Does kabir seriously loves zara

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Zara has tried to change herself. Even resign from sharia boat to stay with kabir give there love a chance. Even handle ruksar matter maturely. But what kabir is doing ? I failed to understand what king of love it is where life partner has to change for him at every point of time. How can zara says kabir has given her azadi to do what ever she want. I notice he always put conditions for any thing. It's high time he should understand .he should accept zara the way she is and should respect her for that. Love doent means to change your partner. It means to love him or her emotionally, physically and no matters how much opinions differ love the way he or she. That is unconditional love. It's high time kabir wake up other wise leave zara alone and stay with your child hood mate. Sorry if i have hurt any of kabir fans. I myself like their chemistry a lot. But being a girl not at the cost of losing your views yourself and most important self respect.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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KABEER DOESN'T LOVE ZARA.
And it's high time Zara realises this and leaves him for good.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Women in general should never compromise on their career and dreams for men who are as narrow minded and fickle as Kabeer is.

These men will love you as long as the honeymoon phase is on. The moment the phase wears off, the differences in opinion will hit them like a ton of bricks. They will become indifferent, abusive or start thinking of ways to get rid of you. Eventually leading to an unhappy marriage, cheating or probably divorce.

If kids are in the picture, it only makes the situation worse for the woman . You are trapped being financially dependent on him making you an emotional wreck.

Coming to the show, Kabeer is one double faced person. And Zara is a delusional human being. So according to her Kabeer never tried to change her and accepted her the way she is!! Are you suffering from amnesia like your sautan my dear!! Just go back and think over as to why you were divorced.

Someone should make Zara and Kabeer realise that they aren't made for each other.
Zara needs a broad minded person who is secured enough not to be threatened by her success.

Kabeer will be much happier with someone like Ruksar who could cook, clean, take care of him and his family and who could make him happy in bed.

They might overlook their differences being newly married now, but their life together in the long run is a perfect recipe of a disaster.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Veronica13

KABEER DOESN'T LOVE ZARA.

And it's high time Zara realises this and leaves him for good.



I DO HAVE A FEELING LIKE...

For small kids we give lolipop and cheat them right... I have a same feeling with kabeer...

But in a way its good... MASTER STROKE BY PHIR SHAB... I LOVED IT...

I wish that this is done by Kazi... the move is also good that phir shab did that so no one can question on this...

Now the track come to a POINT... after Kashmir Track... GOOD...

Now we know why Kabeer started behaving Stragenly after the Kashmir Track...

What was his thoughts and why he was like that... After Miraj exposure he said to Zara ... that he was angry on her... But that started with this Parda... Meher return...

But for that he does not need to stay that angry right... Where he can Pardon... Ruksar for her Cheap behaviors, She too no parda, impersonation, murder attempt, false allegation, miraj, nilofer, humdan...
Post revelation of destination wedding...etc., after this never find a proper reason to divorce her right...

But Kabeer had million reason to divorce Zara... What is that Naraski...


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Kabeer loves Zara but with his own terms and conditions as long as she does what pleases him and does not love her unconditionally. Where as Zara has always loved kabeer unconditionally and made adjustments and compromises for him. When miraj wanted Zara to say ILU kabeer didn't allow her to save his life yet he got so bound in his oath and married a criminal to save her if he his love was unconditional he would never ever married that witch whatever majboori that he might have had. When you love someone unconditionally there is no room for a third person to enter in between, but kabeer allowed this.

Him getting pissed with Zara getting funding for her project is ridiculous come on this is 21st century where woman are highly educated and sccessfull in every fields regardless of their religion or background. This being an inslamic show should highlight the teachings of the prophet (peace be upon him) not only they used to help their wives with household chores but they were also married to a successful business woman in those times so where do kabeers orthodox views and ideogies come from ?



Peer Saab are funding this project and want Zara to run with it for the betterment of the Muslim women's future so why is kabeer so against it ? Male ego? Wants to suppress his wife so she cannot be more successful then him ?


Cvs you have completely lost it with the chudail bakwas. Lol this reminds of sunny deols dialogue tareek pe tareek , cvs you are churning bakwas pe bakwas just stop with rukhsar bullshit.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zaabir

Kabeer loves Zara but with his own terms and conditions as long as she does what pleases him and does not love her unconditionally. Where as Zara has always loved kabeer unconditionally and made adjustments and compromises for him. When miraj wanted Zara to say ILU kabeer didn't allow her to save his life yet he got so bound in his oath and married a criminal to save her if he his love was unconditional he would never ever married that witch whatever majboori that he might have had. When you love someone unconditionally there is no room for a third person to enter in between, but kabeer allowed this.

Him getting pissed with Zara getting funding for her project is ridiculous come on this is 21st century where woman are highly educated and sccessfull in every fields regardless of their religion or background. This being an inslamic show should highlight the teachings of the prophet (peace be upon him) not only they used to help their wives with household chores but they were also married to a successful business woman in those times so where do kabeers orthodox views and ideogies come from ?



Peer Saab are funding this project and want Zara to run with it for the betterment of the Muslim women's future so why is kabeer so against it ? Male ego? Wants to suppress his wife so she cannot be more successful then him ?


Cvs you have completely lost it with the chudail bakwas. Lol this reminds of sunny deols dialogue tareek pe tareek , cvs you are churning bakwas pe bakwas just stop with rukhsar bullshit.



WELL SAID... I AGREE TO IT...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: beastmaster

Women in general should never compromise on their career and dreams for men who are as narrow minded and fickle as Kabeer is.

These men will love you as long as the honeymoon phase is on. The moment the phase wears off, the differences in opinion will hit them like a ton of bricks. They will become indifferent, abusive or start thinking of ways to get rid of you. Eventually leading to an unhappy marriage, cheating or probably divorce.

