Vishaka or naina - who is important

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myprimechicago

@myprimechicago

Voyager

Posted: 6 years ago

#21

Considering Vishakha's priorities and her nature of moving Sameer away from her when she can't tackle him... I would say Naina..

Though there is no replacement of a mother in a son's life but here Sameer mother is just a distant relative visiting him as per her schedule and mood

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Nikkie1990

@Nikkie_1

Voyager

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Posted: 6 years ago

#22

In a normal scenario both are equally important and in some cases mother/parents are more important than girlfriend.

But talking about Vishakha and Samaina I feel that Vishakha lost the right when she chose her own happiness over Sameer's . She gave far more importance to her new family than she gave Sameer.

Agreed we dont know her side of the story but ... agar bachde ko nuksan pahuchayo to gaay bhi siing marne aati hai and here Somani and Dadi have mistreated Sam so many times in front of Vishakha and she never retaliated, that is too much.

I would have even given her a benefit of doubt if she belonged to a poor family where she needed support of somebody to take care of her son. But being from a well to do family the choice was hers.

She did not even accept Sam as her son in Mt. Abu and left him all broken which mother does that?

Just imagine she couldn't even reply when Sam asked her who she loves most, at least Sam said that both Naina and her are equal for him.

It is because of Naina that Sameer mended the relationship with his mother. Imagine pre-bet track Sameer ever asking his mother to stay back.

Even if Sam has chosen her she would have gone back to her life again leaving him alone to pick up the broken pieces.

So yes in this case Naina is more important. Had it been between Nanu and Naina I would have said Nanu but Vishakha doesn't deserve Sameer.

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Sakina Hozefa

@sakina.hozefa

Explorer

Posted: 6 years ago

#23

Well aftr after reading for n against the motion, I can only conclude

If asked by me wat u need more in Ur life salt or sugar, definitely won't able to choose it, but yes former will b my necessity n later a luxury. One can opt out luxury during days of distress

So yes coming back to point nainz luv is Sam necessity as there she not only luv him but most importantly understand him, respect his choices, trust him, believe in him n most importantly stands by his side.

I don't want to dig graves but a recent incident, wen somani lost his cool, abt Sam asking him concentrating on Rohan n strt bashing rather thn insulting Sam, vis kept herself mum, she cud have gone against somani ( vis is strong women n have opinions) rather may b she dnt want somani to get upset over her.

But when Poona wala insulted Sam, 1st thng Naina did was to run behind him leaving her audition to comfort him. N saw damage is beyond repairable thn with in blink of second like a tigress she pounced on Poona wala ( every one was afraid in class) rather she cud have got herself rusticated for this act of hers.

In end Kabhi kbhi Apne ko sabse jyada samaj ne wali maa bhi uske pyar ko samjh nai paati he...

Vis has made opinion regarding Naina n now she will visualize every thing according tht. Dnt knw in future if she will understand or not...

Lastly vis also dnt Belive tht Sam can make sound decision, that's y she is finding flaws in his choice...

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Deepa

@Deepanand

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#24

Ya I agree all of them naina, sameer and vishaka have their own flaws. Hope vishaka will see what sameer is seeing in naina and understands what he feels for naina. Sameer has to make her understand his love for both of them

Edited by Deepaananf - 6 years ago

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Latas

@Latas

Inactive

Posted: 6 years ago

#25

If it was for others I would have told Obviously Mother is most important.

But in Sameer's case as Sameer himself says where was She when He needed her the most...aapne tho mujhe 19 saal akela choda tha...ab abhi he says Mom please mat jaoo..
so in this case Meri Naina as Sameer says is most important person in his life besides Munna and Pandit

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Deepa

@Deepanand

Dazzler

Posted: 6 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Latas
If it was for others I would have told Obviously Mother is most important.

But in Sameer's case as Sameer himself says where was She when He needed her the most...aapne tho mujhe 19 saal akela choda tha...ab abhi he says Mom please mat jaoo..
so in this case Meri Naina as Sameer says is most important person in his life besides Munna and Pandit

she has a chance now for redemption by agreeing for sameer and naina's rishta happily. sameer will be more happy to have both of them in his life