justification " of each person's argument rather than making any efforts in seeing the other's point of view. That is what is happening now. Mishti doesn't realize that he is mad because she is insulted, her humiliation means a lot more to him and his sanity, that he can't sit on his haunches when she gets insulted with him being around her. He even told her that " he can't live with himself" if he is unable to do anything when his precious one gets hurt😭Her contention is that he is trying to be macho and confront Veer, which is not necessary from her standpoint and let bygones be bygones. Similarly, Ruhaan doesn't understand Mishti's view as well- she doesn't want him to stoop to a level unexpected of him, she had always seen him as a level headed, grounded fellow who always kept his cool, doesn't want him to lose his head on her, on what she considers as something or somebody who is unimportant in their lives. In short, she doesn't want him fall off that pedestal where she put him😭. His contention is that she is not letting him be protective of her and deal with her insults and that is simply not fair. So, they really are not listening or giving any thought to what the other's view, BUT trying to justify their points in this screaming match. Oh man! that slamming the door on her face, he has a lot, a lot of making up to do to her. The actual problem is pushed off and they focus only on BEHAVIORS. That totally beats the issue on hand👎🏼We know very well, when you look at each one and where they are coming from, neither is wrong or off, we know they could easily have reached that middle ground if they were cool

It is OK, hopefully this is a growing phase of their relationship, they need to make it up for each other. I have high regard for Ruhaan🤓 to find his head soon in this and come around.

Meanwhile, high chances that the drooling people will be dressing the wound, drooling, crying, staring and imagining more baseless nonsense🤢This will get ME hopping mad on both Ruhaan, Mishti.

Ok, girls not sure I am making sense to any of you but wanted to clarify this for myself. Have a good day !!!

You are completely making sense Mili.

I agree, in such situations, it's difficult to understand eachother's pov. They try to justify their anger.

But, like you said, they have a long way ahead. It's just the initial foot falls into their relationship. These disagreements makes the relationship stronger, I think

Also, why I could understand his anger was because, I am an impulsive person. Short tempered. When I am angry, I tend to react. Especially, in situations like these, when neither of them is wrong, it's really difficult to understand eachother. I understand Ruhaan & at the same time, I understand Mishti, too..

I think, both need to understand eachother. Everyone has a different approach of dealing. I think, being a man in a relationship, they tend to become a bit overprotective. Here, in this case, Ruhaan has nobody of his own. He has only her. So, being helpless, he is angry at everyone including himself, Mishti & the situation.

I think, they will gradually come to understand eachother as their relationship proceeds..

I, too hold Ruhaan in a very high regard. I was instantly impressed by him since the beginning. I don't know I just liked him( a vibe I guess)

Anyone might disagree with me. It's absolutely fine..

Originally posted by: arfanazneen

You are completely making sense Mili.

I agree, in such situations, it's difficult to understand eachother's pov. They try to justify their anger.

But, like you said, they have a long way ahead. It's just the initial foot falls into their relationship. These disagreements makes the relationship stronger, I think

Also, why I could understand his anger was because, I am an impulsive person. Short tempered. When I am angry, I tend to react. Especially, in situations like these, when neither of them is wrong, it's really difficult to understand eachother. I understand Ruhaan & at the same time, I understand Mishti, too..

I think, both need to understand eachother. Everyone has a different approach of dealing. I think, being a man in a relationship, they tend to become a bit overprotective. Here, in this case, Ruhaan has nobody of his own. He has only her. So, being helpless, he is angry at everyone including himself, Mishti & the situation.

I think, they will gradually come to understand eachother as their relationship proceeds..

I, too hold Ruhaan in a very high regard. I was instantly impressed by him since the beginning. I don't know I just liked him( a vibe I guess)

Anyone might disagree with me. It's absolutely fine..

Arfa, this is beautiful and I agree completely with this👍🏼It is very sad, but yes, we do have to remember, he has nobody to call his own other than Mishti and she is precious for him❤️😭

Originally posted by: mili9

Arfa, this is beautiful and I agree completely with this👍🏼It is very sad, but yes, we do have to remember, he has nobody to call his own other than Mishti and she is precious for him❤️😭

Thank you Mili. ♥️

Exactly. She is very precious to him. He mostly kept quiet when she used to be rude with him, too. Bcz, he loved her unconditionally. So, how would he be able to bear anyone else insulting her? 💔💔💔

I find his actions really understandable all the time

i loved todays epis for me ruhaan and pari were star of the epi :)

i dnt care much about arnav so what he did was normal for kuch khas nahii tha