Originally posted by: Samanalyse
I think you are on the nose with your critique here. The thing I see with this show is that they are confused between being a TRP-puller and having deeper characterisation and a proper plot. On the one hand, they want to introduce all these complex plot elements like the rishta confusion, but on the other don't really want to spend time on characterisation, which makes all of these plot elements seem contrived and meaningless.
The safe, predictable and dependable-TRP-pulling plot we all suspected when the show started, and in the first few weeks, was that Kunal and Kuhu's rishta would be fixed in the good old fashioned way, but because bade-papa and Meenu wanted their older kids married first/on the same mandap, Mishti and Abir would be pressured to marry each other as well. Then Mishti would be torn between supporting her sister and wanting to know her potential partner before she decided to marry him. I still think that this would have been the smart way to do it. Is it cliched? Sure, but people love cliches (yours truly included!) if they are well-executed -- this is pretty much how the parent show has been so successful. That would have also kept the mystery and curiosity around Big Ben alive for when Mishti and Kuhu became her bahus -- by making her outwardly evil so early on, they have sacrificed months and months of potential drama and curiosity.
I could see this rishta drama working if it were in a finite format, but that is very far from the case here. The wait to see Misthi and Abir together seems interminable (knowing that they are the leads from the intro) and that will inevitably drive viewers away. In the end, they are neither catering to "mass" nor "class" audience, and have made a huge mess of what could have been a really sweet, fun, and relatively low-effort/high-return show. All is not lost, and they have a pretty great cast so they can turn this thing around if they act fast.