Babita going a long way vs love story - Page 2

Why not. She was never valued as a Wife or Loved. So why should she not fall in Love.

But they both must get rid if there past, good and bad to move on in Life.

With HS he has started falling in Love but cannot tell the Wood from the Trees. Once he realises that it is Babita that he loves should he propose.

With Babita too she has to get rid of Ashok completely and forgive Mita and than only can she move on and in her journey if she falls in love with HS than its good.

I am not criticising at all. It is just a view amidst multiple other views. We all predict abt what is coming next like I keep seeing here abt how few want to see HS Babita angle. I am just putting forth my views. I know that since they are different not all might like. My point is, still, they are my views and I am not saying that Babita should be alone, she should never meet someone and have never said that nor wanted that. But Somehow for me HS and Babita does not work. Everytime it goes the same way in movies serials, sometimes creative team does go for something different aswell. What here is the question, since it is a serial we all come up with what can happen. Thus we are not hurting anyone. It is fiction. I expressed my views but I am open for any storyline 😀 not so strong on my views as this is fiction again. But just feel will be happy if it works this way.

And thn I am saying let Babita decide, that itself means I am going with her choice as she has never had that freedom. Now whatever she does is what she wants so let her decide (obviously which means what creative team decides). But that should be her thought process. She should not be shown choosing something for only others happiness, sacrificing again. But if she wants to do something she will and has to. Whether it is being single or marrying someone.

But who said she should not fall in love. I think you are not reading my post completely. I am repeatedly saying that she can fall in love with her choice and it can be HS for sure. Nothing wrong. It can be another person aswell, it is her decision. What if they show her not wanting to decide now and move ahead in life and show her becoming a reputed businesswoman. Then she meets someone and falls in love with him. Can’t this happen aswell. Or while her business expands she realises her feelings for HS or while her business expands she meets someone else and falls in love with him. We think that HS has done so much for her, supported her so everyone sees her falling in love with him. But why so. Why can’t she fall in love with someone else. Why should we always relate these two things. Support is support, what if HS would have been a lady who she would have met at the start and she would have proved to be that support. I am just saying just because he is a Male the only thing which works next is a love story between these two. But not necessary right. Let Babita live her life, let her marry him if she wants to, let her marry someone else if she wants to.

Again just a view 🙂 I am ok with any thing as this is fiction and finally makers decide.

Originally posted by: guddi01

Why not. She was never valued as a Wife or Loved. So why should she not fall in Love.

But they both must get rid if there past, good and bad to move on in Life.

With HS he has started falling in Love but cannot tell the Wood from the Trees. Once he realises that it is Babita that he loves should he propose.

With Babita too she has to get rid of Ashok completely and forgive Mita and than only can she move on and in her journey if she falls in love with HS than its good.

But who said she should not fall in love. I think you are not reading my post completely. I am repeatedly saying that she can fall in love with her choice and it can be HS for sure. Nothing wrong. It can be another person aswell, it is her decision. What if they show her not wanting to decide now and move ahead in life and show her becoming a reputed businesswoman. Then she meets someone and falls in love with him. Can’t this happen aswell. Or while her business expands she realises her feelings for HS or while her business expands she meets someone else and falls in love with him. We think that HS has done so much for her, supported her so everyone sees her falling in love with him. But why so. Why can’t she fall in love with someone else. Why should we always relate these two things. Support is support, what if HS would have been a lady who she would have met at the start and she would have proved to be that support. I am just saying just because he is a Male the only thing which works next is a love story between these two. But not necessary right. Let Babita live her life, let her marry him if she wants to, let her marry someone else if she wants to.

Again just a view 🙂 I am ok with any thing as this is fiction and finally makers decide.

Btw the prime reason why I feel so has just been put forth in your post. Babita has to really move on. She has to forget Ashok and then will she really think on whom she loves. For that she needs time and again that time her feelings matter. Just because HS is a good human being expecting her to reciprocate without understanding her state of mind will not work.

I like your views but I would also like to pit my perspectives..

Patiala babes although a show and not realistic for me up till now it has been on ewhich believes in breaking the stereotypes in our society around.Be it babes supporting Minnie, Minni taking her out of home for her self respect,babita filing for divorce and standing through all insult and getting strong gradually,about not putting the entire blame in the "other woman",mental illness track,babita realizing Mikki-Minni friendship ams even the recent Preeto track.For me it has untill now shown us an alternative to a general thought process we have in a society.Its trying to raise up many issues like Divorce,Mental illness,Teenage impulsions, Parenting , Friendship, Betrayals, Relationship etc .I see the present track or Hanita as one of the many issues we have about women's 2nd marriage or emotions for a person after divorce and the halla around it.

