Who is basically at fault ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: myprimechicago

I guess the reason why many people are shocked on Naina's response is...

- They have always seen her patiently tolerating Obai's taunts

- She has also handled Sameer's taunts from shaadi to HM patiently...

- People are used to Sameer's impulsive Nature

But there is a break point for everyone right...

For Naina it was lost the moment she found Sameer going back from his own words and blaming/insulting her infront of both their families instead of supporting her.

I dont agree with all this dramatic twist of CVs where Sameer who never entered Kitchen makes perfect Kadhi and Naina who knows basic cooking does everything wrong.

But even if a girl messes all house hold stuff, she cant and should not tolerate the constant taunts from her hubby (Love of her life) to call her good for nothing, FAIL, Zero, Sub standard etc.

Naina taking Sameer's words literally was utterly silly and elders have full right to point out her mistake but Sameer blaming her for those things where he himself was at home all this while asking her not to enter kitchen, not to wash vessels was not right

I never liked CVs showing Naina always taking Obai's insult without uttering a word but digested it coz elders were not questioned in 90s

But Same cant go with the spouse right... Show cannot keep making Naina absorb any insult thrown on her and apologizing instead

CVs have made both Naina and Sameer act against their core nature which is frustrating but considering the events there is no way Naina should be the one apologizing to Sameer...