Commenting again for the edited,
My point is if the sons call AJ papa then the bahus should also call him sasur ji. WHat's the point of inconsistency
Just like the bahus call him AJ , the "sons" also need to call him AJ
Stating a fact :-
Bahus have very clearly stated from their own mouth, to an outsider criticizing AJ in the 1st episode itself that. Their sasur is young & that's why they call him AJ but they don't respect him any less than their real sasur [according to them]
Now agree or disagree with them, but they provided this ^ fact to justify the inconsistency.
My pov on that, (again free to disagree, no saaza-e-maut for that)
Its not really easy & comfortable to call someone young sasurji suddenly after entering a sasural. They must have started calling him AJ like outsiders & he didn't seem to mind so they continued. They started calling Guddu sasuma in a mocking way which later became a habit.
To AJ, Sons come before the bahus. Just cause Bahus (who came a lot later in their lives) do it doesn't mean they too should call their foster father by his initial in place of "papa". AJ must have done fatherly duties towards them hence "Papa" comes from them naturally.
Edited by captainplus - 6 years ago