The self dependent and strong Babita track is already running in parallel and the CVs are definitely showing how babita is moving up the ladder GRADUALLY.I don't want them to show that she gets rich overnight and Ashok going bankrupt etc which would have been shown by anyother ITV show.So the career track is anyways running at it's pace.

Hanuman Minni relationship is another angle which can be explored still well as untill now I only see HS put more efforts. Minnie's trust issues because of Ashok can be overcome by HS like people.

About Hanita,I feel it's not just another love story or as being put out of place like in another ITV shows.Infact a proper background story was laid (no love at first sight etc magical stuff) by building a strong friendship and trust for each other in previous tracks.They have always been supportive of each other and have formed a lovely bond.About HS,he is innocent and naive and likes babita because of the qualities in her which are similar to Imarti.I would love to see his conflict of emotions and him loving babita as her and not because she is like someone whom he loved.So that's an another issue that can be pondered upon - about getting rid of that guilt that u are not cheating on another person if u fall in love again.

About Babita though she sees HS as a support and family she doesn't seem to have any kind of feelings for him untill now.She has been an unlucky women who has never known what love is and never been appreciated and loved and cared for equally in her previous relationship.During conversation about love she already pointed out that she doesn't know what it is.I would love to see her know these feelings without again thinking about society or "log Kya kahenge" or guilt trap of how can I fall back again for someone.CVs can take it either way -B rejecting HS or may be exploring her feelings towatds him I want this journey to be beautiful .About realizing that she can love again if she wishes too and she deserves to love back too.

Minnie's take on this can also be interesting.As per the show theme(daughter guiding mother to follow her heart) it might be that she makes B realize her feelings and may be help HS and B to be together.Or it can be also that she doesn't approve of it as she fears her babes might be hurt again.That children's role in the life of single parent can be another issue or point that CVs can put.

So I don't mind seeing this track and how CVs bring it to our TVs will be interesting.

Originally posted by: CuriousBeing

I like your views but I would also like to pit my perspectives..

Patiala babes although a show and not realistic for me up till now it has been on ewhich believes in breaking the stereotypes in our society around.Be it babes supporting Minnie, Minni taking her out of home for her self respect,babita filing for divorce and standing through all insult and getting strong gradually,about not putting the entire blame in the "other woman",mental illness track,babita realizing Mikki-Minni friendship ams even the recent Preeto track.For me it has untill now shown us an alternative to a general thought process we have in a society.Its trying to raise up many issues like Divorce,Mental illness,Teenage impulsions, Parenting , Friendship, Betrayals, Relationship etc .I see the present track or Hanita as one of the many issues we have about women's 2nd marriage or emotions for a person after divorce and the halla around it.

The self dependent and strong Babita track is already running in parallel and the CVs are definitely showing how babita is moving up the ladder GRADUALLY.I don't want them to show that she gets rich overnight and Ashok going bankrupt etc which would have been shown by anyother ITV show.So the career track is anyways running at it's pace.

Hanuman Minni relationship is another angle which can be explored still well as untill now I only see HS put more efforts. Minnie's trust issues because of Ashok can be overcome by HS like people.

About Hanita,I feel it's not just another love story or as being put out of place like in another ITV shows.Infact a proper background story was laid (no love at first sight etc magical stuff) by building a strong friendship and trust for each other in previous tracks.They have always been supportive of each other and have formed a lovely bond.About HS,he is innocent and naive and likes babita because of the qualities in her which are similar to Imarti.I would love to see his conflict of emotions and him loving babita as her and not because she is like someone whom he loved.So that's an another issue that can be pondered upon - about getting rid of that guilt that u are not cheating on another person if u fall in love again.

About Babita though she sees HS as a support and family she doesn't seem to have any kind of feelings for him untill now.She has been an unlucky women who has never known what love is and never been appreciated and loved and cared for equally in her previous relationship.During conversation about love she already pointed out that she doesn't know what it is.I would love to see her know these feelings without again thinking about society or "log Kya kahenge" or guilt trap of how can I fall back again for someone.CVs can take it either way -B rejecting HS or may be exploring her feelings towatds him I want this journey to be beautiful .About realizing that she can love again if she wishes too and she deserves to love back too.

Minnie's take on this can also be interesting.As per the show theme(daughter guiding mother to follow her heart) it might be that she makes B realize her feelings and may be help HS and B to be together.Or it can be also that she doesn't approve of it as she fears her babes might be hurt again.That children's role in the life of single parent can be another issue or point that CVs can put.

