#shashankvyas #Roop-abandonement worst form of humanity

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Roop Hero lost forever.

Sacrifice is the highest form of humanity; abandonment the lowest form of humanity. I have lost my hero forever. How can a guy who deserted, discarded n dumped all his family of years be a hero.

No, he is not. He can never be my hero.

Roop abandoned his dad. The father who loved roop more than anyone else despite the fact that roop never ever fulfilled any of his dad's wishes. Yet daddy Aaun loved him. What did Roop do?

Roop failed to see his dad's tears of years.

Roop abandoned his mother. The mother who waited for years to see her son come back from boarding school. The mother whom he promised to be with forever, the one whom he promised to protect from the evilness of his dad.

Roop discarded his ma in the worst possible way.

Roop abandoned his sisters. He promised all of them that he will never ever leave them. Yet he left them all alone.

What could Roop have done?

First of all roop is just a college student. Which college student in his/her right mind thinks of marriage?

Anyways Roop could have accommodated Miss Patels parents along with his own in the waghela house. Both the set of parents could have been looked after together.

Worst part Roops journey is finished. He is just a filler, limited to being a man-bride, house husband, house SIL.

Roop is not the storm!

Freedom of one does not mean slavery of another. Independence does not mean abandonment.

Shasha you played a character who sacrificed his family for his country. And now you are trying to play a character who brutally abandons his family. All this for what shasha?

Play a hero, play an antihero, play a villain, rule a grey hero. But never ever a coward.

Roop is not my hero. He can never be.

Cheers

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Posted: 6 years ago
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I saw the promo in BL. It was good.. but this at the expense of abandoning his family?? not good.. i watched yesterday's epi after the reviews..but just can't even tolerate that plastic voice.. i cannot watch shashank in that plastic fake house with all plastics around him..I would anyday prefer watching shashank with his father..who is not a villian but a conservative guy..instead of this fake family and plastic FL..
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't agree the above posts completely. He did not abandoned the family, temporarily he staying with Ishika's house, as the situations demanded. How could a self-respecting man stay in a house where his wife's respect is at stake. His father is not right at all time. A good father never force his decisions on his son/ daughter, only give advice after they attained an age of 18. Here his ego is always on top. He ill treat his daughters and wife always. Roop still hoping and trying to realise his father, what he is doing is not right. Hope time will change him also.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Hating Miss Patel is justified Hating Patel family is justified Wanting Miss Patel out of Roop's life is justified but why are you falsely blaming and bashing Roop ? Your entire post is only false blames on Roop and i want to ask from you are you even watching the serial Totally wrong post and complete false blames on Roop 👎🏼

When did Roop brutally abandoned , discarded his family , dumped his family of years ?If you watch the serial its his father who brutally abandoned him , brutally rejected him as his son in front of everyone Shamsher discarded him , dumped him not Roop Shamsher was shouting at Roop and abusing him as useless son not worthy of being his son in front of everyone including outsiders and did not allow him to enter his house and you are falsely blaming Roop he brutally abandoned , discarded ,dumped and discarded his family and brutally abandoned his dad who loved him more than anyone else ? Shamsher is justified in his anger on Ishika what he said about Ishika is right that Ishika ever since she met Roop she is only creating problems for him , giving him pain and Roop did not disagree with him on this, Roop did not misbehave with Shamsher for Ishika,neither he apologized to Ishika for this because Shamsher is right in saying this but Shamsher is wrong the way he mistreats Roop and his daughters No loving father forces his decisions on his children No loving father mistreats his son the way Shamsher does No loving father abuse and insults his son in front of outsiders , falsely blame him and defame him in other eyes Shamsher is so cruel who always abuses and falsely blame and insults Roop in front of others and invites outsiders to insult his son Is this how a loving father behaves ?

