Nandini : A Sad Life

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FruitToasty

@FruitToasty

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Can't help but think that this woman has led a very sad life, it's important to make right decisions and her wrong decisions have resulted in her destruction -

She was 18 when she was engaged to a man, that man tried to molest her friend but for some reasons she chose to believe him and suffered for years, again the friend found her and helped her come out of this abusive marriage. Her friend did everything to get her a respectable life as an independent individual but again she was ruled by wrong emotions and she made a wrong decision, now she's going to die

Even if she was happy for 6 years, how good it is in front of what she went through for past 7 years with her abusive husband?

Nandini is a great example of wrong decisions

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Silpa

@Silpa20

Stunner

+ 9

Posted: 7 years ago

Her first mistake was believing rajdeep and not mauli and suffered for years for that.After she came out of abusive marriage she could have found happiness but she herself ruined everything and became selfish.

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prettywomaniya

@prettywomaniya

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

the sad part is what is done can not be undone..

i wish she had believed mauli than these two men..

but we can learn from her mistakes ..

women need to raise their voice against abusers.. be they their husbands.. nandini was always a follower .. one can be a follower in life and can take a back seat if there are people in one's life who are able to take care of the person, are honest and reliable person. but here we see nandini relying on kunal and rajdeep. both K and R are worst husband's and rajdeep was not even a good human being..

so woman shouldnt be following such people . shouldnt always say yes to their demands..

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LaalGulab

@LaalGulab

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Everyone has to face the consequences of the decision they make. So one should take life changing decisions like career, love, marriage etc very cautiously.

Most of the time, people do not have someone to guide them.

Nandini was lucky that she had a friend like Mauli to guide her. But Nandini chose to ignore that guidance and took the wrong decisions herself which made her life miserable.

Noone can be blamed for her misery than herself.

And frankly speaking, I dont feel bad for her.

I have been taught that " GOD HELP THOSE, WHO HELP THEMSELVES".

Nandini did nothing to save herself. She did not stand up for herself in her marriage with Rajdeep. And then again she did nothing to stop herself from betraying that friend who had always stood by her in time of need. So she had to face her karma.

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kiransgirl

@kiransgirl

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Posted: 7 years ago

the seminal quality of Nandani was she could not do without a man. She was man crazy. She did not value friendship nor did she value love in friendship. It's why she chose Rajdeep over Mauli and it was why she latched on to Kunal.

Both can be true: you can be an abused victim AND you can be evil, devoid of character. She was both. She can't be faulted for Rajdeep's abuse but she can be faulted for her horrific choices in life, the worse of which she did to the one person who saved her, Mauli. To betray someone like that means you have no redeeming qualities.

I will never feel sorry for her.

Whenever I think of that character, I think evil.

And I will make no excuses for her; she was a grown adult, full of agency. She made her choices and she followed through very nicely on them.

Edited by kiransgirl - 7 years ago