Kuhu Ki Kashti Ka Konservative & Klueless Kaptaan- Kunal! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Yes over her Kunal looks like he has teeny weeny traits of MCP attitude. It didn't sound right when he told Mishti you are my responsibility.

Why is she a beast of burden just because Meenakshi forced her on you !! It is the attitude which sucks.

A note about. Abir does not have the aura of man who will sweep a girl off her feet. I mean it is just not Mishti, he has friend zoned kuhu too. Not a guy where by girls just fall for, he is Mishti's 3 am buddy. Seedha , Sada, bola bala ladka.

Sorry he isn't passionate enough. Dev was a package for Sonakshi.😊

IMO there cannot be another character like Dev and who can forget his confession . He was too good to be true but unfortunately he wasn’t appreciated enough .The makers were fool to shape a story based on few selected SNS comments .They spoiled the show and FL character .

Abir is someone with whom you can have a good relationship with mutual understanding and love but not a passionate affair/romance . He is no mills and boon hero

Originally posted by: yyyy

Haha ..loved reading your post . I remembered the saying “never judge a book by its cover “ . Kunal seems perfect from far but only after getting to know him you will realize he is narrow minded and doesn’t have a mind of his own . He blindly follows his mom’s direction and one good example is the wallet case where he wanted to follow his mom’s instruction blindly even though there were other ways to handle the situation .

I think this is what makers are trying to portray that you need to know your partner really well before agreeing to marry Him .I am being patient with the cross connection with the hope that Mishti will say no to Kunal when she realizes his thinking might not go well with a independent girl like her not because she feel for Abir .This would be I sync with the concept of the show courtship through which Mishti saved herself from a disastrous marriage

I cannot help compare him to his older brother Abir .Though brought up in the same environment both brothers are so different in their thinking one is focusing on empowering women while other believes in suppressing women .Its not about women but in general Abir has a independent thinking who doesn’t get influenced by others easily .After a long time ITV has seen a male lead with brains .I just hope he stays this way

Kuhu is too immature to realize the real Kunal yet and not sure if she is mature enough to realize marriage based on attraction won’t last long but a real partner is one who can stand by you during tough times and can encourage you to grow instead of cutting down your wings .

Absolutely agree with you. Kunal was a dissapointment today. When a highly educated guy like him have such mentality, then you know what kind of world we live in. I hope this twist in courtship will actually open our eyes and make us realise that only good looks are not enough for a woman. Liking the way story took sudden turn.

Originally posted by: yyyy

IMO there cannot be another character like Dev and who can forget his confession . He was too good to be true but unfortunately he wasn’t appreciated enough .The makers were fool to shape a story based on few selected SNS comments .They spoiled the show and FL character .

Abir is someone with whom you can have a good relationship with mutual understanding and love but not a passionate affair/romance . He is no mills and boon hero

i feel abir is romantic and passionate one even

he knows to plan date and impress a girl

once mishti will confess he will be the most romantic one passionate ho ya na ho because according to itv passionate means to manhandle not trust etc

so in that way he will not be passionate but definetly romantic lover boy

Originally posted by: Anuka3

Absolutely agree with you. Kunal was a dissapointment today. When a highly educated guy like him have such mentality, then you know what kind of world we live in. I hope this twist in courtship will actually open our eyes and make us realise that only good looks are not enough for a woman. Liking the way story took sudden turn.

this is truth

it is not the story of small town but big town even in real life

my brother who has own business in ahmedabad not allow his wife to work so in real life its true

someone says its just to create drama because a well educated foreign guy cant do this but they only do this as they have alot of money

in middle clas family they allow everyone to work even encourage girls to increase family income

Originally posted by: gaushiv13

this is truth

it is not the story of small town but big town even in real life

my brother who has own business in ahmedabad not allow his wife to work so in real life its true

someone says its just to create drama because a well educated foreign guy cant do this but they only do this as they have alot of money

in middle clas family they allow everyone to work even encourage girls to increase family income

Thats very sad. And im sorry to hear that you have experienced that in your family. You are right, this happens mostly in urban cities nowadays. Village mein they allow women to work but in big cities, wealthy families they consider woman working outside as an embarrasement. Shame on people who have such mentality. You are living in 2019 where world is at your fingertips and then you see such men Less said the better.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Yes over her Kunal looks like he has teeny weeny traits of MCP attitude. It didn't sound right when he told Mishti you are my responsibility.

Why is she a beast of burden just because Meenakshi forced her on you !! It is the attitude which sucks.

A note about. Abir does not have the aura of man who will sweep a girl off her feet. I mean it is just not Mishti, he has friend zoned kuhu too. Not a guy where by girls just fall for, he is Mishti's 3 am buddy. Seedha , Sada, bola bala ladka.

Sorry he isn't passionate enough. Dev was a package for Sonakshi.😊

What's wrong with a "Seedha, Sada bola bala ladka"? I think they are very cute.😆 Such guys hide their passionate side behind their chirpy exterior, which only reveals itself in the right time. 😉

Both Dev and Abir are played by Shaheer, I am sure there would be earthquake in the knees of all the girls who watch the future romantic scenes. It would be interesting to see that transformation in Abir.

Originally posted by: clarity

Hey all!

As you can see, for my post title, I am inspired by the OG of Indian TV, the kween- Kekta Kapoor. 🙏

I remember there was a time when people prayed Kunal would escape Kuhu's clutches. I always felt it should be Kuhu who should be running for her life and looks like I am right. 😛

Our Katch of Kuchch aka Kunal is quickly showing that he is his mother's son and whoever marries him will have a tough time managing his kuirks. #mammasboy #mummykaghulam

He is raised by Ultra-Conservative Personal Feminist Meenakshi aka feminism is only for her but all the women around her have to be gaays and bakris.

