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Posted: 6 years ago
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I agree to disagree with you all here to an extent apologies for that emotional involvement and all would make sense if having fallen for her realisation had happened for him and that led to this given nothing has changed as such on the face of it i dont think this looked v in character unless they do show him thinking tom as to why he reacted the way he did and the realisation dawns!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think Guddan should put in any effort to prove her honesty. After living with her for so long and watching her up close, AJ should know that she would never do such a thing, and that more likely someone used or tricked her. She should go about her everyday routine and not change her behavior or plead with anyone to believe her.

Some people might disagree with me here, but I think real trust is what holds ground no matter how many storms surround you. It holds ground in the toughest of times, in the unlikeliest of situations, even when all proofs are against the person you trust. Guddan showed this unconditional trust in AJ, to the point that it even shocked him, but when the time came, AJ's trust proved fragile. Yes, he did "trust" her but not to the extent she did.

The reasons are obvious. Guddan is a pure soul who hasn't been tainted by the evil in the world, whose white heart could not be blackened (or even grayed) by the tragedies in her life. She might seem silly sometimes but she is not a bad judge of character. AJ, on the other hand, has seen some tough times so he is overall more cynical and cautious when placing his trust. He wasn't 100% there yet with trusting Guddan but it is much further than he had gone with anyone else.

I refer to what I wrote elsewhere about AJ subconsciously knowing that Guddan is falling for him and that made him uncomfortable because he has been thinking he could never reciprocate. A part of his subconscious is also guilt ridden because he is attracted to/falling for another woman after Antra, a woman who is the unlikeliest of companions but who has made a place in his heart without either of them realizing it.

This "revelation" by Durga gave him a very good excuse to push Guddan away and to stop himself from getting even more emotionally involved with her. I don't think AJ even realizes all this is happening and is going to live in escapism for a bit.

As for Guddan, I want her to start looking at other things in life and when she finally gets admitted to film school or gets an amazing project to work on, she leaves for another city. Just as she's about to leave, AJ finds evidence of her honesty and tries to patch things up but Guddan makes people understand that they can't just get away with accusing her every time and expect her to be forgiving. She should stand up for her self-respect and tell AJ that if he had really trusted her he would have come to the conclusion of her innocence without needing any proof.

As with the incident of blackmail to force her to marry him, AJ did not believe her until he found solid evidence, whereas she believed he was not the kidnapper based on the honesty in his eyes. Today, AJ refused to listen to her even when she pleaded with him. He should reflect on their time together and realize that either what he knows is not the full story or that she is incapable of the kind of betrayal everyone is accusing her of. Otherwise, this relationship has a looong way to go.

One thing though, if this show turns into one where the male lead manhandles and verbally abuses his wife out of anger, then I'm out. It will be irredeemable for me. I sincerely hope the CVs will steer clear of that.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I stopped watching in the middle but this episode brought me back. I love these type of sequences so im excited
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think Guddan should put in any effort to prove her honesty. After living with her for so long and watching her up close, AJ should know that she would never do such a thing, and that more likely someone used or tricked her. She should go about her everyday routine and not change her behavior or plead with anyone to believe her.
Yes I too believe the best thing for guddan to do right now is be silent because it's too late.aj has defended her in many situation and protected her before from the bahus.but now situation is about her loyalty towards him..in the heat of anger aj is seeing only what he wants to see and that is how she betrayed him by conspiring with rawat

Some people might disagree with me here, but I think real trust is what holds ground no matter how many storms surround you. It holds ground in the toughest of times, in the unlikeliest of situations, even when all proofs are against the person you trust. Guddan showed this unconditional trust in AJ, to the point that it even shocked him, but when the time came, AJ's trust proved fragile. Yes, he did "trust" her but not to the extent she did.
Both are at fault here..right from the beginning guddan was always feeling guilty about her with rawat..she had many chances to open up.he repeatedly asked her but she did not open up.she even distracted AJ when rawat was searching the room..so her trust in question too..AJ trust in her is of different level..till now guddan is an open book..but aj's past life is a mystery..for him she is just a naive girl who doesn't think and act rashly..so have to say his trust is questionable too.

The reasons are obvious. Guddan is a pure soul who hasn't been tainted by the evil in the world, whose white heart could not be blackened (or even grayed) by the tragedies in her life. She might seem silly sometimes but she is not a bad judge of character. AJ, on the other hand, has seen some tough times so he is overall more cynical and cautious when placing his trust. He wasn't 100% there yet with trusting Guddan but it is much further than he had gone with anyone else.

I refer to what I wrote elsewhere about AJ subconsciously knowing that Guddan is falling for him and that made him uncomfortable because he has been thinking he could never reciprocate. A part of his subconscious is also guilt ridden because he is attracted to/falling for another woman after Antra, a woman who is the unlikeliest of companions but who has made a place in his heart without either of them realizing it.
I cant talk about AJ antara's relationship because its still a mystery..there is more to it than what they have shown..he always says nobody can take antara's place..its more like he is protecting himself from other women..yesterday it was all about feeling betrayed not because of his feelings for guddan.

