Since last week many thing happened but, in last two episodes Jindal saab answered all the questions that was raised on him, when blurted out "that he and Guddan don't have a normal husband wife like relation & it can never be so"
which apparently he did so as to put a full stop on everyone's mind from thinking on that subject & stop bua ji from calling 111 pundits & distributing ladoos. Had he not done so, & answered something else, an expectation would have been left from them that they would have to face daily. Yes people might not have been vocal but that doesn't meant the silent question of "khush khabri kab de rahe ho ?" in the eyes of the gharwale could not have been seen & felt by both of them.
Yes he acted "selfish" but "selfish" for both of them as he too knows, facing these questions daily from gharwale would be as embarrassing for her as it is for him. He has a way of escaping to restaurant but at the moment she doesn't. In this case, better be "selfish" than being "mahaan" & bear the family's expectations ka bojh.
He was expected to apologize to guddu for hurting her but did he knew she was hurt ? to know she was hurt he had to know the reason she could have been hurt, which she herself didn't knew so how could he ?
But he gave her the required answer without even knowing that his words has hurt her earlier but cause he knows only she deserves to know what is in his heart regarding this relation between the two. She deserves to know that he really didn't mean what he blurted out to satisfy the demand of the moment. She deserves this answer that gave her sukoon,
"Sahi Kaha Tumne Guddan, Hum donom iss dhaage ke do sirom ki tarah hai,Ek damm alag lekin yeh sire mil sakte hai Guddan....Haan zarurat hai toh thode waqt ki thode patience ki....SAFAR LAMBA HAI HAMARE BEECH MEIN LEKIN JAB TAK HUM DONOM KADAM NAHI BADAYENGE TAB TAK YEH CHOR ISSI TARAH EK DUSARE SE DOOR RAHENGE.....Mana ki hamari pasand, hamari aadatein bahut alag hai, hamari soch bhi alag hai lekin usse koi farak nahi padta hai....AGAR IMPORTANT HAI TOH BASS EK DUSARE KO SAMAJHNE KI......BASS YUHI EK KADAM TUM BADAVO AUR EK KADAM MAIN AUR YU KADAM SE KADAM MILAKAR CHALTE RAHENGE NA TOH EK DIN HAMARI AADATEIN, HAMARI SOCH, HAMARI PASAND AUR HAMARI MANZILEIN SAB MIL JAAYENGE...... Agar yuhi hum ek dusare ki taraf kadam badate rahe na toh sab normal ho jaayega"
[bina permission Saranya ki post se chapa maar di ! ]
He used the phase "Sab normal ho jaayega" as opposed to his earlier, "the relation between them is not of normal husband wife" to imply what is he referring to & Guddu's smile here said she is satisfied & at peace as she got to hear what she wanted,
[credit to Saranya]
But somewhere a part of her wanted to know more precisely in detail & hence she tried to ask him more direct,
& he kept looking at her without blinking or looking away without a movement in his facial muscle. No, that isn't the look of a guy who is "eating" his own words. He was reading her & waiting for her to complete whatever she is saying.
Its she who averted her gaze from him. Yes a part of her wanted to know more detail but was she really ready & prepared to hear the precise answer to the question she was about to ask ? could she really take that at this point of their relation ?
Seeing her stammering while asking this question & lowering her eyes,
considering the point of relation they are in,
& also taking clues from background line that was playing during the precise moment, "....dil ko khud ka pata milta nahi..." exactly when she lowers her eyes, which hints she has no idea what she is doing,
I would say NO.
No matter how curious she was to know more, at this moment, she is not prepared to hear any answer even if it is positive. It will be too jaldbaazi.
the look of AJ here says, he understood what she wanted to ask & didn't ask. But doesn't her hesitancy to complete her question alert him of her unpreparedness of accepting any answer to that i.e. positive or negative ?
Knowing him I would say yes.
But that comes later, firstly, should he speak even before she even completes her question & give answer to something which she is asking with considerable level of stammering ? Should he answer a question, that she is struggling to even pronounce ? Should he do this jaldbaazi ?
Here too NO cause like she is not prepared to receive the answer (which he knows), he too is not prepared to give the answer. Both need time for that. Its a very huge thing & koi Jaldbaazi nahi honi chaiye. At this moment even if the answer was positive, it would have made their beautiful so-called "dosti" awkward. Guddu seems to have understood it that she isn't prepared & Jindal saab doesn't do Jaldbaazi.
But does that means AJ doesn't mean what he says ? For me, being patient & taking things forward slowly with maturity isn't equivalent to going back on words. I don't know about others but after seeing the journey of Khadoos AJ to Guddan's Jindal saab, at least I have learned this much to,
Cause whenever he says anything, "Dli se", he means 100 % of it
Baki jiski maarzi jo sochle... mujhe sirf apna nazariya saamne rakhna tha....😳
A request to Dil lene wali Saranya:- I noticed while making this post that the female lines played during these gifs wali moment are not in the official video but those were going with the scene very well. So can you add those in your post too ? please... 😳
Kumkum Bhagya
