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Posted: 7 years ago
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Amazing post and so true.. we face that delimma every single day... Have been married for 12 yrs and have a 4 yr old son... but still Everytime I want to do something for my parents.. I have to ensure I have done the similar thing for my MIL before that...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey violette,
Now I understood why the views of my thread shooted up, you are acting as PR,haha😉

I second R&R here,, you are talking about married women and Naina is not one. I am sure she will do what you stated as his wife but will she do the same as his GF? I am still doubtfull reg this. The way she became doormat seeing Rakesh and Taiji tantrums, it can be repeated unless and untill they do hidden court marriage. 😉

Anand will not backoff now and I am hoping N too but can she take his side in front of demon trio? It has to be seen.

Very well written post btw.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rock&roll

Very nice Post..I completely agree that women constantly walk the tight rope between priorities...First between our husbands and parents,then between husbands,parents and children..The cycle never ends and we never give priority to ourselves in this entire cycle.

From that pov, Naina's struggle is the struggle that every girl faces.And it is very understandable.And you have a valid point when you say that having committed to him openly now in front of Chachaji she is more likely to stand by him.


But from a practical pov,there are still some hurdles...Seeing Naina's character she will really and truly commit to Sameer only when he officially becomes family,ie,when they are married.Till then he will(naturally) be secondary in her life.That means she can still leave him for what is primary(her Chachaji and family).Having committed openly this is now less likely to happen,but can happen in two scenarios

1)Her father threatens suicide.If Rakesh threatens suicide,she will again leave Sameer..Rakesh did this once and can do it again

2)Chachaji backs off from his commitment for some reason...Chachaji comes first for Naina and will continue to do so till she marries Sameer..If Chachaji says no,even today Naina will drop Sameer..

This is,of course,based on her inherent character shown till date combined with practical scenariois. But being fiction,I am sure Naina will stand by Sameer for life henceforth 😊


I think none of the two scenarios you mentioned are going to happen..

Rakesh would never commit suicide for Naina.. if at all he will threaten to kill her..😆

Given that chachaji already imagined the worst that could happen according to him (his brother breaking all relations with him and his family) I don't see a reason for him to back off😉
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Avan_s

Go ahead. I hope you like them, they are pretty random...nothing compared to the awesome stuff you guys write. 😆


Let me judge that myself... Thoda practice ho jayegi... Yahan pe likhne ke liye you need to be a good judge.. on drop of hat u need to judge everyone...😆😆😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ross-

Hey violette,

Now I understood why the views of my thread shooted up, you are acting as PR,haha 😉

I second R&R here,, you are talking about married women and Naina is not one. I am sure she will do what you stated as his wife but will she do the same as his GF? I am still doubtfull reg this. The way she became doormat seeing Rakesh and Taiji tantrums, it can be repeated unless and untill they do hidden court marriage. 😉

Anand will not backoff now and I am hoping N too but can she take his side in front of demon trio? It has to be seen.

Very well written post btw.


There u misunderstood naina character.. and the whole point of my writing the post... Uske liye commitment badi cheez hai Lekin do commitment mein choice was very difficult.. also her level of commitment betn the two varied jo uske eventual choice se pata chal gaya.. chachaji ka Bharosa outweighed Sameer's love... Kuch bhi keh lo Naina ke liye pehla pyaar or should I say devotion and idol was chacha... She couldn't have betrayed her first love, her first idol...father vs husband is always v difficult for a girl..😳

I m not defending Naina stance I m just trying to understand hef choice.. I still support her reason for breakup but I do not support giving up on love so easily...😳

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