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Has Nandini completely forgotten Pooja rules or what?
I mean its the head of the house who does the pooja in Hindu rituals, especially in Havan. She is waiting for Kunal as per the precap for the same. (I didn't see today's episode, but did she ask Kunal if he would be able to attend a havan in her family as the head of the house?) I mean none of the ladies in my family or in my friends' family can keep major Havan pooja like that with all the Brahmins without their husbands. Husband-wife sit together to complete all the rituals & customs, when Brahmins are called for the puja if the couple is there, otherwise it's the heir or children to continue the ritual alone if they are unmarried or widowed. It's a different thing when they do it alone all by themselves as in Arya Samaj or Navratri pooja where Havan is done everyday as part of daily pooja.) Or has she planned to introduce Kunal as her husband already even when she knows she is very much the mistress even now for the next one month.
And if Kunal agreed to do that, then has Kunal too has lost his brains completely now? I thought this guy would be saner as compared to her since he didn't have a traumatic past that would completely effect his brain.
The guy isn't even divorced yet & she wants to present Kunal as head of her household. SERIOUSLY?
And that too in front of Brahmins who happen to be quite conservative in their outlook.
How was she going to introduce Kunal in the first place to them- as a father, as a brother, as a husband, as a live-in partner, as a boyfriend, as a son or as a grandson? (If male is presented as head of the house in Pooja, he has to be related somehow OTHERWISE just do the havan all by yourself, there is no problem with that too, Women can lead Havans themselves too without any male figure.)
For some reasons, she thinks she has got more rights than the still legally wedded wife & his family, even in a Pooja even when she knows her relationship with Kunal is very much illegitimate & tainted for the society & Gods & Brahmins who she so nicely invited as long Kunal is still the legally wedded husband of Mauli. Or she has completely sold her brains to think, everything I am doing is absolutely fine & it doesn't matter if some rituals rules are violated as well. Still living in the same society in front of which she was blackened with Tar & inviting Brahmins for Pooja where Kunal would lead it in her household. Even though Mauli isn't the wife, as per traditional protocols, Kunal remains the head of his own family of Dida & his mother. And that is Kunal's rightful place until he himself gives it up completely (for which he is very spineless). He has to marry Nandini to be legitimate head of the house for the Pooja. I mean priests everywhere around the world only consider married couples fit to do certain rituals & spouse is always given the precedence & it doesn't matter if one of them has thousands of other lovers. Legally wedded spouse will still hold more authority in worship & ritual things of religions.
I didn't know Indian societies & Brahmins have advanced so very much. I mean how nuts is this woman. Did she rent her brains for the house rent, instead of cash or did she sell it completely clothes & groceries she buys. And this woman was teaching Mauli about how married woman's hands shouldn't be without bangles & teaching everyone about rules of Pooja & went ahead to fulfill that mannat. For a woman who happens to be highly religious with all the rules, she has completely lost it.
The character is going into gutter with each passing day & we apparently should be fine & sympathize with her since she suffered abuse in her past, which has been over apparently. For some reasons, her past gives her reasons to do anything in the present & still go unquestioned. She is still redeemable. HOW?
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