Sameer's behavior with Maheshwaris

Sameer has once again gotten into the blackmailing mode ,as we could see in the precap. To be honest , I really feel bad for Vishakha, but there goes a proverb,

"As You Sow ,so shall you reap".


Sameer had placed all his trust in Vishakha only to have it brutally shattered by Vishakha Somani plotting. There is no place for reasoning or cool handling of the matter anymore in him. He knows what the result of his pleading will be- a betrayal once again. The only option left with him is emotional blackmail and that's what he is resorting to every single time.

An unpopular opinion, Sameer's blackmail of Maheshwaris to take the to the Agrawal house midnight was correct, keeping in view his circumstances.

Imagine one day someone tells you forget your mother and you'll be separated from her forever. Isn't it natural that you'll go berserk and even do crazy acts, which later you might regret though. Same is the case with Sameer. Vishakha might have given birth to him, but after Nanu, Naina is his mother ,father, his only family. No matter what any relatives say, he won't agree to leave her at any cost.

Vishakha loves Sameer, but when it's time to take responsibilities , she escapes.
Question-paper stealing-escaped.
Delhi Dadi tortures Sameer- send away Sameer.

A true mother will fight for her child, beat him for his mistakes, but never let him be separated from her. That's exactly where Vishakha failed miserably. Whatever bond they had developed during Delhi phase has been broken due to her indulgence in plotting by Somani-Maheshwaris. And trust once broken is difficult to mend.


Whatever actions you see henceforth of Sameer may not be absolutely right, but he has no choice , he can't let anyone take away his mother-his Naina away from him at any cost.

VIshakha is still ok with Somani calling off the rishta just coz the SAGAI is not in a prestigious HALL...

I agree with you..vishakha has time and again failed as sameers mother...
Despite of sameer pouring out his hert to her and beg her to fulfill his one last wish..she is still letting bobby and mamaji do their pkannkng..according to me that is even moore shamefull than actually plotting..
Sameer has time and again tried to make vishakha give naina another chance but no..she comes with her mene kahan na dialouge ...
He despire of telling her that nanu liked naina and even accepted her as their bahu...she is still not convinced...he even told her to do this for nanus sake...she still went and acted all cool and cold at aggarwals and came home without talking about samainas marriage.
Sameer had all hopes on vishakha..rspecially when she said yes yo go to nainas place..that joy of finally his mother understanding him cane down crushing when he got to knlw the real truth..aur ab thede logon ko line par lane ke liye ungli thedi karni hi padegi.

I really liked him in the precap today..the way he threw that suitcase and finally made her feel that she thinks about her status moore than him and also made it clear that for him all this lavish taam jhaam doesn't matter..he can even get married to naina simply just in mandir in the most simplest way.

Sameer doesn't have a support system like Naina has in form of Chacha chachi and preeti. So sameer is left with no other option than blackmailing them. His mother never understood him and neither could she see that it was her father's wish as well to get Naina as his DIL.

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

I agree with you..vishakha has time and again failed as sameers mother...
Despite of sameer pouring out his hert to her and beg her to fulfill his one last wish..she is still letting bobby and mamaji do their pkannkng..according to me that is even moore shamefull than actually plotting..
Sameer has time and again tried to make vishakha give naina another chance but no..she comes with her mene kahan na dialouge ...
He despire of telling her that nanu liked naina and even accepted her as their bahu...she is still not convinced...he even told her to do this for nanus sake...she still went and acted all cool and cold at aggarwals and came home without talking about samainas marriage.
Sameer had all hopes on vishakha..rspecially when she said yes yo go to nainas place..that joy of finally his mother understanding him cane down crushing when he got to knlw the real truth..aur ab thede logon ko line par lane ke liye ungli thedi karni hi padegi.

I really liked him in the precap today..the way he threw that suitcase and finally made her feel that she thinks about her status moore than him and also made it clear that for him all this lavish taam jhaam doesn't matter..he can even get married to naina simply just in mandir in the most simplest way.

