Khatta Nimboda Aayo Re Bua Analysis

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Khatta Nimboda Aya Re Part 1

Bua’s motto SachHamesha Kavdha aur Kalyankari Hota Hai. Truth is bitter but it is benefit forall. Similar to how Nimbu is sour but it benefits the body.

Buaji is the Khatta Nimboda that is needed in Guddan life to balance her sweetness, her kindness & her innocence & her heart, her forgiving nature.Guddan nature is clean& clear like a water. If we had the combination of Buaji (Khatta Nimboda)Lemon with Guddan Pani. Many people start their day with Lemon water for better health.

Bua’s entry marks a new journey for Guddan being Saas, adding a little bit of Nimbu in her life, to balance her Sweetness Nature so she isn’t taken advantage of her.

Pre Buaji EntryEvents that occurred

->Akshat Jindal in front of his family accepted GuddanAKshat Jindal as his wife and their marriage. He gave her 7 vachans and committed to his wife for the rest of their life.

Akshan the head of the household, Saas & Sasur learned that one of their Dil is the Mastermind behind in instigating Angad to murder his Bhaiya and forcefully marry his Bhabi in order to separate Saas Sasur.Jindal Bahu crossed her Maryada.

->Deep down Akshat Jindal knows that Saraswati is not that dangerous Mastermind & she doesn’t have a huge problem with SaasumaGuddan. Sarus only ambition is to work at his restaurant and show her talent.AJ didn’t give a punishment, yell or scold at the Mastermind. In the initial days he told Guddan, AkshatJindal never gives small punishment, I give person the punishment that the culprit never forgets for the rest of their life.

->His wife was disrespected in his House & he was hurt! Since the Day 1 of his marriage with Guddan Gupta cum Jindal, he told hisBahus to accept Guddan as their Saas, give her the same Respect that a JindalBahu deserves. AJ reminded all three of his Bahus time and time again, repeating himself (which he hates) that don’t forget that despite her age in Auda & Rishta Guddan Akshat Jindal is their Saas, be in your Maryada, don’t blame her for every mistakes or problem occur in the house. AJ as head of the household & FIL he was tired of giving & repeating the same lectures to his 3 DILs especially Durga who only purpose became toblame & kick his wife Guddan AKshatJindal outof Jindal Bhavan & his life. (Christmas Kand, Reception, & MS Breaking Kand)

->He needed help, before something Major occurred he loses his wife forever or he is at crossroad to choose between his Family (Son& Dils) vs his wife.

->My assumption is: before the Mastermind was revealed,Bua’s entry was preplanned by AJ, after he returned from the mental hospital& wanted to know Mastermind behind his death & separation from his wife.

->Buaji is visiting Akshat’s family from USA. A typical flight from West Coast Los Angeles Airport to Indore with 2 stops is 27 hrs15mins and from East Cost (JFK) airport to IDR is 23hrs 55mins with 2stops.In the fear of Buaji’s arrival, two of the cunning Bahus Durga & Saraswati Calculative brain stopped working.

Part2What do we know about her?->She is the elder sister of Akshat Jindal & AngadJindal’s father & she is person who is Old fashion & Traditional. ->After her parent’s death, she managed Jindal Bhavan, her brother &their family. When Dadi entered Jindal Bhavan she is SAAS like finger to Dadi,who taught her the Sanskar, Parampara, Asool, Pratishtha, Anushaan of Jindal family.

_>After Buaji settled in America, she expected Dadi to follow n teach her upcoming future Children & Grandkids the sameSanskar,Parampara, Asool, Pratishtha,& Anushaan , in Buaji’s eyes Dadi failed to do so

Even after being married all these years the 3Dils and even Dadi failed to welcome Bua properly which she was upset about.Bua knows her Bhabhi, the 3 Dils same time as AJ, n knows what they are lacking and what their true nature is, she isnt pleased that after so many years of living in Jindal Bhavan, all 3 Bahus are not willing to learn the Rules, Traditional & Sanskar of their Sasural & the Bahus have not adapted to the Rang of their Sasural.

Lacking Qualities:

After the welcome ritual Bua was taking out theKameesof 3 Dils before Guddan entry in the living room. Bua scolded 3 Dils & from their welcoming ritual, she said youguys behavior is not proper.Bua told Dadi & even Guddan came to listen from the back: Saas duty is to properly guide/mold their Dil who is like mithi (dirt) and take the shape n direction you want.

Indirectly she was basically saying through her dialogue qualities that each of the 3 Jindal Bahus are missing before their Saas GuddanAkshat Jindal came into their life & picture.

