You Don't Destroy The Person You Love

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Posted: 6 years ago
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You don't destroy the person you love - is one of my most favorite dialogues from Grey's Anatomy.

And today I felt, every Goddamn character of this show has done this exact same thing to Mauli.

Kunal - I don't even want to talk about him. But I literally wanted to spit on Radhika, Dida & most importantly Ishaan's faces. 😡 😡 😡

I hate Ishaan 1000 times more than I hate Kunal at this moment. He claims to love Mauli but he didn't have any problem to take Loveguru's advice. Today if he didn't find Mauli in that state, would he ever really realize that to which extent she has been hurt & how they were actually misleading her. 😡 😡 😡 I don't think so.

Today my love & respect for Mauli grew. She said what she needed to that she is not a divine lover & knows her limit.

There has been many threads where a lot of us have expressed our frustration regarding Mauli still loving Kunal.

I can personally advocate for Mauli today. Although it wasn't my BF but someone really close who had hurt me in the worst possible way. And even after years, I still had some good memories of that person which I cherished. Because as you can't erase the bad memory, good memories also never leave you. I definitely had moved on & thanks to Almighty, got amazing people as my friends. But there was always a hole in my heart & eventually I had talked to that person & got my closure.

That's why I can feel & understand Mauli. It's not necessary that just because she still had some love reserved for Kunal, everyone concluded that she can't move on. She could most definitely move on if any of the so called loving people of her life took the initiative to talk to her & help her attaining some closure.

Instead everyone just ran to Kunal & he became the Mahaan Admi who was stooping to new level of low each day.

What type of love does Ishaan harbor for Mauli if he can't see through her??? The same thing is about Radhika & Dida. And don't tell me that Mauli had never been open about her feelings. Words are not required always to understand the people you care about. If you really know someone - you can understand from his/her behavior, expression & every other small things.

I don't think any one of this creatures have ever truly understood her.

Dida & Radhika - Needed to be Mahaan. Disowned Kunal & now conveniently following him.

Kunal - Needed to show what a great person he is

Ishaan - Male version of Nandini who just needed Mauli no matter what the cost and how it's effecting everyone else.

Today, considering everything, I think Nandini was by far the most genuine. At least she accepted she was wrong & didn't advertise when she wanted to sacrifice her love.

She is still as wretched as a person she was but definitely a lot better that these bunch of idiots. She broke Mauli but these people have literally destroyed her with their Mahaanta.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I completely agree with you Ishaan, Kunal, Mumma, and Dida, even Mishti and Pari unknowingly, are all playing with Mauli's feelings. The poor girl. Earlier I was shipping Ishaali but after what Ishaan and Kunal have done, I'm hoping Mauli ends up single. In her drunk state she might've said that she feels like she still loves Kunal but she never said she wants to reconcile with him or anything. Kunal was her first love, it's normal for her to still have a soft spot for him. And Kunal of all people should know that love can't be forced. He can't force Mauli to love Ishaan the same as no one could force him to love Mauli.

And honestly, this whole mess could've been avoided if he had just left Mauli alone in the first place. She was fine before he came back and she would've been fine if he left too. But Mr Conceited over here thought that Mauli was breaking up with Ishaan because of him when it was actually because of Sandhya. So he decided to call Mahek to help him look bad in Mauli's eyes. And unlike, Kunal who left his family for a kal ki aayi ladki, Mauli understood the importance of family and decided to break up with Ishaan instead of hurting Sandhya. And now mahaan Kunal is forcing her to marry Ishaan by pretty much going against Ishaan's mother. Even if he forces her out of the house, Mauli will still have a relationship with Mamma and Dida. Mauli, mamma, and Dida were with each other during their hard times, so they've formed a very strong bond that neither Sandhya or Kunal would be able to break.

Basically, there is something seriously wrong with Kunal's judgement and logic, which makes it hard to believe that he's a doctor.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: NainoMeinSapna

I completely agree with you Ishaan, Kunal, Mumma, and Dida, even Mishti and Pari unknowingly, are all playing with Mauli's feelings. The poor girl. Earlier I was shipping Ishaali but after what Ishaan and Kunal have done, I'm hoping Mauli ends up single. In her drunk state she might've said that she feels like she still loves Kunal but she never said she wants to reconcile with him or anything. Kunal was her first love, it's normal for her to still have a soft spot for him. And Kunal of all people should know that love can't be forced. He can't force Mauli to love Ishaan the same as no one could force him to love Mauli.

