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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Indira1211

yes Mauli is a good caring woman..and she will not show hatred towards an innocent child,,and being a doctor as well she will want to go see a sick child. But Kunal was not a great husband to her. Kunal was a Terrible husband and no woman couldl possibly want a Kunal for a husband, . Yes he married her, was happy for a few years becusde msuli was a good wife ..then he dumped her like trash when he found a better woman whom he wanted. Great husbands don't do this . Great husbands stick by their wives through thick and thin for decades ...those are great husbands. It's an insult to all the wonderful and great husbands out in the world by revering to a cheater like Kunal as a great husband. He broke his wedding vows that he took in front of God as soon as he found another woman..Kunal is no great husband .


As I said to each their own.. Kunal cheated on Mauli for nandini yes he did wrong and I'm not justifying it either .But they were understanding husband and wife before this nandini thing happened .And I don't think we can take away that credit that he was pretty good husband if not great. I agree great husband's don't leave their wives and break promises. I'm not insulting a great husband but I'm definitely putting a point that kunal wasnt bad either till nandini entered their lives. The dynamics the thought process the equations the scenarios and the story completely changed thereon as soon as nandini entered.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Squadmishali


Neither is Mauli a doormat nor a Aaya .She is a woman of love and compassion who doesn't keep her self respect in front of an innocent child.

I'm loving these episodes, as I love the fact that even after all these things she isn't someone who keeps hatred.

Now coming to whether she loves kunal or not, what is wrong if she still loves him? He was her husband and rather great husband, they had wonderful marriage and suddenly fell apart. Her world crushed down.

Now again does it mean she should accept him back? My answer is it depends on each individual and their way of thinking .Someone forgives and someone doesn't. So does this makes the person who forgives a Doormat? The answer is loud and clear NO. The reason is it take guts to forgive and accept that person back who has cheated on you. To trust him again.
Now again is once a cheater always a cheater? The answer is it depends not all. For instance Kunal wasn't a Casanova. Right? If he falls in love again with his ex wife won't make him Casanova either ..

You know when a woman who has finally moved on and is in love with someone else, even after his death won't get back to his ex. That's woman the chapter is over. But with men, there are chances of them going back to their ex wives or lover. Reason? Well men don't want that process of feelings and investment with someone new and start it all over again. They are practical that ways.


@bold --- same words , same feelings , same things i used to tell people when she wanted to give him a chance.. its about guts specially when u r an independent woman..
she will never be a doormat to me even if she accepts him back but i probably wont be able to relate to her this time.. ! back then it was very much relatable. i used to think what if i wrre mauli... i had mixed feelings back then. but today i have crystal clear thoughts about what would have i done if i were mauli. and that thing would be never accepting him back . not even if i still love him..
its not about trust ..@red i dont believe in "once a cheater always a cheater(. if thats the case then FORGIVENESS word shouldnt be there. people dont forgive to get cheated on again..)
its about the bad memories which keeps haunting u every now and then.. if kunal had left her for any valid reason i would have thought about them. but he was plain selfish..
althought i wont be able to relate to her if she wants him back but i will still try to understand her..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan


I am with you. I don't really care whether she ends up with Kunal or Ishaan, I just want a good story and I want her to be happy. I won't lie however, Ishaan and Mauli chemistry is very underwhelming. It doesn't mean it can't be worked on or fixed. For now they are just meh...🥱

I do however see a MauNal endgame happening as of now. Even if we forget old foreshadowing with mujhe dhoond lena, there is new one with Pari's wish in the mandir. The only way I see it changing is if show ended tomorrow or there was serious fan backlash.


yes!! i want mauli happy but i want a logical mauli too.. not like kunan ema. super illogical irrational stupid and weird..

i guess thats why i am falling for him more.. lol. i mean if u are talking about romantic chemistry then i must tell u there was a timw when i was against a new man for mauli.. just bcz i didnt want mushy romance in this show.. ishaan is mature and i love him for that. anyway like u said chemistry can be build up.. (working on a VM for them. if possible btana dekh k kaisi chemistry hai😆)

heheh. i have answer for ur old foreshawdoing thing. but i guess it will be too early to talk aboit that. let kunal fall for her (if he is actually going to) then i will tell u what i feel about it.. 😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Squadmishali


Neither is Mauli a doormat nor a Aaya .She is a woman of love and compassion who doesn't keep her self respect in front of an innocent child.

I'm loving these episodes, as I love the fact that even after all these things she isn't someone who keeps hatred.

Now coming to whether she loves kunal or not, what is wrong if she still loves him? He was her husband and rather great husband, they had wonderful marriage and suddenly fell apart. Her world crushed down.



