AnuPre/ParIca AT#37- Na hona kabhi tu juda ❤️ - Page 111

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

I think prerna’s actions towards anurag have always been consistent in this regard. When you love someone even in your anger and you hurt you can never think about hurting them. Yes you may want them to regret their actions and not repeat it but apologies have no place in true love. Even in the most painful moment of the anurag betrayal in the hospital prerna said that the one thing she cannot do is to hurt him back. Which is why her actions in the Basu house were confused. She care to take revenge but all she did was try to make him see reason and make him notice her even by joining up with vikrant.

So to that extent prerna not wanting an apology from him is exactly right in love and exactly how prerna’s character would behave. Anurag’s need to do it to redeem his character is another point.

Its not that she forgave, I want to understand Pres total lack of hurt. It's making difficult to understand her.

I heard eri saying in one of the interviews recently.... Pre thinks it's a sacrifice so she might forgive anu...

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Can I ask one thing, just to know, would you be so cool and indifferent as how pre is to Anurag's mistakes had the same happend to you, since everyone here is talking a out forgiveness in true love, I just wanted to understand.

Its not that she forgave, I want to understand Pres total lack of hurt. It's making difficult to understand her.

What you said in the other thread about men always haven’t a soft corner for their moms, that’s not something I see in my real life that men are blind to their moms. So the reality is that I would take one look at Mohini basus and said “Ok Tata Bye Bye. I know you are uber hot and nice Anurag Basu but so not worth the Mohini-aggro” 🤣🤣

But jokes apart, for the people I truly love I am always willing to forgive. Love is not a balance sheet that needs perfect credit and debit. What makes you question your love and the relationship (whether their are friendships or lovers) stops working is when you repeatedly forgive and forget and get nothing in return.

Loved today's epi, Loved the Kitchen romance, Flirty Anu, Blushing Pre, Pre being apologetic for troubling Anu n Anu blaming himself for giving her reasons n pushing her to do so. Its a step towards Actual confession (i hope)

Anupam is the best! he knows that to say to Anu, and he was perfectly right when he said that each n every moment is perfect when u are in love!

The sui-dhaaga scene was so cute!

Nivi-Anupam have my heart! I am so happy to see this changed Nivi!

Mohini is the most irritating! God!!

Hope after the kidnapping fiasco Anupre will confess!

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

I think prerna’s actions towards anurag have always been consistent in this regard. When you love someone even in your anger and you hurt you can never think about hurting them. Yes you may want them to regret their actions and not repeat it but apologies have no place in true love. Even in the most painful moment of the anurag betrayal in the hospital prerna said that the one thing she cannot do is to hurt him back. Which is why her actions in the Basu house were confused. She care to take revenge but all she did was try to make him see reason and make him notice her even by joining up with vikrant.

So to that extent prerna not wanting an apology from him is exactly right in love and exactly how prerna’s character would behave. Anurag’s need to do it to redeem his character is another point.

Beautiful explanation!! And so true! when in love u will never hurt that person or want to see that person in pain!👍🏼

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

I think prerna’s actions towards anurag have always been consistent in this regard. When you love someone even in your anger and you hurt you can never think about hurting them. Yes you may want them to regret their actions and not repeat it but apologies have no place in true love. Even in the most painful moment of the anurag betrayal in the hospital prerna said that the one thing she cannot do is to hurt him back. Which is why her actions in the Basu house were confused. She care to take revenge but all she did was try to make him see reason and make him notice her even by joining up with vikrant.

So to that extent prerna not wanting an apology from him is exactly right in love and exactly how prerna’s character would behave. Anurag’s need to do it to redeem his character is another point.

Prerna is the most underrated character of this show, and first ever FL I have witnessed who is very transparent. She is as transparent as glass. Not only as his love interest, she was transparent with him from beginning she always showed her discomfort regards to Naveen openly, she never tried to hide it instead always used to ask him to stay away as it's her personal choice to get married to Naveen.

She was transparent with her hatred, care, love disgust and today her apology. One trait of her I really want to keep them constant.

In fact Anurag and Prerna both are similar in this, both can't fake to save their lives but thing is Anurag coves it quickly after knowing he messed up, Prerna don't that's the difference between them

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

Can I ask one thing, just to know, would you be so cool and indifferent as how pre is to Anurag's mistakes had the same happend to you, since everyone here is talking a out forgiveness in true love, I just wanted to understand.

Its not that she forgave, I want to understand Pres total lack of hurt. It's making difficult to understand her.

And mily i should clarify that I’m not saying that anurag should not apologise. His apology is necessary or even essential to maintain the integrity of his character the same way prerna quickly forgiving anurag or not even needing an apology is necessary to maintain the integrity of hers.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

What you said in the other thread about men always haven’t a soft corner for their moms, that’s not something I see in my real life that men are blind to their moms. So the reality is that I would take one look at Mohini basus and said “Ok Tata Bye Bye. I know you are uber hot and nice Anurag Basu but so not worth the Mohini-aggro” 🤣🤣

But jokes apart, for the people I truly love I am always willing to forgive. Love is not a balance sheet that needs perfect credit and debit. What makes you question your love and the relationship (whether their are friendships or lovers) stops working is when you repeatedly forgive and forget and get nothing in return.

We all do that small compromises and let goings in life, but something as big as this needs a well thought out apology from Anurag so that pre can trust him again and Anurag should once understand the magnitude of pain that she went through, explicitly, not this implicit subtle beating around the Bush, Anurag needs to go full out and apologize, Pre has to and will forgive but also has to pour her heart out as to how she felt, keeping things to ur self does not improve ur relationship, I don't understand that Indian way of handling relationships, when u bare ur soul to someone ur relationship becomes stronger, u and ur partner become one and the same. That's what true souls mate is. That's what true love is, not just mindless sacrifices for material things as kasautii professes.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

And mily i should clarify that I’m not saying that anurag should not apologise. His apology is necessary or even essential to maintain the integrity of his character the same way prerna quickly forgiving anurag or not even needing an apology is necessary to maintain the integrity of hers.

With great love comes great wounds, those don't go away so quickly. Pres total lack of feeling is hard to believe.

When ur not forgiving someone, it does not mean that u r weak, it means that u have not healed, and for such self proclaimed great love, the pain and wounds are equally deep, so it takes a lot of time for u to come to terms with it, Pre has astonishingly no issues after such a humongous issue, come one, that's hard to believe. It's almost like she is a blank slate, devoid of emotions.

Originally posted by: abhiya_12

Prerna is the most underrated character of this show, and first ever FL I have witnessed who is very transparent. She is as transparent as glass. Not only as his love interest, she was transparent with him from beginning she always showed her discomfort regards to Naveen openly, she never tried to hide it instead always used to ask him to stay away as it's her personal choice to get married to Naveen.

She was transparent with her hatred, care, love disgust and today her apology. One trait of her I really want to keep them constant.

In fact Anurag and Prerna both are similar in this, both can't fake to save their lives but thing is Anurag coves it quickly after knowing he messed up, Prerna don't that's the difference between them

This!! Remember pre also said the same thing to Anurag during the riots...that she knows he is emotional too just like her..but he can cover up easily n in her case the more she tries the more it's visible...