And honestly, this whole mess could've been avoided if he had just left Mauli alone in the first place. She was fine before he came back and she would've been fine if he left too. But Mr Conceited over here thought that Mauli was breaking up with Ishaan because of him when it was actually because of Sandhya. So he decided to call Mahek to help him look bad in Mauli's eyes. And unlike, Kunal who left his family for a kal ki aayi ladki, Mauli understood the importance of family and decided to break up with Ishaan instead of hurting Sandhya. And now mahaan Kunal is forcing her to marry Ishaan by pretty much going against Ishaan's mother. Even if he forces her out of the house, Mauli will still have a relationship with Mamma and Dida. Mauli, mamma, and Dida were with each other during their hard times, so they've formed a very strong bond that neither Sandhya or Kunal would be able to break.

Basically, there is something seriously wrong with Kunal's judgement and logic, which makes it hard to believe that he's a doctor.



@Bold Couldn't agree more.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Every person in this show is annoying.
Kunal's mom is just ridiculous. She could convince Mauli with direct talk, Mauli isn't a teenager but chose a humiliation way.

They are humiliating a person who took care of them all these years. Sigh

Ishaan doesn't love Mauli, that childish man doesn't deserve Mauli.

What's wrong with Mishti? Refusing to go with a mother who single handedly taking care of her for A IDIOT MAN?

Literally Mauli took care of a classless family!
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

Every person in this show is annoying.

Kunal's mom is just ridiculous. She could convince Mauli with direct talk, Mauli isn't a teenager but chose a humiliation way.

They are humiliating a person who took care of them all these years. Sigh

Ishaan doesn't love Mauli, that childish man doesn't deserve Mauli.

What's wrong with Mishti? Refusing to go with a mother who single handedly taking care of her for A IDIOT MAN?

Literally Mauli took care of a classless family!

Mauli did not raise mishti single handedly.. she had help from dida n mumma.. and i think she refused to go.. for many reasons.. she's used to staying with her dadi n dida.. and considers that her house.. and she's just a child..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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They have butchered each and every character in this serial to make one character mahan..."BHAGWAN KUNAL"

Although I agree that when a person destroy someone this way he is the one who should repair the damage. KHNH concept was not entirely wrong...But not in this way.
Mauli is hurt. She still thinks of Kunal but as a horrible past...not because she loves him. If she loves him...I puke on her...as doormats deserves dhoka. As far as I know the writer is female. I have no idea how can a female writer write this way about woman character. When a divorced or deceived woman doesn't want to marry that doesn't mean she loves her past hubby/cheater. It just mean she couldn't forget and forgive. The writer is dishonoring the respect of a woman.
Sp how come Kunal become a Love guru???? And why Ishan would be less than him? When Ishan had that accident...I found that really romantic. A handsome guy running with a bunch of roses and just hit by a car. Then when she came close to him, worried that he might got hurt. He smiled and looked happy that ...she came, she cares and she loves me. I found that a romantic scene.
Kunal's ideas are full of rubbish. Ishan should fire him. It is looking like a teenager ko patao kind of love story now. Neither Mauli nor Ishan is teenagers.


I think they are still thinking of hate Ishan and make Kunal the ultimate guy for Mauli. I hate this serial so much. At first killed a girl, now snatching self respect from her dead body.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mumoos

Mauli did not raise mishti single handedly.. she had help from dida n mumma.. and i think she refused to go.. for many reasons.. she's used to staying with her dadi n dida.. and considers that her house.. and she's just a child..


Ohh if parents lives with son, then sons kid isn't raised by parents but raised by idaa Dadi dada grandfather. In short bacco raised by whoever calta ferta comes in home.

Good to know that so called dida Dadi more important than MOM in this show. Kya soch hai. Show should've been in SP. Rishta wahi, soch nayi 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mumoos

Mauli did not raise mishti single handedly.. she had help from dida n mumma.. and i think she refused to go.. for many reasons.. she's used to staying with her dadi n dida.. and considers that her house.. and she's just a child..


