is the forum divided on anupre v. prejaj?? - Page 5

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

No is no. If this was a woman who went on a date with a guy, does that mean the act of going on a date was an implicit yes?

I am one of the people who very strongly said and says that anurag gave Komolika mixed signals. But this is a dangerous line of argument you have gone down.

No means no - man or woman, whenever you say it. If you are not getting the physical relations you want divorce is the option you should choose.

I don't think she is saying abt Kom trying to force him is right. He shudn't have married her at all or atleast not act nice to her which made her think he agreed me as partner and tried t come close to him.

When is Bajaj said a murderer? Dons don't always need to do kills, they can just have illegal business.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

That's what I said. No means no whether a woman or a man. But entering a marriage assuming that there will be never be sex is debatable. This is what I said. Obviously if your spouse tries to touch you and you are not interested, you can immediately refuse. And you should.

You are talking as if Anurag tricked innocent Komolika into marrying him and was depriving her of sex. From the beginning it was a contract marriage and she very well knew what she was getting into.The babying part happened much later.

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

You are talking as if Anurag tricked innocent Komolika into marrying him and was depriving her of sex. From the beginning it was a contract marriage and she very well knew what she was getting into.The babying part happened much later.

& the babying part is sothat kom dont go after pre .why ppl think baying kom is not good come on what she did to pre in last it come before that

be may hate hinas acting but cany deny kom is dangerous woman

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

You are talking as if Anurag tricked innocent Komolika into marrying him and was depriving her of sex. From the beginning it was a contract marriage and she very well knew what she was getting into.The babying part happened much later.

Where is komolika innocent? She is vamp. You still didn't get me, did you?

I have talked to ppl who have raped by their husbands. Believe me, this is not what can remotely termed as "Marital rape".

I don't want to discuss this further. Consent is important but entering into a marriage, assuming there will never be a physical relationship doesn't make sense. Do you know your spouse can file a case on you, if you withold Physical relationship? You can be punished and it also is a ground for divorce. This itself is debatable. Last year my team was working regarding the same, that how can a victim be punished

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

& the babying part is sothat kom dont go after pre .why ppl think baying kom is not good come on what she did to pre in last it come before that

be may hate hinas acting but cany deny kom is dangerous woman

There is no doubt komolika is dangerous. She is crazy. That slap was uncalled for. Hitting your spouse is not okay. He could have simply moved away. It's pretty suprising when people compare it to marital rape. Because that is so horrible. I have cried taking to the victims . I don't even want to go there

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Bajaj was never a murderer. There were doubts that He was involved in killing of Prem (Anu-Pre's baby) because he got crazy in love . But later it was cleared that it was Subroto, Anurag's cousin who was involved and Bajaj had no hand in all this.

This man though egoistic , arrogant and obsessied with Prerna, loved her child Sneha so dearly that at one point, just to save that kid, he was ready to lose Prerna too.

People hate Komolika because she is a negative character whereas Bajaj is a grey character- Ruthless, egoistic, selfish and then turns completely positive bec of Prerna's love and her support.

what about bomb which he planted in anus office

he was very much involved in prems death he knows its subrto kidnap prem but never told anupre

Originally posted by: -Doppelganger-

You are talking as if Anurag tricked innocent Komolika into marrying him and was depriving her of sex. From the beginning it was a contract marriage and she very well knew what she was getting into.The babying part happened much later.

The babying Kom part was definitely stupid of Anu and I won't deny that in this track they made a lot of mess-up with both Anu and Pre. That doesn't make Kom free of all her evilness and stupidity in believing Anu so easily after making a deal with a forced marriage...Did she even bother to talk it out with him on what are the terms in their marriage contract?! It's not necessary that sleeping together is in the contract marriage.. 😆 If she's smart enough to make a deal then she should have clearly listed down the dos and don't s in her contract.. She was too snobby to vet it down assuming everyone follow the suit.. 😉

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

There is no doubt komolika is dangerous. She is crazy. That slap was uncalled for. Hitting your spouse is not okay. He could have simply moved away. It's pretty suprising when people compare it to marital rape. Because that is so horrible. I have cried taking to the victims . I don't even want to go there

as a woman i agree anu can moved away but as human i support anu why he slapped her .

many if member allready explain to u about this .

Personally, I didn’t like Anu slapping Komo. I wish he just pushed her. But him not wanting to have sex with her was fine and him treating her that way was perfect too except the slapping part. And that’s me saying who actually watched the recent episodes just for her mostly lol, but I did hate her a lot when she put Prena in jail. The reason it was fine is because Komo wasn’t some innocent woman and wife. She separated Anupre, why should I even feel bad for her? And why should Anu even give her any rights?! If she wasn’t behind their separation and even became negative AFTER marrying Anu due to his closeness with Prena, I would’ve felt bad and sympathized with her despite her being completely negative. Because then she wouldve been his actual wife & the reasons of her being negative after marrying Anu would’ve made sense even if her actions were not. That bitch deserved such treatment from Anu!!

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

Where is komolika innocent? She is vamp. You still didn't get me, did you?

I have talked to ppl who have raped by their husbands. Believe me, this is not what can remotely termed as "Marital rape".

I don't want to discuss this further. Consent is important but entering into a marriage, assuming there will never be a physical relationship doesn't make sense. Do you know your spouse can file a case on you, if you withold Physical relationship? You can be punished and it also is a ground for divorce. This itself is debatable. Last year my team was working regarding the same, that how can a victim be punished

And you still don't seem to be getting my point. What I meant was that Komolia knew from the beginning what she was getting into by marrying Anurag. He did tell her before marriage that nothing can ever happen between them and that it was only a contract marriage. He made things very clear before their marriage.

Anyway I am done.No further discussions from my end