Understanding Mauli : How did I miss this? I - Page 2

you know guys...everyone says mauli should move on...move on..move on...move on with ishaan...move on in life...its easy for us to say and advice but the person who is suffering the pain only understand the turmoil...its not easy to move on...especially when you truly love someone and submit yourself to the only one person...this is what mauli going through she still loves the moron kunu becos she truly loved him...the only man she loved...the only man whom she submit herself to him...she wants answers even now...where did their marriage go wrong...where she is wrong...she is so disturbed...she is putting the blame on herself...its not easy for her...i truly understand her...she is mentally not prepared to re-marry forget ishaan...anyone for that purpose...when u love someone deeply...yes many move on in life...but there are some who never moved on in life

Well said guys and a lovely post... I too think that it will take time to move on. Time heals all wounds... I just want her to be happy again.

When a wife is left for another Woman...her self esteem shatters..her husband chose another woman over her,.so she feels that she must have been lacking in something that's why her husband left her. Mauli despite being so educated and successful felt that way that...nandini must have had something that she did not have that's why Kunal left her. Some women get severely depressed and need counseling to help them see the good in themselves...Mauli needs to see that it was not her fault and that she was not lacking in anything.. But sadly these ITV serials don't pursue the counseling and psychiatry tracks...even when the women suffer extensive trauma that is more than enough to break them...they don't show them getting help from psychiatrists.. But with cheated women , quite often the love of another good man often helps to rebuild their self esteem and confidence ..

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

"Kunal Tumne mera confidence sab cheen liya"

She has said this time and again but I ignored it, thinking it's a passing dialogue, because how can a woman like Mauli not be confident?

In today's episode she told Kunal that she has learned cooking, she can bake delicious cake now, all thanks to him..

This reminds me that after leap Mauli has been wearing Sarees and make up, you know she said she is not a woman who wears Saree but she does now...

Basically Mauli's confidence is shaken, her marriage wasn't bad in any way, she gave everything she could to her marriage and Kunal took everything he could, how was she different from Nandini?

Nandini wore Sarees, Nandini cooked delicious food and Mauli took it up, she wears Sarees and she cooks food...

It's all because Kunal didn't give her a reason, he keeps blaming his "halat" as if "Halat" pushes him to Nandini's bed, this guy is a jerk, an entitled jerk who thinks he was right in cheating Mauli..

Mauli is strong, so strong, she is going through so much, she has none in her life to share her feelings to boost her confidence...

I have heard about people committing suicide, chronically depressed after being cheated on, it's her enormous strength that has actually allowed her to put her past away from her to take care of Mishti and Kunal's family..

How do you perform a surgery if so much is going in your head? If I think about all things she had to go through, I feel so bad for her...

It's not easy to let go, moving on is a process, there's no switch off button, ideally Mauli should have moved on but that's not real is it?

All bad things have consequences and sadly Mauli has to face repercussions of Kunal's wrongdoings...

Sadly Mauli is looking for answers from a wrong person. Kunal will never be able to give her closure. A guy who took your confidence and broke you is least likely to make you again and bring back that confidence in you.

well said 👏 mauli shown a different side of her inner turmoil in the form of this outburst ⭐️ applaud Writing Of Mauli 👏 n Aditi ⭐️ ...

@,,fruity -- u know what, even when i saw in her post leap avtar i recalled her dialogues about not wearing a saree.. and i thought someday they will mention this thing but till now they havent.. when nobody was liking her dresses i was all cool with her post leap dresses as i thought someday she will tell the reason.. i am still not sure if i am right in thinking all this and cvs have actually planned this so i kept mum about it..

There was something that really struck me. She said something on the lines of maine tumhe kitna pyar kiya phir bhi tumhare liye kam pad Gaya. 😕 . How can she move on with Ishaan? She thinks even when she loved the max she could , it was not enough to keep her husband with her. How can someone marry again with this feeling. It's like she is not capable enough to have a happy marriage.

Originally posted by: Mages

you know guys...everyone says mauli should move on...move on..move on...move on with ishaan...move on in life...its easy for us to say and advice but the person who is suffering the pain only understand the turmoil...its not easy to move on...especially when you truly love someone and submit yourself to the only one person...this is what mauli going through she still loves the moron kunu becos she truly loved him...the only man she loved...the only man whom she submit herself to him...she wants answers even now...where did their marriage go wrong...where she is wrong...she is so disturbed...she is putting the blame on herself...its not easy for her...i truly understand her...she is mentally not prepared to re-marry forget ishaan...anyone for that purpose...when u love someone deeply...yes many move on in life...but there are some who never moved on in life

I just lovee mauli no matter what she is such a pure soul.she was drunk when she said tht to kunal and when she gets her senses she told her grandmother that i dont want to do ths to ishan what kunal did to me.i dong want to cheat him.she is such a beautiful character i just hope the creatives do justice to her.she is the only reason i got hooked to this show and aditi is a fabulous actress.she made me love mauli.