The thing which is bothering me is Mauli wasn't so grateful to her own parents. May be her mom is a horrible person. But her dad was an amazing man. He spent his last penny for her education. He never thought for his son which was mentioned by her mom. Next Mauli never helped her younger brother. You know I hate this kind of so called good girls. Shaadi keya ho gayeee...chalo moma-papa and bro sis turned parayee. In here she showed no gratefulness. Mom said some rough words...she made her enemy. Was her mom entirely wrong regarding N? Or Kunal or Kunal's family? I wonder why she broke her relationship with her parents so easily? They too raised her. They too took care of her. She found no problem to forget them. But she is finding it too hard forget Kunal's family.
Mauli is a great bahu. But as a daughter... total failure. And her this crap idea of she can't leave Kunal's family is also crap. If she is so grateful person, then start from the beginning .

At first papa ka karz
then bhai ka farz...she needs to help her bro too. THat boy got nothing because she got everything from her papa.

Then comes Kunal's family. At first I thought may be Mauli is flawless. But now( thanks to CVs) ...I am also believing yeh shayad "chamtkaari baba Kunal ka koi karishma " hoga. 😆 Saab kuchh bhula gaya...but not Kunal. Uff!!! 🤢 She can be a ungrateful daughter and a selfish sis but can't be an ungrateful DIL!!!!!

I am absolutely opposite of Mauli. 😆 I am a "Papa ki beti" kind of girl . 😆😆...and I love all my younger bro/.sis/cousins. So this is becoming hard for me to understand Mauli's action to her papa and bro. I mean why that was sooo easy and this is not????
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: jhalak7


The thing which is bothering me is Mauli wasn't so grateful to her own parents. May be her mom is a horrible person. But her dad was an amazing man. He spent his last penny for her education. He never thought for his son which was mentioned by her mom. Next Mauli never helped her younger brother. You know I hate this kind of so called good girls. Shaadi keya ho gayeee...chalo moma-papa and bro sis turned parayee. In here she showed no gratefulness. Mom said some rough words...she made her enemy. Was her mom entirely wrong regarding N? Or Kunal or Kunal's family? I wonder why she broke her relationship with her parents so easily? They too raised her. They too took care of her. She found no problem to forget them. But she is finding it too hard forget Kunal's family.
Mauli is a great bahu. But as a daughter... total failure. And her this crap idea of she can't leave Kunal's family is also crap. If she is so grateful person, then start from the beginning .

At first papa ka karz
then bhai ka farz...she needs to help her bro too. THat boy got nothing because she got everything from her papa.

Then comes Kunal's family. At first I thought may be Mauli is flawless. But now( thanks to CVs) ...I am also believing yeh shayad "chamtkaari baba Kunal ka koi karishma " hoga. 😆 Saab kuchh bhula gaya...but not Kunal. Uff!!! 🤢 She can be a ungrateful daughter and a selfish sis but can't be an ungrateful DIL!!!!!

I am absolutely opposite of Mauli. 😆 I am a "Papa ki beti" kind of girl . 😆😆...and I love all my younger bro/.sis/cousins. So this is becoming hard for me to understand Mauli's action to her papa and bro. I mean why that was sooo easy and this is not????

Are they in show in past 😛 not seen clearly full Show 😳 😆 only Her mom in Kunan track n her bakbak 😛 . cvs missed the Main Element 🥱 Mauli family after K left 😕 .. Kunal family only Mauli family 😲 Where are they to support or Mauli support towards them 😕 ..

guess if They present as per current track 😉 may be they too participate Mahan K Plans 😆 😛
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: _OrChiD_


Ohh if parents lives with son, then sons kid isn't raised by parents but raised by idaa Dadi dada grandfather. In short bacco raised by whoever calta ferta comes in home.

Good to know that so called dida Dadi more important than MOM in this show. Kya soch hai. Show should've been in SP. Rishta wahi, soch nayi 😆


Many times they are btw in real life . Many cases kids are more attached to grandparents who live with them rather than their mom and dad especially if they have long working hours.

Its quite normal , no nayi soch at all.

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