1.)Lakshmi she washed feet & didn’t know the proper direction. Lakshmi Bahu has the quality to be a perfect Bahu, she knowshow to cook, she knows how to follow instructions & she is intelligent. But before Guddan’s entry she didn’t have the confidence or the proper direction for someone to guide her.

2.)Durga she put the wooden sandals in the wrong direction, the Eldest Bahu Sarvgunn Sampan. She has the knowledge, she seems perfect but Bua told her directly you are not that knowledge or perfect, she dislikes Durga Jindal the Sarvgunn Sampan Bahu. Guddan first all needs to open her eyes with this Perfect Sarvgun Sampan Bahu Durga Jindal, and listen to Bua that she is not perfect. She is lacking the quality of respect, love & nurtureof how to keep the family together under one rule without having Chamcha’s inform of Devranis.

3.)Saraswati Choti Bahu, giving the Ganga Jalimproperly using Left hand instead Right. It is easy for Choti the youngest member of the family, in their ambition to earn Fame & Money always go out of hand and on the wrong path. We all know that Sarawasti Jindal is not only cunning but also a Chorni. Guddan Jindal responsibility is to show her crooked Chorni Cunning Saraswati Bahu the right path.

4.)Dadi not doing the Aarti properly, before Guddancame in the picture, Dadi knew her house & family were shattered, she askedLord Krishna to send someone in her Lalla’s life to keep him happy whilekeeping her family together.

Guddan interruptedBuaji from the back told her about the Badlav she brought in Jindal Family& house. When Bua turned around there was divine flute music playing in the background.

Even though Guddan interrupted, Bua didn’t scold her. Guddan is young, she is innocent, her face smiling & welcoming which is reaching her eyes. Buaji saw a simple wife and Dulhan of her nephew Akshat Jindal, Maang mein Sindoor, Gale me Mangalsuit,Hathon mein AJ ka naam ka Khandani Kangan, ek haath mein choodiyas. FromGuddans dressing sense, people can see she didn’t marry her husband for money,she chooses not to show off. Even though Guddan has most expensive jewelry money can buy from Khandani to modern Diamond jewelry in latest style because she is very simple person, she is not fake or show off. Another thing Bua wise eye saw about Guddan she is simple yet modern but traditional wife, her WeddingShringar (MS & Sindooris valuable to her) and she respect Tradition and deserves AJ naam ka Kangan which isParampara of Jindal Family.

When Guddan did Bua’sAarti, divine music was playing, meaning already she won the heart of Buaji.Guddan who didn’t have a proper mum like guidance, surprised Bua ji & all 4 of the Jindalladies with her Aarti & greeting Buajis feet by pressing her legs, she won her heart, & brought a genuine smile on Bua face, even Sarvgunn Sampan Dayan was shocked.Bushan Gupta taught greatSanskar & Values to his daughter, he should be so proud of her.

Bua gave her blessing, which shocked 3 Bahus especially Durga was jealous. It is not easy to win Bua’s heart. Bua put all of her 5 fingers to bless Guddan on her hand it was like a Grip. Future indication Bua is going to teach Guddna how to be strict & understand the nature of people in her house, which Guddansometimes oversees.

Bua’s first impression of Guddan: Guddan is Adarsh Bahu, respecting Elders knows her culture & values. Bua told that Guddan is (will become) Ideal Saas who knows how to be teacher and Bahus are students.

Saas and Bahus are not equal, Saas is elder the teacher while Bahus should obey & follow theSaas instructions like an obedient student.

Bua Cooking OpinionBua mentioned that unless a woman doesn’t show her Magic in Kitchen by cooking she cannot control her house. Bua said that Guddan is Akshat Jindal’s choice,she trusts the choice of her nephew, who is similar to her in thoughts, &he knows how to read & understand people.

Guddan listened to tothe advice of her husband, she listened to her heart & mind, followed her Asool that not lying to the yourfamily member, she spoke the truth. Told Buaji that she doesn’t know cooking but she has the passion to Learn.

After Guddan ended her drama, Bua wasn’t Strict Wala Gussa on Guddanbut Naraaz on her that she was told lie that she hates. Bua was more angry on her Bhabhi for making her Bahu go through theNatak.

Is for Guddan was to prove in 48hrsthat Gudan can be a role model & manage her Bahus with her Dosti wala technique.

My Analysis: Bua is the first family member/relative that is introduced from Akshat side. Shanti Bua is a prominent& influential member of Jindal family, we see Jalak of where Akshat Jindal got his Kathor,Sanskar,Parampara,Asool, Pratishtha, & Anushaan from.

Both Bua and Guddan are going to learn from each other. Bua is going to learn to treat her Bahus with affection & motherly love that sometimes are Bahusimilar to Guddan never unfortunately receives. After leaving their parents house,a Bahu seeks a mother like figure in their Saas.

