Can you help me guys?

Hi guys,

i sometimes feel these serials reflect some parts of our 'real life'. I am going through some issues, which i am hoping you guys could advise me on. i'll try and keep it short as possible.

i used to work with a friend, and we were so close, used to do everything together - lunches, go home together, regular emails chats, talk on phone when we got home etc... i went through a bad patch at work and she supported me immensly and it did result me in leaving.

once i left, things seemed to become stronger with us...then all of a sudden she made a new friend at work, stopped keeping in contact with me as much...she was always busy with work whilst i was job hunting, i tried to keep the relationship the same as when we worked together... now whenever i meet her, i feel this uncomfortableness, this other friend of hers whom she is close to and i am not that much, is always there - she seems to think it always has to be the 3 of us....when i would just rather catch up with her only as i don't see her enough...

now she responds to my texts hours or days later ... i want to hug her so tight when i see her, but i just can't - before, we were so open and honest and would do anything for each other... but i still love her sooo much, she is my sister...my jaan and she knows this ...

our personalities are somewhat different - i am more expressive and she is not, i think i have helped her in opening up as she never trusted anyone before... i was always happy and she was always stressed and i would try and always make her happy which i think i did for a while...

now things are not the same, i feel awkward and uncomfortable... can two friends drift whom were so close yet still love each other soo much... i don't want to lose her, i need her in my life... i try to talk to her about our friendship, but never seem to get it across...

i don't know if its all in my head or are we changing... she never tells me what i mean to her...i never needed to know before as i knew my worth in her life, now i don't - i feel this other friend of hers always interferes, i can't seem to talk to her for 5mins without him butting in...

what shall i do .... sorry i tried to keep it short !

i am confused and i really don't want to lose such an important relation in my life...

thanks

aloo gobi.

Topic is posted twice so I will merge this into the other one 😊



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