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Naina and Sameer dreamt of a fairytale wedding which turned out to be true.
Love marriage is still a dream for much of the population in our country but our Samaina did it in 90s.
When we are in love we make many cheesy unrealistic promises to our partner and I don't think there's anything wrong in it coz when two people are in love they experience an entirely different.
But any mature pragmatic person knows very well that life isn't a bed of roses.It's not that Naina was that naive to believe them yet she believed them and it's because she lived in that fairytale world. They had best of the facilities without the pain of earning them. They had their property maintained without shedding sweats of toil. They could eat whatever they wanted. They could do anything without fear of being reprimanded.
Let me tell you a little story from my life. I used to love the colour white. I had all my dresses white in colour untill I went to hostel and realised it wasn't easy to maintain a white dress. From then on I began buying darker colours. At home my mother used to clean my clothes and at hostel they were my responsibility.
I think same is the case with Sameer. He wanted everything tidy untill there were people to it for him. But when it came to himself began compromising with his own habits.
Many a times when our clothes are left lying on couches we don't fold & stack them untill we know our parents are about to reach home. And then we do all the pending work.
In the case of Samaina there was nobody to be afraid of or being obedient to. They were their own boss and were not answerable to anyone.
Our Sameer began liking his home clean only in front of guests.
Because they were unanswerable they became irresponsible. And Naina believed in the principles of a fairytale world which has been smashed and shattered by Mamaji which was very much need of the hour.
Naina is upset because she has been thrown out of her dream world. She is in a shock. Reality has struck her hard.
I think this is one of the reasons behind the problems post love marriages.
People tend to believe that life after love marriage is heavenly.
Life is not easy and it's same for all beings be it love or arrange marriage.
It's just that life gets easier when you get a compatible understanding and a loving partner.
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