I agree. The only person Sameer expected was from Vishakha, despite this what Vish did has turned Sameer into a blackmailer.
Tbh the way Rakesh spoke today, any one would lose his/her temper. How Maheshwaris reacted was perfectly normal, but what they don't realise time and again is that they are putting Sameer's lifeline on stake behind all of this. Had Sameer's trust not been broken, even he would've been hurt coz Rakesh insulted his family. But The Maheshwaris haven't left themselves worthy of being called Sameer's family after that mischief they pulled off. Hence this reaction.
If Rakesh had behaved the same way with Nanu, Sameer would have tactfully done something so that his Nanu's honor remains intact+The engagement isn't broken too.

Originally posted by: Samaina1

Sameer doesn't have a support system like Naina has in form of Chacha chachi and preeti. So sameer is left with no other option than blackmailing them. His mother never understood him and neither could she see that it was her father's wish as well to get Naina as his DIL.

I feel pity for sameer. I really wish nanu was alive then sameer wouldn't have to go through all this.

Also vishakha never cared about sameer then why the hell she is so much interested about sameer now. He can live his life the way he wants to like he used to do before when she was giving priority to her so called other 2 kids room and deepikas. She has no right to take any decision for sameer

Vishakha in many parenting aspects is like Rakesh. When it's about responsibility, escape. But when it's about exerting rights and taking decisions, they appear all of a sudden. Vish loves Sameer unlike Rakesh but unfortunately their actions are similar.
I agree, Had Nanu been there, things would have been totally different.

Originally posted by: myprimechicago

VIshakha is still ok with Somani calling off the rishta just coz the SAGAI is not in a prestigious HALL...

Sameer is left all alone to fight for his life in the age of 20 when his past has taught him that they will win and he will loose...

Therefore his childish reaction and blackmailing is all coz of Vishakha's lack of maturity and trust in Sameer

So true, I can't even imagine how Sameer must be feeling at this stage and yet manages to put on a smile. Just imagine being at the risk of being separated from your family constantly. 😭 He has already lost Nanu, Losing Naina is beyond him.

They really deserve this behavior from Sam, 1st usko kabhi pyar nai Kiya and apna nai samja, bichare ko toh yeh tak pata nai tha Apni ek behen bhi hai, isse jyada ek bache k bare Mein kya bol sakte hai, he always wanted a a mother love but his mother was busy showing her darling jee that she is a perfect mother for Rohan, only nanu's promise made her took responsibility of Sam, vishaka for Sam is a failed mother, she is only a birth giver not a mother, Somani darta hai ki agar Sam vishaka k pass aya toh Rohan hoga but he should understand ki aagr vishaka Rohan ko accept kar Sakti hai toh Sam ko bhi karna chaiye but vishaka ka weekness pata chala toh usko apna target banaya, agar vishaka Sam k liye stand leti toh dadi and somani kuch nai kar pate, jab unko pata hai Ma support hi nai karti toh oh toh uska faida uthayenge, mama mami ka I think slowly Sam k sath equation change hoga, coz Sam business Mein toh inki Waka se involve hoga so inke character Mein changes dikhane k liye aab sam ko thoda inke behavior Mein pata chalna chaiye, aab Sam ko pata hai Mami Kaisi hai, mundit k sath behavior se he he is not liking. So Sam Apni Kushi k liye itna toh kar sakta hai, jab usko pyar hi nai milta but jab usko naina we sab milraha hai toh kyun oh chup rahe and har ek husband ko Apni Wife k liye aise stand Lena chaiye warna saas apni bahu kya kya Hal karte hai hum sab ko pata hai, agar Sam itna nai Karte unke sath toh imagine maheswari naina ka kya Hal karte, aab atleast Sam k samne kuch himmat toh nai hoga

While I agree with your thoughts..as a viewer I find this repetitive emotional blackmail a tad boring...the writers should think of some new ideas..can't show same thing everytime

I don't feel anything wrong in Sameer's behavior... What else can he do when everyone in his family is finding petty excuse to break the rishta... Yesterday also he was continuously looking at V to say something in the matter but again she disappointed him n cud not go against her husband.. She again failed as a mother. .Sameer only expects from her but she cannot even once stand up for his son.. That's why Sameer is resorting to this emotional blackmail.. He is just 20 n in such an age he is fighting the world for the one he wants to be with that too alone... Maaheshwari s ko aise doses dene padenge till the time the wedding happens coz wo to apni harkaton se baaz nhi aane wale