You are falsely blaming Roop he cannot see tears in father's eyes but its actually Shamsher who cannot see tears in his son's eyes how much he hurts Roop and hurt his self respect by abusing and insulting him , never respecting his decisions , never trying to understand him and always rejecting him as his son just because his big fat ego is bruised He failed to make Roop his robot who functions the way he presses his buttons You are falsely blaming Roop he never fulfilled his dad''s any wish ? Really ?Roop from childhood is making his father proud by always topping in his school but Shamsher hated the fact he is so caring to his mom and sisters and defend them in front of him whenever he tries to mistreat them so he send him away from them in military school and Roop won every possible medal and trophy and made his father proud But Shamsher does not understand Roop has a life of his own He has right to take decisions of his life He wanted to force Roop to be a police officer but when Roop refused he brutally disowned him and threw him out of the house He cannot see his son is still a topper in his college because his ego is bruised he failed to force Roop to be a police officer and he thinks Hotel management is some cheap profession and his reputation will be ruined if Roop pursue career in hotel management He refused to pay for Roop's college fees , Roop started working at a garage to pay for his fees and Shamsher hates that too He planned and plotted to get Roop rusticated from college and tarnish his reputation in college and shatter his dreams to fulfill his own dream Is this how a loving father behaves ?He brutally abandoned Roop for not wanting to be a police officer and he brutally abandoned Himani for wanting to study and be a police officer Loving father Huh ? Shamsher was so cruel he did not allow Roop to meet his sick mother until he took money from him Loving father huh ? Here too the so called loving father brutally abused and abandoned Roop in front of everyone and you are falsely blaming Roop for it he abandoned his loving dad ?

What Roop could do then when his father brutally rejected him in front of all and was not letting him in the house Shamsher blocked him in entering the house ,was standing at door and shouting at him and brutally iabusing him and rejected him as his son Roop cannot leave Ishika in the midway to please his father Just to please his father how he can kick her out at the same night he married her? Again saying Shamsher is not wrong about Ishika but Shamsher is wrong, totally wrong and cruel the way he behaves with his son . does not even care for his son's self respect and how he brutally abused him and rejected him as his son in front of everyone Abused him as Nikamma , Nakara , Sharabi in front of all He is totally wrong to force Roop to follow whatever he says .Roop loves Shamsher a lot but he just does not support Shamsher where he is wrong and Shamsher is wrong the way he mistreats his son Shamsher loves his family in his heart but he is too egoistic and in that he does extremely wrong , mistreats the people he claims to love the most especially his son whom he claims to love the most

Roop did not abandon his mother and sisters either They themselves want him to be with Ishika and take care of her