If kids are in the picture, it only makes the situation worse for the woman . You are trapped being financially dependent on him making you an emotional wreck.

Coming to the show, Kabeer is one double faced person. And Zara is a delusional human being. So according to her Kabeer never tried to change her and accepted her the way she is!! Are you suffering from amnesia like your sautan my dear!! Just go back and think over as to why you were divorced.

Someone should make Zara and Kabeer realise that they aren't made for each other.
Zara needs a broad minded person who is secured enough not to be threatened by her success.

Kabeer will be much happier with someone like Ruksar who could cook, clean, take care of him and his family and who could make him happy in bed.

They might overlook their differences being newly married now, but their life together in the long run is a perfect recipe of a disaster.



VERY WELL SAID... KABEER WAS RIGHT ON ONE THING FROM THE BEGINNING IS THIS...

ZARA & KABEER NOT MADE FOR EACH OTHER...

Ruksar is a Perfect Wife for Him who can meet his expectation...

Think of a Situation where this marriage between Ruksar & Kabeer happened...

Ruksar wouldn't have done all this Right... She would have been a Pyari Bachi Right...

Kabeer would have fallen in Love with Ruksar even more... because... she was just too perfect for him...In all the way he wanted... He will not have any issues in her being a part of the project as well...Her Soch, Intelligence, Contacts... Wah...

I still have a feeling they both are trying to work out things together...

Short term Loss and Long Term gain would be good to have Kabeer & Ruksar... Good For all 3

It would be painful and disappointing for Zara ... But Actually Long Term Gain and Short term loss... She should think its better to Kick out Kabeer from her Life... Good opportunity Now... Zara...


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Suddenly... I had this bizarre thought...

What if Zara suddenly think of Giving up Kabeer...

Like having pity on Ruksar for her state and she is an Orphan...and she have no support and She is in need of Kabeer the most for her service... Kabeer should do his farz for her...

Zara thinking its cruel to make Kabeer Divorce Ruksar...

Zara may even opt to stay in her dad's house as its difficult to see Ruksar and Kabeer together...

there must be something more than friendship to jeopardize his relationship with Zara... after all this...

again he started the nazariyan thing but he though that ruksar had best one...


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Posted: 6 years ago
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It is just so sad where all of this is heading. Like Zara gave up everything (all her opinions and beliefs), just to make Kabeer happy and to belong to him completely. And she is hung up on the fact that he said he loves her too. But she is so into the love that she isn't clearly seeing the conditions by which he loves her.

Like did you see how she was just openly talking great stuff about him in the conference and to HER fans. And he was just sitting there taking it like he is some great man. Suddenly the attention is shifted to his wife and it's not about how great he is rather about her and he gets upset. He acts as if that her wanting to follow her dreams are like a threat to his career and dreams.

He is very full of himself. she honestly deserves better. Him nor his family deserves her. She puts every single one of them above her even those who doesn't like her, but suddenly when it comes to them to show compassion she is rejected. And every time she forgives them. Like kabir will fight her about this and she will give into his demands. It's as if he doesn't really even understand how much te whole ruksar thing has scarred Zara. Because every time he easily says let's move on and it's easy for him to say and do but doesn't comprehend that she can't.

He is such a SELFISH and SELF-OBSESSED person. One day he will learn his lesson. And he and ruksar deserve each other because both of them are only concerned about their needs and wants, always disregarding others.

It's honestly DISGUSTS me.

ZARA NEEDS TO STICK UP FOR HERSELF. Or else Kabeer will keep taking advantage of her love for him.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: annjose1998

It is just so sad where all of this is heading. Like Zara gave up everything (all her opinions and beliefs), just to make Kabeer happy and to belong to him completely. And she is hung up on the fact that he said he loves her too. But she is so into the love that she isn't clearly seeing the conditions by which he loves her.

Like did you see how she was just openly talking great stuff about him in the conference and to HER fans. And he was just sitting there taking it like he is some great man. Suddenly the attention is shifted to his wife and it's not about how great he is rather about her and he gets upset. He acts as if that her wanting to follow her dreams are like a threat to his career and dreams.

He is very full of himself. she honestly deserves better. Him nor his family deserves her. She puts every single one of them above her even those who doesn't like her, but suddenly when it comes to them to show compassion she is rejected. And every time she forgives them. Like kabir will fight her about this and she will give into his demands. It's as if he doesn't really even understand how much te whole ruksar thing has scarred Zara. Because every time he easily says let's move on and it's easy for him to say and do but doesn't comprehend that she can't.

He is such a SELFISH and SELF-OBSESSED person. One day he will learn his lesson. And he and ruksar deserve each other because both of them are only concerned about their needs and wants, always disregarding others.

It's honestly DISGUSTS me.

ZARA NEEDS TO STICK UP FOR HERSELF. Or else Kabeer will keep taking advantage of her love for him.



Totally agree, Kabeer does not deserve a wife like Zara, he should just get a dog who will follow him blindly and do as he bids. he will suffocate Zara with his narrow minded views, it's better she moves on, I have a feeling when they get back, because of Ruksaars condition the talak with Ruksaar won't happen, Zara's views on her new assignment will start to bother him again and Ruksaar is going to use this to her advantage and play the memory loss card and make kabeer realise that she is the ideal wife for him, I have a feeling that xara and kabeer will seperate as Kabeer won't be able to divorce Ruksaar and Zara wont get physical with Kabeer till Ruksaar is out of the picture. Kabeer is an utterly selfish, self centered and weak person with a really low self esteem, he cannot handle his wife's fame and intelligence and somewhere he knows that she is far more superior in her ideologies and is far more capable than he is and he is just not able to come to terms with this fact! The only person who needs to change his views is Kabeer! And for obvious reasons that won't happen and the story is going to drag!

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