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Posted: 6 years ago
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Sadly little mishty has suffered the most from this mess in silsila. The little girl spent her first 3 years without a dad...she must have yearned for a dad because all the other children around her in preschool etc, must have had dads. Then Ishaan came into her life. She accepted him as dad even before her mom accepted him. She was happy..at long last she had a dad. Then mom was going to marry her surrogate dad and she was happy but then she finds out who her real dad is ...and she finds out that he never wanted her and wished she was never born ...and left her mom and her ..also his other daughter does not want a sister. This is enough to make any child feel lost and question their identity. Children have very delicate emotional balance ..one little thing is enough to offset their emotional balance ...even though she has received so much love from the rest of her family ..it has hurt her tremendously thst her father never wanted her. In her little mind ..she probably thinks there's something wrong with her for him not wanting her. Sadly she has suffered the most. Pari has been with both her Parents. She knew her parents were married and loved each other and her. Mom got sick and went to live with God ...but she's accepted that, and there's lots of pictures of mom..And her dad is wonderful to her..so pari has no identify crisis or feelings of not being wanted. But sadly kunals actions have hurt mishty terribly, 😭...she'll always know thst he chose his other family above her mom and her ...and children grow up with that feeling of rejection..Kunal has to do a lot to make up for that



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Posted: 6 years ago
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mishti suffers but equally pari too...even if this truth is out kunal is her real dad...it doesn't make a difference to her as she has ishaan with her...yes the hurt that her real father was not with her has disturb her but than she has an entire family to pamper her even if she hates her real father and doesn't want to meet him...she has nothing to loose as she has her parents with her...


while pari...she is a lonely kid...she only has her buddy and there is a maid who is taking care of her...she has noone...when her dad goes to work she is lonely...there is no family to pamper her nor she has a mother...its all her buddy for her...

in the end mishti doesn't loose anything...its pari who is suffering due to her parents deeds

mishti hurt is only for some time...she will be back being normal with her family support...while pari has to live with that no mother...no family pain for rest of her life...

both kids are suffering but looking practically mishti is lucky one...she doesn't yearn for her real father...she is just angry on him thats it and it will vanish away when she will look at him as a uncle rather than a father..she already has ishaan and he loves her...there is nothing for her to loose actually
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Posted: 6 years ago
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i think we are completely wrong when we compare these girls and their losses..

in general losing a parent at such an early age is a bigger loss.. but we can not compare pari and mishti's loss at this moment.

some kids grow without mother , like they never have seen their mother and feel a mother's importance while growing up.. they think "kash meri bhi mummy hoti" they cry when the other family members couldnt understand them. for a girl child its more difficult to grow up without a mother.. but that doesnt mean they can not build themselves as a personality without a mother..
some kids have seen parents fighting and father leaving the entire family for some other woman.. this feeling is disgusting.. it is a pitiful thing and not everyone likes sympathy for such things..
imagine a kid who has to share something about his mother who has died long back and imagine a kid who has to answer about such disgusting father in school..

if we talk in general losing a mother is a big loss but that too on a basic level.. some kids are not able to handle the trauma given by such fathers who have left them and the family for someone else.. some doesnt like talking about such fathers , some girls would probably hate men subconsciously just bcz they have bad impression about men..
some may never trust men..

so it depends on the environment in which the kid grows up..
losing a mother to death and losing a father to some other family, i dont know which is worse.. both feelings are disgusting..

i just hope pari and mishti overcome with their respective losses and pari finds a mother in radhika and live with them..
and i really wish mishti is able to forgive kunal for what she thinks he has done to her and is able to move on with mauli.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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What I'm trying to say is that at this young age mishty has experienced the feeling of rejection ...and thst will very hard to erase ...she has the feeling that her father never wanted her and deserted her. It's sad yes for pari..that pari doesn't feel unwanted ...her mom got sick and died ..which is something that can't be controlled. But mishty will probably take that feeling of rejection with her into adulthood ..which can affect her self esteem . That's what I'm talking about ..the way she'll view herself and her birth...remember she heard msuli tell Kunal thst he did not want mishty.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Won't say she has suffered, but she is suffering the most at present.
She has got a big shocker news that her father didn't want her. Rejection is something even elders can't bear and she is just a six year old kid. This jhatka is a heart breaking one for that little innocent tot.
More than anything that's what is making her behave rude and say that she hates everyone.
Coz deep down it is hurting her so much that her father didn't want her but on the other hand he is being a good father to Pari. It's the worst heartbreaking feeling any kid could go through at a tender age...

Pari isn't getting everything either, but at least she knows her parents loved her and not an unwanted kid. So yeah mishti is suffering the most now.

Her current behavior hasn't got anything to do with her brought up. Considering the pain she must be going through with this revelation, I can totally understand that kid and feel for her...

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