When did Roop think of marrying Ishika himself in his first year of college? Its his pathetic mother and elder sisters who are obsessed with his marriage with Ishika and don't care he is still in his first year of college That mean and selfish , pathetic man Rupesh used his critical condition to emotionally blackmail and force Roop to marry Ishika Kanchan forced Roop with her begging Ishika herself begged to him Roop was forced to marry Ishika only to save this family because Rupesh was dying I dont know what cvs want to prove through this marriage but there is no positive social marriage in succeeding this marriage in social message based show Rupesh , Kanchan and Ishika are doing injustice with Roop Rupesh and Kanchan don't care for Roop They only care for their daughter They know their daughter is good for nothing and will not be good partner to Roop They know she cannot even manage her own life and stay away from troubles and they want Roop to keep saving her from troubles but don't think how she can be a good wife to Roop, they know how much wrong she has done with Roop but they don't care about that but they only care about making the life of their daughter and keep her secure They know how much good and noble is Roop and always saves Ishika thats why they begged to him so much Rupesh is so mean , selfish and shameless man he did not even bother to apologize to Roop for forcing him to marry his daughter like this against his wish He only apologized to his daughter He did not even bother to apologize to Kamla and Shamsher neither said to Roop he will make his parents understand but he was shamelessly forcing on Kamla his daughter Ishika as her daughter in law He does not care to ask from Roop did his father accept this marriage Is everything alright in his house He does not care He only cares about his daughter Mota Kaka said 100 percent truth that Rupesh only did drama to make his daughter marry to the boy he always wished to marry her He always wanted Roop as his son in law and he did all the drama in the hospital using his critical condition to emotionally blackmail Roop and force him to marry Ishika , He only cared to make his daughter's life but does not care he has ruined Roop's life The shameless hypocrite man Rupesh was lecturing his brother how can he get his daughter married to the devil Ranveer after what he did with Ishika but he himself forced his devil daughter Ishika on Roop knowing very well how much wrong she has always done with Roop Ishika cheated Roop First she begged to him to marry her then rejected the marriage and rejected him as her husband She is only using him to make her father temporary happy till he recovers and using him to protect her parents till Rupesh recovers then she plans to get rid of him How she insulted him rudely saying to him you are only my husband for name's sake you are only a guest in this house till papa recovers then OUT . Roop is temporary staying with patels till Rupesh recovers otherwise Mota Kaka and family were easily throwing him out of the house Right now Rupesh and Kanchan badly need Roop to stay with them Ishika asked him to stay in the house How much disgusting is this woman When Roop defended her parents in front of Mota Kaka and family she was insulting him for defending her parents and calling her parents saas sasur ji and patels his in laws but then few hours later when she needed Roop to protect her parents she said to Mota Kaka and family Roop is jamai of the house then she is insulting Roop you are only guest in the house till papa recovers after that OUT. Ishika continues to deliberately mistreat Roop This girl can never be worthy of the forgiveness of Roop She needs to be punished for her sins Her parents need to be punished for their injustice with Roop This marriage has to end The writers need to do justice with Roop whom they have shown as a victim here of the selfishness of Ishika and her parents

Kamla and Roop's elders sisters characters are too pathetic and poorly written I dont know what makers want to prove through them They don't look Roop's mom and elder sisters They look only Ishika's mom and sisters because they are so blindly obsessed with Ishika and don't care for Roop Kamla can slap her innocent son for no mistake of his and does not forgive him easily even after he begs forgiveness from her on his knees but she never takes offense of any misdeed of Ishika and has forgiven Ishika for all her misdeeds and keeps pampering her and Ishika is pyari and dil ki achi for her after all her misdeeds and mistreatment of her son Roop Kamla cannot even count one good deed of Ishika because Ishika has never done anything good in front of her but always done worst with her son Roop but still Kamla keep praising her as pyaari and dil ki achi Even though Ishika was marrying Ranveer with her own choice and not listening to Roop yet Kamla was feeling sorry for her but she does not feel for her son ? How can a mother forgive all Ishika's misdeeds when she did not even bother to apologize and praise her ?Himani how can she forget how Ishika got Roop arrested with false allegations and was not willing to provide any proof for her allegations neither listening to them and willing to see any proof and insulted her and her husband too ?Kinjal she was yesterday saying to Fai bua how can she find greatness in every deed of Ranveer but this hypocrite girl herself always find Ishika dil ki achi even after all her misdeeds and brutal behavior with her younger brother Kamla , a mother understands her child's pain without the child telling her Thats the beauty of motherhood but this pathetic mother was going on going with her happiness on Roop marrying Ishika and her excitement to welcome Ishika at her home she could not feel Roop was in so much pain and not speaking much She couldn't even feel his pain in his silence She was not letting him speak but going on going on with her Ishika jaap PATHETIC

Makers need to do justice with Roop and make these all people realize they are doing wrong with him Ishika does not even deserve Roop's forgiveness Makers should punish her for her sins


Edited by CandycaneMissy - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: S-Kumar

I don't agree the above posts completely. He did not abandoned the family, temporarily he staying with Ishika's house, as the situations demanded. How could a self-respecting man stay in a house where his wife's respect is at stake. His father is not right at all time. A good father never force his decisions on his son/ daughter, only give advice after they attained an age of 18. Here his ego is always on top. He ill treat his daughters and wife always. Roop still hoping and trying to realise his father, what he is doing is not right. Hope time will change him also.