Now again does it mean she should accept him back? My answer is it depends on each individual and their way of thinking .Someone forgives and someone doesn't. So does this makes the person who forgives a Doormat? The answer is loud and clear NO. The reason is it take guts to forgive and accept that person back who has cheated on you. To trust him again.
Now again is once a cheater always a cheater? The answer is it depends not all. For instance Kunal wasn't a Casanova. Right? If he falls in love again with his ex wife won't make him Casanova either ..

You know when a woman who has finally moved on and is in love with someone else, even after his death won't get back to his ex. That's woman the chapter is over. But with men, there are chances of them going back to their ex wives or lover. Reason? Well men don't want that process of feelings and investment with someone new and start it all over again. They are practical that ways.



I know calling mauli an aaya was bit rude of me but the one thing that made me hell angry about mauli is that why is she behaving so ignorant towards mishti?? Mishti is very traumatised right now, she has her whole family but she is confused about her identity after kunal mauli confrontation..I know pari is suffering alot..I lost my mother when i was 2 years old and i know how kids in pari's situation feel like..My friends mothers used to behave so sweetly with me when they got to know that my mom is no more, some aunties used to say that "beta consider me as your mom".But i knew that they are not my mom, they are just sweet to me.You know what sometimes these sympathies become so deadly for child's personality that they think that they need to beg for sympathies to make things work..you can't imagine how each and every action around children contribute in developing their future personalities...pari make all these demands and mauli being a good soul help her but she should understand that kunal is in no mood to coming back to her. He has rejected her love way back before, it would be so difficult for mishty and pari to live with each other and it will the hardest for mauli to not see love for herself in kunal's eyes...so in practical cases it is impossible for them to get back together..So she should not give false hopes to a little kid...The best thing they could show now is that how mauli get strenghth to face kunal as her ex husband and father of her kid..she should marry ishan not just because he supports her or care for mishti but because she is ready to share a relationship with him like she shared with kunal. She should keep visiting pari and pari should keep visiting them just as happy cordial family...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Last time when she wanted to be a aaya to pari's mom she got a very nice reward, let's see what she gets this time
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sillybutterfly7



I know calling mauli an aaya was bit rude of me but the one thing that made me hell angry about mauli is that why is she behaving so ignorant towards mishti?? Mishti is very traumatised right now, she has her whole family but she is confused about her identity after kunal mauli confrontation..I know pari is suffering alot..I lost my mother when i was 2 years old and i know how kids in pari's situation feel like..My friends mothers used to behave so sweetly with me when they got to know that my mom is no more, some aunties used to say that "beta consider me as your mom".But i knew that they are not my mom, they are just sweet to me.You know what sometimes these sympathies become so deadly for child's personality that they think that they need to beg for sympathies to make things work..you can't imagine how each and every action around children contribute in developing their future personalities...pari make all these demands and mauli being a good soul help her but she should understand that kunal is in no mood to coming back to her. He has rejected her love way back before, it would be so difficult for mishty and pari to live with each other and it will the hardest for mauli to not see love for herself in kunal's eyes...so in practical cases it is impossible for them to get back together..So she should not give false hopes to a little kid...The best thing they could show now is that how mauli get strenghth to face kunal as her ex husband and father of her kid..she should marry ishan not just because he supports her or care for mishti but because she is ready to share a relationship with him like she shared with kunal. She should keep visiting pari and pari should keep visiting them just as happy cordial family...


I don't mind Mauli marrying Ishan, only if she loves him not because Mishty considers him as popsie. Same I would say for I don't mind kunal and Mauli getting married either provided kunal loves Mauli not for the daughters sake,here I mean both Mishti and Pari.

I don't mind Mauli staying alone as well. As she clearly doesn't love Ishaan still, so to marry him would be a kind of cheating. She has feelings for kunal supressed, I don't mind sheher she crushes it down and stays alone or units with kunal.

I'm all game for whatever decision Mauli takes... Honestly I know many of you feel taking kunal back is like digging own grave and being woman without self respect. I don't see it that way. As far as Mishty is concerned I guess I have been repeating it again and again that Mauli needs to clearly communicate sigh Mishty. I want her to explain Mishty the way she understands it.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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@squadmishali...all your post spoke my heart...i think the same exact way as yours...👍🏼
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

@squadmishali...all your post spoke my heart...i think the same exact way as yours... 👍🏼

Hey Thanks, actually I'm seeing it as neutral viewer and more from Mauli's perspective. The problem here is ppl are hating Pari just because she is nandini and kunal's daughter. I'm seeing her as a four year utterly innocent kid, who is craving for her mother and that bond she feels can be found in Mauli. Moreover the little girl has heard the CD so she feels that Mauli can be her mom as her mom trustingly gave her responsibility to Mauli. Pari isn't aware of all the facts she is just a kid. Mishti now she knows I want Mauli to explain her properly rather than making false promises. I want Mauli to explain her to make her understand .
Ishan I don't know I'm not able to trust him still, I find too good to be true. Also I feel he isn't transparent. He says something and his expressions say a different story.

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