Who is basically at fault ?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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This post myt welcome all those who are hating N the most ryt nw..more that TT 😆.
See these days i knw we are getting N making lot of mistakes but she single handedly is nt responsible, S too is equally i feel. Do u all remember the v nxt day aftr their marg wat all happnd ? I think u all hv frgttn. S gt pissed off 1. Noodles hair 2. Mangalsutra. He gt hyper & just culdnt take it. In order to take revenge he even gt N scolded by anand & wat happnd aftr that ? The male vo himself said ki "HE CULDNT SAY SORRY TO HER" so why are u all a ftr N nw ki she shuld say sorry nt S. S has always been shwn like this..reacts impulsively. N has been shwn naive regrdng aftr marg duties/happnings. So it is obvious fr her to make mistakes at almost every point. I feel the editing & execution is nt going gud these days so the frustration is cumng out of all. Fans feel hw cum N be like boneless..why isnt she undrstng S's desires & fulfilling his duties of a wife. 1st of all she hasnt been shwn knwng the level of intimacy a hubby wife shares + she herself said ki P & her only used to go to kitchen to mk either tea or coffee & nthng else. She has always been a studious girl who was least bothered abt household chores & bela too didnt teach her so she wuld deff take tym to realise & handle everythng.
If a husband ll shout at his wife infrnt of his & her family member then which wife wuld take it lightly yaar ? Atleast i wont. Any girl wuld easily loose it. Lately he has been shwn more class concious..the bhalu dress(wen his family was abt to arrive at her plc fr rishta talk) ..then agn in HM track. 1 more thng during delhi track S gt pissed off on knwng that N gt herself clicked ..there he left her crying just like that. ...so why all are targeting only N rytnw ???
I am again saying nt only S nt only N but they both are at fault..they both are. They both dnt knw hw the marrg actually works.
PS: healthy discussion plzz...no bashing & taunting

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I soo agree Surbhi
this marriage will teach them a lot many things which they have never learnt
and they will learn
we can not expect both of them to be perfect
both are at fault
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Naina has so much patience to tolerate sameer's taunt & crankiness! But when he scolded her in front of everyone she lost it. If I were in her place I would've done the same thing.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I'm sorry but back in 90s a 20 Yr old was not this immature.
Naina is not behaving like a 20yr old girl from a middle class family she's behaving like a 20yr old from a rich family who has no clue about home keeping or basic etiquette on serving guests.
Both sameer and Naina are behaving like immature kids and their behaviour shows that mentally they aren't fit to be in a marriage so their marriage at this point was not a good idea which is kind of weird as early marriage was common back then especially girls in fact 20yr was quite old then.
But what irks me that Naina doesn't learn from her mistake she doesn't admit to her mistakes and thinks screaming shouting back covers her wrongs. You can see the level of immaturity in Naina by decision to pack her bags and leave. Marriage is not a joke Jo baat baat pe ghar chodke Chale jaw. What impact does it have on her marriage her chacha chachis izzat did she for one second think. Bela and anand need to stop hiding and protecting Naina from TT so she knows the impact of her decision to marry Sameer and what chaos would it cause others if she starts showing the world that things aren't well in her few days old marriage. And is she planning to pack her bags and threaten to karve when ever they have disagreement or arguments and Sameer bends and begs her to stay as being alone is sameers worst nightmare.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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when this show started,we were very few ppl here ran this forum literally( i had another id) .the episodes were very beautiful.slowly it grabbed so many ppl's attention. i never missed any epi,watched repeat of epis.
now i easily skipping the show. CV's are now out of control.online trp is very low,cm ranking is 2 and may go to 3,Normal trp is low..i am just scared wat may happen next!

i am just not enjoying any episode.real life mey itna zyada bhi nehi hota boss.nope!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Beautiful post...I agree they Both are fault and that's how they will learn infact we all learn...sadly CVs are not executing naina's part well...I have always loved Naina's character...I was upset when she didn't offer to clean the utensils while Poonam Bhabhi was cleaning them...and found her foolish that she took Sameer's words literally of yeh hath kaam karene ke liye nahi bane hai...But I have loved many things she did like...she very patiently handled sameer whenever he kept taunting her for her clothes...when he said I won't drink this kaali chai...she didn't once hesitate making a another one for him...is dressing as per his interest...whenever they argue Naina complaints but sameer mimics her, which in reality someone does that is very intolerable...even when mama was supposed to come for dinner..what I liked was...although she couldn't refuse mama on the phone for dinner she could have pressurised sameer to cancel the plan for that day and postpone it (I would have surely done that had I been in her place)but what she did is tried her best...tried to cook a decent menu..now how the food turned out can be kept aside..but she genuinely wanted to serve them...even after how they have treated her...even the very next day of their wedding she stayed back at mama's place so that she could serve Poonam Bhabhi...
even yesterday she was cooking for them both but then sameer said I won't eat tinde that's when she said I will manage with tea and bread and even then she had made 2 cups of tea...which means she had put her previous nights issues aside and tried serving sameer...which he failed to notice...then when Sameer pretended to fall she immediately put her bag down and ran to attend to him...she can't see him in any kind of pain and she trying her attempts may fail but she is genuinely trying...I guess she was very hurt when the person for whom she is trying didn't understand her ,didn't recognise her efforts... and rather was blaming her and even said she is zero and doesn't know anything he was too harsh on her and (I guess even devaang said to his father Aap ne kuch jyaada hi suna diya Naina ko ) ..that's when she took the extreme step of leaving the house...
They will make many mistakes, argue, fight, fail...but eventually learn...and no matter what...they will always remain each other's strength and their love will only get stronger...just hope our CVS execute this well...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahz

I'm sorry but back in 90s a 20 Yr old was not this immature.