So I don't mind seeing this track and how CVs bring it to our TVs will be interesting.

U have nicely put that down and yes that can be another angle. I am anyways for her marriage and falling in love so that point matches in our case. My only issue was somehow I don’t see Babita falling in love with HS, maybe my mind is not accepting. I feel her track would be more where she explores her feelings and yes as u said it could be HS it could also be someone else. But honestly it could be anyone even HS. Maybe the track going the traditional way is not acceptable for me.

Already they are showing an issue with Ashok’s business which agn is not required. That also can be a happy ending and this also can be. But anyways that liberty again the creative team takes.

In Babita HS case somehow I feel the bond shown should remain.

hey i can understand your pov.if they not shown hanuman feeling before that then may be i might prefer also another guy for babita.but now i can't see hanuman heart break who are really a golden hearted guy.he is my most favourite character in the show.i want my life partner like H.S😆.

but i understand that if they show hanuman & babita as only friends especially hanuman singh who really a mentor & guide for him then it become more better.it can break stereotypes of those people who think " ladka ladki dost nahi ban sakte" or who think that a guy can never helped other without any benefit especially a man to woman.or who think a man & woman can never share a pure & innocent relationship without any romantic angle.

but now its ok for me.i really like the chemistry between hanita

Originally posted by: Rosellia

hey i can understand your pov.if they not shown hanuman feeling before that then may be i might prefer also another guy for babita.but now i can't see hanuman heart break who are really a golden hearted guy.he is my most favourite character in the show.i want my life partner like H.S😆.

but i understand that if they show hanuman & babita as only friends especially hanuman singh who really a mentor & guide for him then it become more better.it can break stereotypes of those people who think " ladka ladki dost nahi ban sakte" or who think that a guy can never helped other without any benefit especially a man to woman.or who think a man & woman can never share a pure & innocent relationship without any romantic angle.

but now its ok for me.i really like the chemistry between hanita

S same point. If HS would have been a girl it would have been a bond, if HS is a guy it has to be love. U know this whole issue where a girl and a guy has to be compulsorily in a relationship is kind of irritating for me. As in not that I m against it but always this is the track it has to take. Can’t there ever be friendship, trust, support just like one person could be for another. In the process if both fall in love that is wonderful. But if one does not then we have a problem. I m just saying it is for BAbita to decide whether she wants to marry HS or not. I know it is fiction but why not think this way and not the same typical regular movie ways.

Rather this is a serial so finally Babita and HS track would be shown, as a track is more audience prone. But in reality this is not necessary. Babita can or can not have feelings for HS, that is ok. Since this is a serial we just have it working the way we want and creative team also follows one track.

I do agree with that Ashok part with you totally..all this business drowning thing was not needed..

And yes I do wish we get some glimses of B feelings for HS..

I love your point of view - I generally write in YUDKBH forum but I watch and love this show too. Reading the discussion in your post, I felt like giving my two cents.

Of course it is Minnie’s and Babita’s story but why can’t it still be their story with mom falling in love or remarrying again? I am in my early 40s and I have seen the state of mind of my divorced friends. Believe me, the reactions of the kids make or break the relationships.

Kids can be the ultimate motivator in single mom’s life but they can also become the reason why moms are bogged down or are refrained from achieving their happiness. I too want to see Babita succeed as an entrepreneur and as a working women but I also want to see her personal side thrive. We as a society forget that moms are human beings too and as human have desires to find romantic love. Till now Minnie has been Babita’s motivating factor – helping her overcome the challenges in life. The last thing I want to see is Minnie being the reason why Babita fails to find second chance in love. Look at Babita – she herself acknowledges she never knew what it feels to falls in love because she loved Ashok out of the social obligation of being married to him. Her love for him was merely social conditioning rather than true reflection of her feelings. Not only will finding love be an exhilarating experience for her but I also feel that if Babita falls in love again, she will find in her heart to completely forgive what Ashok has done to her. The best revenge one can take with your ex is to forgive and forget him and finding that special love generally helps eliminate animosity people hold against the exes. Babita may or may not fall in love with Hanuman Singh, but she should always keep the option open to fall in love and to experience that special thing that every person deserve to feel once in the lifetime.

Having said all that I can assure you that without Minnie’s affirmative support, Babita and HS will never happen. Yeah, determination of the love story unknowingly rests Minnie’s hand and therefore whether Babita rises as an entrepreneur or decides to remarry; it is always Minnie-Babita story.