i agree with you.. Being father does not give you right to misbehave with anyone's wife. And if he have taken responsibility of a girl protecting her respect is his duty. His father was not accepting him with his wife.. So should he leave her midway and give in to unreasonable demand of his father. . 1st of all I have no respect for man who have no feelings for his daughters well being... This is not conservative but completely unacceptable. Also his wife is a single child... So after marriage is it wrong for daughter to stay in her parents house and take care of them especially in situation were her parents badly need her... And it is not duty of her husband to support her. His parents at present are fortunately in better position now... When they will need their son he will definitely be their.
Child should take care of both side parents after marriage and at moment try to be with one who need them more in that moment..

I am completely shocked by the thought process of the initiator of this thread

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Completely nonsense post and complete false blames on Roop I don't understand what are you trying to prove and what you want to achieve through misleading serial and wrongly bashing Roop with such false blames ? .If you are frustrated with Ishika and don't want to see her with Roop then express it like others do I too hate Ishika Its justified to hate her I too think she is not worthy of Roop and can never be but its not right to falsely blame and bash Roop If you want to see Wagehlas not Patels then express it to makers but why falsely blaming Roop and bashing him ? Its not your opinion or my opinion when you are completely misleading the serial and totally falsely blaming Roop just to bash him

Shashank can play villains according to you but he should not play Roop? Why ?Roop is worse than villains too ? Why? What wrong he has ever done ?You are showering false praises on Shamsher who is actually very wrong in the way he behaves with his wife and children but bashing Roop by falsely blaming him , misleading the serial All your blames on him are completely false and i don't understand why you keep falsely blaming Roop ?You really think people havent watched the serial? In one of your previous posts you were falsely blaming him as obsessive and stalking Ishika ? Neither he is ever shown obsessive nor he stalked her so it was complete false blame by you misleading the serial In another post you were saying he abandoned his family Dads always have aspirations from their children it does not mean children should abandon them ?Seriously ? In which scene of the serial it is shown Roop abandoned his dad because his dad had some aspirations from him? It is Shamsher who brutally abandoned him abusing him he is not worthy of being his son Shamsher threw Roop out of the house just because Roop does not want to be police officer He never talked to Roop with love and respect after Roop refused to take admission in military science in college but chose hotel management and shamsher from then on is always being abusive to Roop , mistreating Roop and insulting him inside and outside the house both. Inviting outsiders to insult his own son He still tried to force Roop to be a police officer but when Roop refused at the interview He brutally abandoned him and threw him out of the house and allowed him in only because of sick Kamla that too after taking rent from him Shamsher did not even let Roop meet with his sick mother at hospital before taking money from him This is the so called great father and great husband you are praising and saying he needs to sort out Roop ?When actually its Shamsher who needs to be sorted out by Roop, Shamsher needs to redeem but even Roop cannot sort him out until Shamsher himself does not want to change himself You cannot force anyone to change when the person himself does not want to change and Shamsher does not want to change right now no matter what Roop does

Now too its Shamsher who brutally disowned , discarded , abandoned and dumped Roop in front of all because he married Ishika Roop never abandoned him and his family so your post should be targeted to Shamsher Abandonment is the worst form of humanity because this is what Shamsher did, brutally abandoned , discarded , dumped his own son just for his fake ego but you are bashing Roop by falsely blaming him he brutally abandoned his loving dad and family ? Please tell me the scene where Roop brutally abandoned his family saying this useless family is not worthy being of being my family ?Its this worst father Shamsher who brutally abandoned him abusing him in front of all and rejected him as his son saying he is not worthy of being his son so why are you blaming Roop?When did Roop even think Shamsher is not a worthy father?

