Babita going a long way vs love story - Page 3

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil

I love your point of view - I generally write in YUDKBH forum but I watch and love this show too. Reading the discussion in your post, I felt like giving my two cents.

Of course it is Minnie’s and Babita’s story but why can’t it still be their story with mom falling in love or remarrying again? I am in my early 40s and I have seen the state of mind of my divorced friends. Believe me, the reactions of the kids make or break the relationships.

Kids can be the ultimate motivator in single mom’s life but they can also become the reason why moms are bogged down or are refrained from achieving their happiness. I too want to see Babita succeed as an entrepreneur and as a working women but I also want to see her personal side thrive. We as a society forget that moms are human beings too and as human have desires to find romantic love. Till now Minnie has been Babita’s motivating factor – helping her overcome the challenges in life. The last thing I want to see is Minnie being the reason why Babita fails to find second chance in love. Look at Babita – she herself acknowledges she never knew what it feels to falls in love because she loved Ashok out of the social obligation of being married to him. Her love for him was merely social conditioning rather than true reflection of her feelings. Not only will finding love be an exhilarating experience for her but I also feel that if Babita falls in love again, she will find in her heart to completely forgive what Ashok has done to her. The best revenge one can take with your ex is to forgive and forget him and finding that special love generally helps eliminate animosity people hold against the exes. Babita may or may not fall in love with Hanuman Singh, but she should always keep the option open to fall in love and to experience that special thing that every person deserve to feel once in the lifetime.

Having said all that I can assure you that without Minnie’s affirmative support, Babita and HS will never happen. Yeah, determination of the love story unknowingly rests Minnie’s hand and therefore whether Babita rises as an entrepreneur or decides to remarry; it is always Minnie-Babita story.

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

totally agree with your views especially @bold

I feel you as few others are not really reading the entire post. Please understand that I m a very liberal and open minded person. Infact that is wat I have been trying to put forth. I have never said she should not marry again ...should sacrifice...should live for Mini....infact m saying let her decide....is HS the only person she should fall for ...why because he is in love with her....he is supportive ...he is good....and that is a strong reason too...but Babita has always lead a life where she has never chosen. Now also it looks more like her affection is due to something she never got in life....what if she falls in love ....deeply with someone ...whether HS or someone else....I am just saying for me this track is mother and daughter...if Babita wants a third person to be involved there ...that is absolutely fine and who he is also shud b her choice ....lee her live her life ...really live it ...in real life v have guys who are friends and who are dear to us but v don’t love them ....many times they move away from us due to this ....but that is how it is ...when u love someone that is when u take a decision...in Babita’s case she has never experienced love and HS is expressing exactly those feelings for her....but she should not marry him because of that...this time what she feels should matter....I don’t know but can’t there be a track where someone enters her life and she feels that she has feelings for him....don’t know but possible..

But anyways for all those who are not reading complete post... I wish Babita remarries and by her choice ...and this post does not talk abt sacrifice and no marriage

Originally posted by: Reshmi.parekh78

I feel you as few others are not really reading the entire post. Please understand that I m a very liberal and open minded person. Infact that is wat I have been trying to put forth. I have never said she should not marry again ...should sacrifice...should live for Mini....infact m saying let her decide....is HS the only person she should fall for ...why because he is in love with her....he is supportive ...he is good....and that is a strong reason too...but Babita has always lead a life where she has never chosen. Now also it looks more like her affection is due to something she never got in life....what if she falls in love ....deeply with someone ...whether HS or someone else....I am just saying for me this track is mother and daughter...if Babita wants a third person to be involved there ...that is absolutely fine and who he is also shud b her choice ....lee her live her life ...really live it ...in real life v have guys who are friends and who are dear to us but v don’t love them ....many times they move away from us due to this ....but that is how it is ...when u love someone that is when u take a decision...in Babita’s case she has never experienced love and HS is expressing exactly those feelings for her....but she should not marry him because of that...this time what she feels should matter....I don’t know but can’t there be a track where someone enters her life and she feels that she has feelings for him....don’t know but possible..

But anyways for all those who are not reading complete post... I wish Babita remarries and by her choice ...and this post does not talk abt sacrifice and no marriage

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

pls dont take things personally. It was nothing against your post. You have a right to have your personal views .I loved what was written and just quoted the post to show my liking for what she said. It dosent mean as disliking your post.

No nothing like that ...sorry if u felt so....I just said this as evn earlier inspite of mentioning that I m totally for Babita taking her decision...and whether she marries or not ...if she does whom she marries all is her choice...still few mentioned that ‘y she should not marry’ and ‘y I think this way.’ so just tried to clarify ...and honestly even I like to understand different views ...it is only thn that u know wat other ppl think and u are able to also see something from another point of view ...so don’t think that way 🙂