Save your home, protect it. Woman!

Originally posted by: overactor

Dida's character is exactly how old aunties even modern girls turned aunties behave. A guy makes a mistake, you weren't careful, don't break your house, where would you go, log kya kahenge, save your marriage, don't loose your husband.

I ask, does a husband define a woman? Is she a nobody without him? Does she have no value?

Why is the woman expected to save her marriage? Why are women called home makers and wreckers? The other woman is blamed, the wife is blamed but the husband gets away. Why? If not for the lust of men, wouldn't all this end?

Why in our world, where every religion speaks so high of women, a women is treated as trash? Why does she have to suffer? Isn't her suffering already too much? She leaves her family, she turns into a maid for her husband's family , a free maid who often pays with dowry herself. If she returns from a hectic job, no one lets her rest, no one presents her with food and comfort, but when a husband, a man does, a wife, a daughter, a sister, a mother, has to cook ,make his comfort her highest priority, even if her job is tougher. Even if she has to look after the kids, the parents and every other household thing. Why? !!

Why even in the 21st century are women expected to sacrifice? Why not men? I know there are exceptions to all of this but what's the ratio? 1 in 10000s?

From personal experience, I have seen women, who are well educated, having respectable jobs, can support family and live a quality life, submit to their husbands when the cheat. All for their kids, or pressure from society, or because the blame for a divorce is always on the woman. Tum ne khayal nhi rakha, tum ne dhyaan nhi diya? What could have she done?

Like Dida is making Mauli realize her love for Kunal. Of course she still loves him, but can she ever trust him again, when she knows he has cheated once, would she ever see love for herself in his eyes? Why should she sacrifice?

A divorced man gets easily married again but a divorced girl, she has to face a thousand questions from society, even if she does get married, people blame her for even a minute mistake.

Why is this happening in countries like ours? Where Durga is worshipped, where Mary is worshipped? Where there was a Razia Sultan, a rani of Jhansi, when the west had none. Why?

I ask you forum members, all women, and if there r any men. If it was you, your sister, your friend, in place of Mauli, and society did what its doing in the show. If no one, not parents, not in laws, no one supported you, if you were vulnerable, what would you do?

What should be a woman's prime priority, her dignity, or her image in front of public?

Originally posted by: overactor

Dida's character is exactly how old aunties even modern girls turned aunties behave. A guy makes a mistake, you weren't careful, don't break your house, where would you go, log kya kahenge, save your marriage, don't loose your husband.

I ask, does a husband define a woman? Is she a nobody without him? Does she have no value?

Why is the woman expected to save her marriage? Why are women called home makers and wreckers? The other woman is blamed, the wife is blamed but the husband gets away. Why? If not for the lust of men, wouldn't all this end?

Why in our world, where every religion speaks so high of women, a women is treated as trash? Why does she have to suffer? Isn't her suffering already too much? She leaves her family, she turns into a maid for her husband's family , a free maid who often pays with dowry herself. If she returns from a hectic job, no one lets her rest, no one presents her with food and comfort, but when a husband, a man does, a wife, a daughter, a sister, a mother, has to cook ,make his comfort her highest priority, even if her job is tougher. Even if she has to look after the kids, the parents and every other household thing. Why? !!

Why even in the 21st century are women expected to sacrifice? Why not men? I know there are exceptions to all of this but what's the ratio? 1 in 10000s?

From personal experience, I have seen women, who are well educated, having respectable jobs, can support family and live a quality life, submit to their husbands when the cheat. All for their kids, or pressure from society, or because the blame for a divorce is always on the woman. Tum ne khayal nhi rakha, tum ne dhyaan nhi diya? What could have she done?

Like Dida is making Mauli realize her love for Kunal. Of course she still loves him, but can she ever trust him again, when she knows he has cheated once, would she ever see love for herself in his eyes? Why should she sacrifice?

A divorced man gets easily married again but a divorced girl, she has to face a thousand questions from society, even if she does get married, people blame her for even a minute mistake.

Why is this happening in countries like ours? Where Durga is worshipped, where Mary is worshipped? Where there was a Razia Sultan, a rani of Jhansi, when the west had none. Why?

I ask you forum members, all women, and if there r any men. If it was you, your sister, your friend, in place of Mauli, and society did what its doing in the show. If no one, not parents, not in laws, no one supported you, if you were vulnerable, what would you do?

What should be a woman's prime priority, her dignity, or her image in front of public?

Originally posted by: Muhsha

Yes I am in a similar situation because of two kids and no support and it kills everyday knowing everything and doing nothing. Our society parents no one supports in such situations its always the same rant that woman belongs in her husbands home do you want to deprive the kids of a fathers love etc.

Originally posted by: Sujz

You are correct. Everytime, Women is expected to save her house.

My sister, who is 10 year older than me, now 25. She got married when she was 20. Her husband physically and verbally abused her. Even worser than Rajdeep. We all asked her to seek divorce, but she beared all of it, and at last when she decided to take a stand and left him, her inlaws, our relatives everyone called her arrogant are constantly taunted her to seek divorce! I have seen it real in my lives and this post literally brought tears to my eyes!

Kudos!