Shamsher loves no one more than himself and his ego He loves himself and his conservative norms and his big ego more than anyone Whats the use of loving his son and his family in the corner of his heart when he mistreats them so much and hurts them so much ?Just because he is a father it does not give him license to mistreat his children He never try to understand his wife and children , never give them freedom to take decisions of their lives and wants to make them his slaves Whatever Shamsher says they should do bowing their heads down and he brutally abandoned , disowned his only son whom he claims to the love the most and his eldest daughter Himani only because they dared to go against him and take decisions of their lives He does not wish to even see his son in law Himanshu's face just because he supports his wife who is Shamsher's daughter because in Shamsher s regressive and conservative mentality women should only stay at home and serve their husbands they cannot study and do job This is not a how a good man , a loving father behaves . You are saying Roop never fulfilled any of his dad's wish This is totally wrong Roop has always fulfilled Shamsher's justified and right wishes but he does not fulfill Shamsher's wrong wishes Why Roop should fulfill his father's wrong wishes ?When parents are wrong its children's duty to show them right path and this is what Roop is always doing since childhood Making his father realize where he is wrong but Shamsher does not want to understand. One day he might but right now he is too stubborn

Shamsher wishes to make his son male chauvinist but Roop does not want to be , Roop believes in equality between men and women and can't mistreat women to show his manhood and shamsher hates this Do you count this Roop's fault he is not fulfilling his dad s wish and not being an MCP as his father wishes him to be ?Because you are blaming Roop he never fulfilled his loving dad's any wish ? Then this is what Shamsher's wishes Roop should be a male chauvinist ,a misogynist because this is what is definition of Asli Mard for shamsher Shamsher hates the fact Roop is very caring and protective towards his mom and sisters He hates the fact that since childhood Roop loves to help his mom in the kitchen ,he loves cooking , loves to apply mehendi on his mom's and sisters hands ,loves to comb their hairs and make their pigtails , loves to play with his sisters so do you make that Roop' s fault he is such a bad son,he is inhumane ,a coward , not a worthy hero because he is not fulfilling dad's wish by not doing all these things ? Shamsher hates the fact Roop stops him from mistreating his mom and sisters Shamsher hates Roop s best friend is a girl ( Palak ) Should Roop break his friendship with Palak to fulfill his dad's wish because Shamsher is not very fond of Palak nor likes Roop's friendship with a girl ?Roop has always been a topper in his school and making his dad proud but shamsher just could not digest his closeness with his mother and sisters and send him away from them to military school and Roop did not disappoint him in military school he made him proud of him by standing first in everything and winning every trophy and medal but Shamsher cannot digest Roop does not want to be a police officer Shamsher started mistreating Roop after he chose to study hotel management instead of military science Shamsher refused to pay for his college fees and Roop started working at a garage to pay for his fees and Shamsher hates it How dare he He is tarnishing the reputation of mahaan DSP by working as mechanic Neither he wants to pay for Roop's fees himself neither he is happy if Roop is working hard and paying for his expenses himself If he is loving father he should be proud that his son is not dependent on him for his expenses and works hard and is paying for his all expenses himself But for shamsher is fake ego is everything He insults Roop in front of every tom , dick and harry as a shame for him and not a worthy son just because Roop does not wishes to be a police officer and wants to have a career in hotel management which according to shamsher is a cheap profession Its not wrong of Shamsher to dream for his son but its wrong to force his son to fulfill his dream and trying to shatter to his son's dreams for his dream A good parent support the dreams of his children but Shamsher planned and plotted to shatter the dreams of his son , tried to force the principal to rusticate Roop from college by putting any false blame on him tarnishing his son's reputation Loving father ?Is this how a loving father behaves ? Shamsher was extremely angry when principal's conscience woke up and he refused to throw Roop out of college Shamsher cannot see his son is brilliant student at his college Pride of the college The college's principal is so proud him but Shamsher does not care because he is mad at Roop for not fulfilling his unjustified wishes Shamsher wishes to Roop to boycott Himani just because she became a police officer and Roop is not boycotting her Shamsher hates this Shamsher wishes to send Jigna to her abuser husband and her abusive in laws Roop is standing with Jigna and not letting Shamsher send her back to that abuser and Shamsher is angry at Roop for this and blames him for ruining his reputation These are wishes of shamsher How can you even blame Roop for not fulfilling such wrong wishes of his father ?