Guddan knows the responsibility of the Saas, after Bua’s guidance she is going to be a Saas. First thing similar to how between her hubby and herself she has accepted that Age is number. With her Bahus Guddan will need to also accept that age is number, especially with Durga Kishore Jindal who she considers a Elder Sister. She is not going to over look the mistakes of her 3 Bahus, which they take advantage of. She is going to punish them and teach them to correct their mistakes.

Bahus also need to let go of Guddan’s age & lack of experience. They need to first accept her as part of their family member. Understand that Guddan Akshat Jindal is here to stay & she is part of their family whether they accept or not. Even if Bahus dont like Guddan they need to give RESPECT to her because in Auda & Rishta she is Elder.

Intezaar: want to see interaction of Bua with Pervy (he is going to be bashed for being Ghar Jamai& living in sister’s Sasural)

I want to see how does she treat Angad, Akshat Jindal is her favorite nephew & she fondlycalls him Lalla, he is a son to her.

Lomri &Buaji’s interaction.I have feeling after Buaji meets Lomri, and learns that she is Guddan’s step mother. Bua will become a mother figure to Guddan, instead of having Dosti wala relationship,she is going to have Mother-Beti wala relationship, she is going to be strictbut going to teach Guddan cooking and how to be strict so people don’t playwith her emotions & kind nature.

Bua’sinteraction with Kishore & Vardan Jindal since they are adopted son ofLalla and not really. Feels like through upcoming misunderstanding baby track,it may be revealed to Guddan that Vardan & Kishore Jindal are not her husband's biological sons.

Beautifully penned

At the end of the track both bua and guddan will learn something from each other even i feel if she learnes about lomri and the struggles which guddan have gone through she will become a mother figure to guddan similar to dadi bua is very good at judging people she is already impressed with guddan's honesty and i feel she knows dayan's true nature as she was kind of expecting her to do chamchagiri and plaaning against her saasuma bua didnt said that she will throw guddan out of jindal house rather she said she will sudharo her and will make her strict

Ps-copied from ur other post

Wonderful analysis and superb writing

This entry of Bua is needed in Guddan life because her theory to maintain relationships with friendship is good but there are some situations in life where you need to strict and hard to maintain the decorum of relationship.

Guddan and AJ both are head of house so they should know about time when they should be friends and when to be saas sasur. Sometimes strict behaviour is needed. I liked the way Bua reminded all 3 bahus that age of Guddan is less than theirs age but Guddan position holds very high priority and power which needs to be respected.

At the end of track both Bua and Guddan will learn something new about relationship.

Originally posted by: *Piku*

My Analysis: Bua is the first family member/relative that is introduced from Akshat side. Shanti Bua is a prominent& influential member of Jindal family, we see Jalak of where Akshat Jindal got his Kathor,Sanskar,Parampara,Asool, Pratishtha, & Anushaan from.

Both Bua and Guddan are going to learn from each other. Bua is going to learn to treat her Bahus with affection & motherly love that sometimes are Bahusimilar to Guddan never unfortunately receives. After leaving their parents house,a Bahu seeks a mother like figure in their Saas.

Guddan knows the responsibility of the Saas, after Bua’s guidance she is going to be a Saas. First thing similar to how between her hubby and herself she has accepted that Age is number. With her Bahus Guddan will need to also accept that age is number, especially with Durga Kishore Jindal who she considers a Elder Sister. She is not going to over look the mistakes of her 3 Bahus, which they take advantage of. She is going to punish them and teach them to correct their mistakes.

Bahus also need to let go of Guddan’s age & lack of experience. They need to first accept her as part of their family member. Understand that Guddan Akshat Jindal is here to stay & she is part of their family whether they accept or not. Even if Bahus dont like Guddan they need to give RESPECT to her because in Auda & Rishta she is Elder.

Intezaar: want to see interaction of Bua with Pervy (he is going to be bashed for being Ghar Jamai& living in sister’s Sasural)

I want to see how does she treat Angad, Akshat Jindal is her favorite nephew & she fondlycalls him Lalla, he is a son to her.

Lomri &Buaji’s interaction.I have feeling after Buaji meets Lomri, and learns that she is Guddan’s step mother. Bua will become a mother figure to Guddan, instead of having Dosti wala relationship,she is going to have Mother-Beti wala relationship, she is going to be strictbut going to teach Guddan cooking and how to be strict so people don’t playwith her emotions & kind nature.

Bua’sinteraction with Kishore & Vardan Jindal since they are adopted son ofLalla and not really. Feels like through upcoming misunderstanding baby track,it may be revealed to Guddan that Vardan & Kishore Jindal are not her husband's biological sons.