Keeping that in mind, I have decided to tell Meenu ki Kunal ke liye ek rishta aaya hai.

Introducing...

Mute-akshi Kumari from Kuchch. She is mute keeping in mind Meenakshi's wish for a bahu who is seen but not heard.

Anyway, it was annoying to hear Meenakshi and Kunal say 'Why will Ketki work when her brothers are there to provide for her?' So, the only reason a woman would want to work is if her male relatives can't provide for her. OKAY. 😳

Work is for everyone. Maybe if they empowered Ketki to be financially independent, the only aim of her life would not be to marry a suitable guy. What if they had not found out about Ved and Ketki did get married to him? If they found out later and Ketki was left in an unsavoury situation, wouldn't a job help her hold her own? 🤓

Which weird world are they living in? Especially because Meenakshi is the family matriarch who runs the show. Are these the values Kunal has imbibed from his mother who raised him on her own, without the help of a male figure? It doesn't make any sense for Kunal to be so conservative when he works for his own mother, for God's sake. Now, he lets his mom work so does that mean he is not doing his duty towards her? Mishti is his responsibility after marriage, yes, but how can you impose your archaic values on her? You have to be a good husband to her and not her guardian. Uske liye doosre log hain.

Kunal is a typical conservative male who has a polished exterior. He looks 'modern' but is the furthest thing from it. I feel sorry that Kuhu in her immaturity has glorified him in her head. She is going to be in for a rude shock when she ends up stuck between Meenakshi and Kunal's 16th century sexism. Kuhu complains that Mishti takes away what comes to her but here she can do the stealing and will not realise she is doing Mishti the biggest favour of her life. 😆

I know he will change with time but I think the impact of these 'low intensity' sexists deserves to be talked about. There are many guys like Kunal around us who don't seem sexist when we talk to them- in our schools/colleges, offices, neighbourhoods etc. At a glance, they seem perfect, like he did to Kuhu. It's when you dig deeper that these issues come up- through relationships, friendships.

I have also noticed a trend of TV shows portraying attractive low intensity sexists changing due to the female lead, case in point, Uma Shankar in Rhea's show Tu Sooraj Main Saanjh Piyaji. This is a dishonest representation, IMO for a few reasons 1. The attractiveness of said man is supposed to compensate for his crappy personality and outdated beliefs 2. They will change thanks to their wives. Such men are not good partners, whether they are attractive or not. I hope girls and women watching these shows will not romanticise such behaviour and think things will get better because they have 'chemistry' with a hot but otherwise unimpressive guy.

So, here's my verdict on Kunal, Kuhu style-

#konservative #klueless #notakatch

Bravo for this post!

First of all, the man will magically change due to the woman he loves is a load of rubbish and ITV should stop showing such nonsense IMO!

While it's romantic, it gives the young girls watching such false expectations! You see behaviour you don't like, and Harbor expectations that he will change due to your "love"!!! Phoooph!!

Coming to the show, watching Kunal spout dialogues belonging to the last century made me cringe big time! I am aware that such men do exist in this date too, but just didn't expect it from Kunal who was raised by his single mom who single handedly handled home and office! It was just jarring.

Why didnt he ask Mishti what SHE wanted ? Yes, MishBir is end game - but do they need to butcher kunals character to establish that???? Duhhhh

Loved reading all of your inputs, guys.

TV and movies have a tendency of romanticising the 'opposites attract' trope. While it can happen, one has to realise that you cannot change hardened criminals or extremely orthodox people whether it is your husband or your MIL.

When these shows depict the bahus not giving up and finally 'reforming' these men and their families, it is annoying and overdone. I can literally name at least 10 such shows off the top of my head- Madhubala, Laado 2, IPK1, 2 and 3, Tujhse Hai Raabta and more. I remember IPK 2 on SP with Shrenu (Aastha) and Avinash (Shlok) had this trope. Shlok was a raging misogynist who apparently became that way due to some girl's dhokha. Just because one girl cheated on you does not mean you go around punishing all women. 🙄

They should stop using these dark pasts to justify male leads' misogyny. There was a scene on this show where Aastha was asked to wash Shlok's feet and then drink that water as part of some pooja Matlab to justify their stupid storylines, the CVs will invent fictitious rituals. Jai ho 🙏 Not just this, but the whole show involved Shlok torturing Aastha and finally 'changing' when he realises his Baba is an abusive psychopath. There are so many hit shows which involve MLs abusing, insulting, manipulating, manhandling FLs and their families. This is passed off as love by inserting a few fall-catch scenes and eyelocks. Sorry, but they are encouraging girls to romanticise these 'bad boys'. IRL, you only get thenga ve with such men not rabba ve. The 'rich, arrogant, philandering male lead' falling for the 'sanskari, middle class, righteous' female lead is so OVERDONE.

Also, a love-hate story where opposites attract does not have to involve abuse, for God's sake. 😵

Abir is one of the best male leads in recent times. He is caring, respectful and does not push&pull women like they're doors. Seemingly perfect guys like Kunal can actually be imperfect. This is a good topic to address. I know Kunal will eventually change due to Kuhu and MishBir's influence, but I have to say, this does not happen IRL. I want to encourage all women to find partners who have healthy mindsets. You shouldn't have to turn someone into a good person. That is their job.

I wonder how they will tackle KuKu once these issues start coming in between them. Once KuKu are married, Meenakshi will target Kuhu along with Mishti. Kunal, unlike Abir does not have a mind of his own where he will investigate his mother's actions. Kuhu is the type to just say what she feels, so I am sure she will not be tactful when accusing Meenakshi lol.

Your choice of Kunal's bride literally left me in splits.🤣 It's strange that Kunal who has been brought up by a working mother single hand should consider banning Mishti from working.