You are falsely blaming Roop for not seeing tears in father's eyes Really ? Its his father who cannot see the tears in his son's eyes that how much his brutal behavior hurts his son The father who does not respect his children does not deserve respect but Shamsher is so lucky he blessed with such children who still respect him even after he never respects them He is lucky to have such son who loves and respect him even after he does not respect him and insults him every time everywhere for not being worthy of his son

Shamsher is not wrong to hate Ishika He is totally justified What he said about Ishika is true except she did not let Roop be a police officer No its not because of her It was Roop's own choice but Shamsher is right to be angry at Ishika and hate her for doing drama at police recruitment interview insulting both father and son because she was desperate to defame Roop to please her evilness but Shamsher is wrong totally wrong the way he behaved with Roop How brutally he abused him as Nikamma , Nakara , sharabi and disowned him in front of everyone he is not my son From shamsher's action it was quite clear he does not want Roop and Ishika in his house and Roop cannot force him to accept him with Ishika so it was right for him to move out Roop did not misbehave with his father nor he abandoned his father He knows somewhere in his heart his father loves him thats why he said i will come when you call me i have faith one day you will so i don't understand why you are bashing Roop ? Roop neither abandoned his mom and sisters They themselves want him to be with Ishika

Roop's mind did not think about marrying Ishika in college He did not marry her because he was dying to marry her Its selfish parents of Ishika who begged to him so much to force him to marry her That pathetic selfish mean Rupesh used his critical condition and begged to Roop so much to force Roop to marry Ishika Ishika is the one who gave her consent first and begged to Roop to marry her but Roop did not took her hand immediately he looked at her mother who was standing with hands folded begging to him Roop's intention was only to give a new life to dying man and save this family and his yes actually gave Rupesh a new life otherwise he was dying with his drama for this marriage Rupesh and Kanchan are wrong here They did injustice with Roop They only cared to make and secure the life of their good for nothing , useless daughter Ishika They don't care for Roop. Ishika she cheated Roop just to give her father temporary happiness till he recovers. Rupesh Kanchan and Ishika are extremely wrong They are using Roop for their personal gain None of them care for Roop I totally agree with @Candycanemissy on this Roop is shown to be the victim of Ishika and her parents selfishness but there is no fault of Roop in this so its wrong to bash him What he could do ?Storm out of the ICU and let Rupesh get another heart attack and die Ishika is the one who agreed first but she cheated him

Again you are wrong in saying he staying in patels only to be a house bride , slave No He is only temporary staying there because right now Rupesh and Kanchan need him to be there If Vaishnavi would not have called him then Mota Kaka and his sons would have very easily threw a sick and helpless Rupesh and his wife out of the house and taken control of all the whole house Roop saved them Ishika did not marry him from her heart , she lied but Roop did not lie even though he was forced to marry her but he accepted this marriage He did not lie and did fake marriage so he cannot leave Rupesh and Kanchan in helpless condition when they need so much The fact he cannot leave Ishika there alone as well because she cannot handle anything She herself wants Roop to stay there till her father recovers She is using him to protect her parents He will move out once Rupesh recovers and he is secure in the house .


I too want Roop Ishika's marriage to end because Ishika does not deserve him She continues to mistreat him Rupesh and Kanchan did wrong with Roop to make their pathetic daughter's life and release themselves from her responsibility but they ruined his life but this does not mean you should start bashing Roop for no fault for his Your all blames on him are wrong and unjustified





Edited by Mehek134 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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As someone pointed out, Ranveer can kill Ishika for his revenge and Roop can fight to get justice to Ishika's parents even tough we all know Ishika is not worthy of any favors/love/liking of Roop. also, they show Roop helping Ishika dad get his property in the old age even when his daughter is dead... That would be a perfect Mard Ka Naya Swaroop. A man whose namesake wife is a abuser but still the man helps her family even after she dies and would be the perfect message
Edited by Libra123 - 6 years ago

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