Awesome analysis😛👍🏼

No matter what churail does, Bua doesn't like chamchis & she doesn't hate Guddu.😳

Bua definitely knows Durga's nature & she intends to correct Guddu's ways not get rid of her.She doesn't like the idea of churail trying to show Guddu her place.😒

By going to Bua, what Durga has done is, "aa bail mujhe maar !"

So this isn't going to be pleasant for her but hume maaza aayega😛😈

I loved the way Bua was showering love on Guddu & the way she asked her to sit in front of the bahus so lovingly😳

As of now I can't say if AJ called her or not but he definitely is supporting her to teach something to Guddu.

Lets see what is "manzoor-e-cvs"

I want to see her hitting Pervy on his head for being ghar jamai & feeding off her lalla's money

I actually want her to blame Saru for driving her husband away by failing to keep his interest in her😈

Beautifully written Piku!

I'm totally excited about this track after reading this post..! 😀 And I really hope that by the end of this track, Guddan learns a thing or two about Her Durga Bahu. If not about her deeds, at least about her personality that she is not at all the way she presents herself as. 👹

And a lot of things need to cleared and straightened out between AkshAn as well. I hope it happens soon.

Perfect topic piku

Our guessing is right .

Bua is there for a reason it will teach guddan some hard lessons and bahu’s and even bua will learn to be friendly to her bahu’s

Guddan will learn balancing

Bahu’s will learn to respect saas( durga and saru can never )

One thing was visible bua had soft corner towards guddan because she knows bahu’s are not that the way they portray especially Durga

When durga was chugling bua knew it all

So challenge was thrown to test guddan

Eventually her plan will win and judgment will be passed that guddan is perfect

I don’t know this pregnancy track either plan of Durga to set challenge to akshan to bring truth of there intimacy or aj plan to catch a prey

Since we know durga is Gona do some blunder and aj might catch daiyan when trying to harm guddan and so called baby

Amazing Post

~TRULY lovedthe resemblance between pair of BuaJi-Guddan & Nimboo-Pani. A beautiful analysis of their character traits with simple example and words with an additional tip to keep ourselves Fit and Healthy

Agree, the Khattas nature of Nimboo must be added to Guddan's nature especially while performing a role of Saas, to keep her DILs in their limits especially Dayan.

~Jo Khud Ko Bada Maanta Phirta Hain, AhankaarMein Doob Jata Hain,

Auro Ko Nicha Dikha, Sabki Nazron Mein Khud Chota Ho Jata Hain.

About the Events Occurred:

I have mixed feelings about AJ's hand behind coming of Buaji. But I do feel that he doesn't buy the truth of Saraswati being Mastermind of all this. I also feel that somewhere he has doubts on family member especially Durga , from the day Guddan has suspected her being mastermind & he is using Buaji's coming & challenge as an opportunity to make everyone cleary understand that what Position, Power & Rights his wife holds in this house which he had repeated many times before ,also to reveal real mastermind and teach a good lesson to the real culprit.

About Buaji's Characterization & Lacking Qualities of Younger Generation DIL's

Perfect penned down

Guddan's Impression & Analysis Part:

Buaji being experienced and wise has already understood Guddan's simplicity ,respecting nature, and valuing cultures. Although she was upset with her show-off of being strict Saas and perfect Annapurna for household, but she is impressed with her Originality, a glimpse of which can be seen in her words " Dimaag Mein Jaale Hain, Par Mann Saaf Hain", while Guddan was offering help to Akshat. Right now she is not convinced with her ideology & feels her ideology is perfect,but later both Buaji & Guddan will realise that a mix of both their ideologies in proper proportion is needed in Saas-Bahu relationship. These proportions can vary according to time & situations. At the end of track Guddan will learnt to be strict at times, being the head lady of house & Buaji will be convinced whole heartedly with Guddan being actually the 'Precious Gem' or 'Khara Sona' which she said earlier.

Intezaar Part:

~ Interaction with Parv: IInterestingBuaji hitting him with her words will be good fun to watch.

~ Interaction with Angad: Tbh not at all interested, I really don't like Angad to eat up SS time more than half a minute.

~Interaction with Kaushalya: Keenly interested and wanted to see the after results like one which you have mentioned.

~Interaction with Kishore & Vardhaan: Sounds good but having least probability as our makers are not interested to use them more than a mere wallpaper.

Wanted the revelation of Kishore, Vardhaan & invisible Rahulnot being biological sons of Akshat before Guddan. Also her interaction with AJ privately to make him realise about the exact equation of their relation & suggesting him to take his relation ahead.