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Exactly,same thoughts as mine,i even often questioned my surroundings about this,They think i am not a marriage material😆.I am not married yet,i rejected some match as they had put some strict conditions like cooking etc. even before fixing the marriage even when i am highly educated and earning for myself😆.My family members supported my opinion.My parents raised my brother and me equally in my house.I think the problem starts with men or husband who thinks superior to women or wife.One of the option to avoid all this is I feel women should get financial independence before committing into the marriage and also If they start dominating after marriage you should not allow them to rule over you.You should stand for your self respect than anything.When the person doesn't respect you as a human,he or she doesn't deserve you.Another most important reason is the mentality of parents of husband or men😡.They don't expect their own son to look after them but they expect someone's daughter to be a slave for them and should do whatever they want.The husband doesn't look after his own parents but expects his wife who is someone's daughter to look after his parents.If the wife ask the same thing would he do that?😡.Hypocrisy at its best🤢.

Originally posted by: Yezabel

Like your post! And my opinion is that happens in our world bc the whole family lives at same house. The couple has any privacy and the elders dont let them take their own decisions. The whole family is too much involved in relationship of the young couple. Imagine now Mauli would live in her own house just with Kunal. They would have their own fight, their own argument, their own solutions and their own decisions for continue or divorce. Thats why I dont like elder family members. Theyre too selfish and its not bc they love their bahu/damad or so called family values why they dont let them divorce. Bc of their own benefits they dont allow the younger generation go their own way.

Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

Exactly,same thoughts as mine,i even often questioned my surroundings about this,They think i am not a marriage material 😆.I am not married yet,i rejected some match as they had put some strict conditions like cooking etc. even before fixing the marriage even when i am highly educated and earning for myself😆.My family members supported my opinion.My parents raised my brother and me equally in my house.I think the problem starts with men or husband who thinks superior to women or wife.One of the option to avoid all this is I feel women should get financial independence before committing into the marriage and also If they start dominating after marriage you should not allow them to rule over you.You should stand for your self respect than anything.When the person doesn't respect you as a human,he or she doesn't deserve you.Another most important reason is the mentality of parents of husband or men😡.They don't expect their own son to look after them but they expect someone's daughter to be a slave for them and should do whatever they want.The husband doesn't look after his own parents but expects his wife who is someone's daughter to look after his parents.If the wife ask the same thing would he do that?😡.Hypocrisy at its best🤢.

I already quit this show long back when dida track started,now i am annoyed with Mauli too🥱.Here i blame Mauli more than anyone.Its high time she should left the disgusting house🥱

Originally posted by: overactor

You know, all this has made me some what opposed to the idea of marriage. I have a high education and am still studying, I can earn well and feed myself. Yet, all desi aunties keep asking when would you marry, dair hojayegi blah blah. Why is marriage considered a necessity for a girl. Sure enough boys my age are considered young for marriage. Marriage should be for love and both partners should be equals in all aspects of life. All. If she cooks lunch he shall cook dinner. If she stays up for the child one night he should do the same next. If he supports his parents, she should support hers.

Why a girl's life is centered around marriage? Shadi hogayi? If done then when r y having babies. If u have one baby they ask when is next coming, if she has given birth to girls they say try for a boy? What the hell is happening in our society? A guy has to financially stable and education complete before marriage but a girl should marry before 25 or else. If she focusses on career they say family pe dhyaan do, bache bigad jayenge pati bewafa hoga? Seriously, why a woman is responsible for each and everything.

I don't know if u people have seen ki and ka movie. But as a strong independent woman, I demand a house husband like men demand house wives. Will my wish be granted? Obviously no, its impossible.

I can understand Maulis pain as I have seen it in close quarters . My friends husband married for a 2nd time without her knowledge.

Originally posted by: ...Nihara...

Exactly!After experiencing all this ,i am even feeling dreadful to marry.If my parents allow me,i can happily stay single, Rather than living in inlaws home as a slave after marriage,its better to enjoy my own money and freedom.I am a Doctor,completed my graduation,preparing for getting seat into Post graduation,My brother is elder to me,but no one qiestions him,As i am a girl everyone ask about my marriage and my marriage topic become talk of town in my house whenever relatives visits my home.I reached a stage where i am hating whole marriage constitution in india.Even being highly educated,as we are woman we have to even provide dowry to men and his family.What kind of ridiculous mentality, systems and cultures are these and who invented them?😡

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

I can understand Maulis pain as I have seen it in close quarters . My friends husband married for a 2nd time without her knowledge.

But her family did not support her much in the fear of bad name for the daughter and then expenses of 2 of her kids so she was left with no option but to stay put with that man.

She has not been able to come to terms with this fact even after 5 years .

Originally posted by: overactor

Hope everything goes well for ur friend.

U know what's worse. If such a woman has a daughter, people ask the wife to sacrifice or else no one would marry her daughter.

Originally posted by: overactor

OmG, I am a doctor too waiting for postgraduation seat.

Same, I don't want to get married unless I fall head over heels for someone and that possibility seems unlikely too because I don't connect with any men, thanks to the mentality they have.

Yeah, we have to give dowry, become a slave, as a doctor I don't think I want to work 36 hrs in a hospital and the remaining as a slave at home🤢

Staying single is so much more convenient

I thought just like you till few days ago, that its not easy for women to remarry after divorce. She will be blamed for failed marriage but every part of the country is not same. My conception change after my stay in tribal influenced backward area.