This "revelation" by Durga gave him a very good excuse to push Guddan away and to stop himself from getting even more emotionally involved with her. I don't think AJ even realizes all this is happening and is going to live in escapism for a bit.

As for Guddan, I want her to start looking at other things in life and when she finally gets admitted to film school or gets an amazing project to work on, she leaves for another city. Just as she's about to leave, AJ finds evidence of her honesty and tries to patch things up but Guddan makes people understand that they can't just get away with accusing her every time and expect her to be forgiving. She should stand up for her self-respect and tell AJ that if he had really trusted her he would have come to the conclusion of her innocence without needing any proof.

As with the incident of blackmail to force her to marry him, AJ did not believe her until he found solid evidence, whereas she believed he was not the kidnapper based on the honesty in his eyes. Today, AJ refused to listen to her even when she pleaded with him. He should reflect on their time together and realize that either what he knows is not the full story or that she is incapable of the kind of betrayal everyone is accusing her of. Otherwise, this relationship has a looong way to go.
When situation like this arises people just concentrate on the main issue instead of reflecting on the past..it takes time..but I would say even if AJ repeatedly said dhoke se shaadi kiya he never mistreated her just ignored her most of the time..my complaint was about her sleeping in balcony.
One thing though, if this show turns into one where the male lead manhandles and verbally abuses his wife out of anger, then I'm out. It will be irredeemable for me. I sincerely hope the CVs will steer clear of that.

I would still say he is the best lead i have seen in a long time..he treats women with respect.he will never abuse her will just try to stay away but will not be able too..
I am a person who watches today forgets tomorrow. It's a Indian TV show nothing makes sense in here..valentine's day they were shown supportive and trusting each other..same thing happens in real life too..I would back out only if they introduce some supernatural element to it..its not my cup of tea.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amyka

I didnot watch but now I am really scared to watch the episode.


I second you.. going back to home from office.. was very tirey day.. I'm too afraid of watching the episode after reading comments here.. but will watch for our lovely Akshan and will share my views after watching the episode...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: -RD-

I havent watched the epi but i am somewhere disappointed with Jindal saab expected him to think put two and two together be fair and then react given others in his family work against him and get away bec of family why doesnt guddan get the same benefit ( only reason i can think of is probably he expected his family to work against him for reasons but never expected Guddan to work against him ) .. and after all she risked her life to prove him innocent she tried to come in rawats way and warn AJ even when rawat was home looking for clues and more than his family she has worked to save him his honour and things close to him everytime without getting much in return! If she misjudged him in the past she set her mistake right already by getting him out of jail why does he need to punish her ? He too has misjudged her in the past what punishment did he or his family get ?

The CV's cud have thought of a better track for her realisation and his anger! AJ was definitely set up as a much much deeper and better man than he has probably come out today!



I have the exact same thoughts too, I am actually disappointed with the way Akshat reacted (i dont like this misunderstand thingy and one reason why i love this pair besides their chemistry is because of their understanding, but then this episode showed otherwise) but m surprised many actually liked this track instead. Will watch the episode tonight then I will understand. Looks like it's cause of Nishant's brilliant acting they liked this track. I am not liking the fact Akshat is gonna ignore Guddan for days cause I dont think Guddan coming to this house for evidences against him can be the reason why everyone is upset with Guddan wheras she was the one who rescued Akshat. No one thought if Guddan didn't reach the court on time Akshat could have actually got punished.
Actually I m someone who doesnt like much of drama, I m more into simple things thats why I loved the episodes last month.
But if Akshat has a really valid justification for his anger(let's see how they will show this track) then i am fine with it, but right now I dont like the way he reacted
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I have the exact same thoughts too, I am actually disappointed with the way Akshat reacted (i dont like this misunderstand thingy and one reason why i love this pair besides their chemistry is because of their understanding, but then this episode showed otherwise) but m surprised many actually liked this track instead. Will watch the episode tonight then I will understand. Looks like it's cause of Nishant's brilliant acting they liked this track. I am not liking the fact Akshat is gonna ignore Guddan for days cause I dont think Guddan coming to this house for evidences against him can be the reason why everyone is upset with Guddan wheras she was the one who rescued Akshat. No one thought if Guddan didn't reach the court on time Akshat could have actually got punished.
Actually I m someone who doesnt like much of drama, I m more into simple things thats why I loved the episodes last month.
But if Akshat has a really valid justification for his anger(let's see how they will show this track) then i am fine with it, but right now I dont like the way he reacted

I agree I didn't like the way AJ reacted without giving Guddan any chance to clarify but people are happy with this track coz of progress of their love story

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