Naina is not behaving like a 20yr old girl from a middle class family she's behaving like a 20yr old from a rich family who has no clue about home keeping or basic etiquette on serving guests.
Both sameer and Naina are behaving like immature kids and their behaviour shows that mentally they aren't fit to be in a marriage so their marriage at this point was not a good idea which is kind of weird as early marriage was common back then especially girls in fact 20yr was quite old then.
But what irks me that Naina doesn't learn from her mistake she doesn't admit to her mistakes and thinks screaming shouting back covers her wrongs. You can see the level of immaturity in Naina by decision to pack her bags and leave. Marriage is not a joke Jo baat baat pe ghar chodke Chale jaw. What impact does it have on her marriage her chacha chachis izzat did she for one second think. Bela and anand need to stop hiding and protecting Naina from TT so she knows the impact of her decision to marry Sameer and what chaos would it cause others if she starts showing the world that things aren't well in her few days old marriage. And is she planning to pack her bags and threaten to karve when ever they have disagreement or arguments and Sameer bends and begs her to stay as being alone is sameers worst nightmare.

Dear if u hv been fowlng every epi thn dont u remembr wat the VOs say at every point ..that they both were kids..immature kids who kept mkng silly mistakes since the shadi day..this is wat cvs are showng too..i knw it has gone a bit overboard but nothng big. As far as N's behaviour is concerned i can relate to it to sm extent. S jo kare woh sahi..taunting her infrnt of all the gharwale..questioning her upbringing & all but N ne suna diya toh bahut galat kia..well! I dnt undrstnd this. Like i said in my post neither of thm are cmpltly ryt nor wrong. Dono ka learning phase ab start hua h. Clash is bound to happn wen u strt living w/ a persn 24*7.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mysterious17

Dear if u hv been fowlng every epi thn dont u remembr wat the VOs say at every point ..that they both were kids..immature kids who kept mkng silly mistakes since the shadi day..this is wat cvs are showng too..i knw it has gone a bit overboard but nothng big. As far as N's behaviour is concerned i can relate to it to sm extent. S jo kare woh sahi..taunting her infrnt of all the gharwale..questioning her upbringing & all but N ne suna diya toh bahut galat kia..well! I dnt undrstnd this. Like i said in my post neither of thm are cmpltly ryt nor wrong. Dono ka learning phase ab start hua h. Clash is bound to happn wen u strt living w/ a persn 24*7.

Dear I have been following this show from the beginning and I never said Sameer is always right no matter what he does what I'm saying is Naina doesn't admit she was wrong. She doesn't seem to learn from her mistake. This is not the Naina I know so yes I have more problem with her character than Sameer cuz Sameer was always shown to be immature but at the end he does appologize for his behavior. How long has it been since the wedding? 2 months and since then all they are showing is Nainas mistake one after the other so yes I'm tired of understanding her and giving her slack cuz this is new to her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: OspraYZod

when this show started,we were very few ppl here ran this forum literally( i had another id) .the episodes were very beautiful.slowly it grabbed so many ppl's attention. i never missed any epi,watched repeat of epis.

now i easily skipping the show. CV's are now out of control.online trp is very low,cm ranking is 2 and may go to 3,Normal trp is low..i am just scared wat may happen next!

i am just not enjoying any episode.real life mey itna zyada bhi nehi hota boss.nope!

I undrstnd..initial epis were of another level even the collg track was gud.. rsn myt be change of directr or writer..though its based on real lv story but on the other hnd its a tv show so few mistakes are negligable. I am trying to be optimystic ryt nw..lets see wats more in store fr us
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: shahz

Dear I have been following this show from the beginning and I never said Sameer is always right no matter what he does what I'm saying is Naina doesn't admit she was wrong. She doesn't seem to learn from her mistake. This is not the Naina I know so yes I have more problem with her character than Sameer cuz Sameer was always shown to be immature but at the end he does appologize for his behavior. How long has it been since the wedding? 2 months and since then all they are showing is Nainas mistake one after the other so yes I'm tired of understanding her and giving her slack cuz this is new to her.

I hv mentioned this thng in my post that the nxt day aftr marg even S didnt apologise her. Few of u are just seeing 1 side of the coin..& she did apologise him n HM & even wen they were on their way bk to home..its this tym only cvs hv shwn her nt reciprocating to S's sorry but hold on..why did S say sorry ? Only wen he realised the momnt she is letrally leavng b4 that he was all in taunting mode. If u still wanna stick to 'N is being insane rytnw' thn..i dnt wanna frce u to tk it all my way

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