Naina- sharing a real story - Page 2

Originally posted by: Samaina12

bold: not true at all.Almost 20-25 couples in my own family and relatives were all in love sinve their class 8-9. Yahaan naina phir bhi 11th class mein pyar karne lagi .

Almost all love marriages that happen these days arw of teen lovers growing up together making careers for themselves and getting married once they are financially

Independent.

Falling in.love in school is.not unrealistic.

It is very real and it is not a crime either

Originally posted by: Saras100

Tell me one thing realistically, is falling in Love during School acceptable ? No right, it should not be encouraged in any ways. That's why Parents,Teachers and Friends should try to put some Gnyaan/Sense into their Brains. How many Girls/Boys are spoiling their Lives by loving at an young age ~ they don't know anything, they get carried away by Movies/Serials, which they believe is True & which is not because Girls unknowingly get Pregnant etc & some end their Lives & acid attacks all can be prevented. Psychologically & Scientifically speaking, there are so many hormonal changes during this age, where it has to be Tamed by Parents, Teachers and Good Friends Circles. ***THAT'S WHY CHOOSING GOOD FRIENDS, GOOD ENVIRONMENT & GOOD SOCIAL CIRCLES IS VERY IMPORTANT***

😊

because i know people who are marriwd now whose love stories started in school i dont think its a crime. Sabbki apni apni soch.

Originally posted by: Samaina12

because i know people who are marriwd now whose love stories started in school i dont think its a crime. Sabbki apni apni soch.

Tamed? Love just happens. That is not something anybody can control.

That's nice if they are married and happy for them. Not everyone will get married & there are so many stuff / mishaps that take place in Reel and Reality, so was trying to share with as many people as possible as many youngsters read this & if they are smart enough, they will be able to understand & get into their Brains & set right their lives.

😊

Originally posted by: Saras100

That's nice if they are married and happy for them. Not everyone will get married & there are so many stuff / mishaps that take place in Reel and Reality, so was trying to share with as many people as possible as many youngsters read this & if they are smart enough, they will be able to understand & get into their Brains & set right their lives.

😊

this is not the right place for what u are trying to do. Most people in this forum are either married or old enough to decide what is good for them.

Thank you for your sharing your views..I am ok with school days love story, that is real and I have seen many transforming into life long relationships..but the way they are spoiling the innocence of that love story by bringing in tracks is not sitting with me right..
I love you we're three special words of this show, they showed how important and meaningful those are but then decided to destroy the feeling by making Sameer day the same to Shoe in a blink of a sec in front of everyone..same goes for bike ride and handhold..in the name if jealousy the boy cannot take away all the cherished memories from the gal he loved so much..can't he see the pain in her eyes?
I really don't want Naina to be shown going the suicide route but her situation is pushing her to it..I am glad she did not break down right after the proposal because another girl would..
I really want her to stand up for herself, not for Sameer anymore or Chachaji or the so called friends..none she should be strong just for herself and I don't want to see her going back to Sameer..no not like that..he cannot do this all his life..not done..I really want to see a strong and confident Naina!

Originally posted by: Samaina12

this is not the right place for what u are trying to do. Most people in this forum are either married or old enough to decide what is good for them.

I repeat again, love just happens. It neither sees age nor anything else.

Hey dear...this time I don't blame Sameer. To say the truth to face all hurdles for his girl, but he needs her to trust him. Whatever be the reasons, Naina had no right to take a one way decision. Instead of Rakesh, what if Sameer attempted suicide? Would Naina have gone to him forgoing her family? No. She's always kept Sameer on a pedestal just beneath her family. But now talks of her rishta are going on...she can't bring herself to say she's in love with someone else...max what they'll do...they'll not listen to her. Don't get me wrong...I understand Naina's situation perfectly n sympathize with her...but I do not sympathize with her lack of spine...if you see, rather than her family's threats, she's more concerned about not having the guts to speak up. I know Naina is in pain, but pyaar karna hai to nibhana bhi seekho.

I agree with you on the Sameer suffering and Naina taking one sided decision. But they could have shown this in a better way..Sameer tried tricks but did not sit down and discussed her fears and tried to slowly minimise them..instead he went on Baba mode..they had the whole gang at their disposal to manage things but no that never happened!
My reaction was on this new move on/ jealousy track which is unacceptable to me and I guess many more..if you love someone so deeply then you respect and trust them rather find another girl. My sis went through this pain where she was helpless and had to choose between who is more likely to go extreme - father or BF and she went with father as she knew them both. Her breaking point was when her bf decided to move on..2 days later she was dead with rat poison as she lost the only reason she would have fought for..in her mind she was giving everything time but she lost it.

Originally posted by: Samaina_1990

Hey dear...this time I don't blame Sameer. To say the truth to face all hurdles for his girl, but he needs her to trust him. Whatever be the reasons, Naina had no right to take a one way decision. Instead of Rakesh, what if Sameer attempted suicide? Would Naina have gone to him forgoing her family? No. She's always kept Sameer on a pedestal just beneath her family. But now talks of her rishta are going on...she can't bring herself to say she's in love with someone else...max what they'll do...they'll not listen to her. Don't get me wrong...I understand Naina's situation perfectly n sympathize with her...but I do not sympathize with her lack of spine...if you see, rather than her family's threats, she's more concerned about not having the guts to speak up. I know Naina is in pain, but pyaar karna hai to nibhana bhi seekho.

And why should Sameer give up his life for a girl he feels betrayed him. How would Naina have felt if Sameer broke up with her citing status n family reasons n that his mom or mami or mama threatened suicide if he marries beneath their status. Used, right? Sameer too feels the same.

I don't think he's trying to make Naina jealous, but he's on a rebound...apparently a 19yr old determined to get back at her...to prove he can live n enjoy life without her...he doesn't need her if she could forgo him so quickly. That said, I can't bear Sam romancing with Shoe! Eww! If this jealousy builds up the much needed courage in Naina, I'm okay with it too.

When Sam hurt Naina post bet, I sided with Naina. But Sam won both Naina n the viewers over his commitment to Naina. High time Naina proves to Sameer that she would not leave him in a dump no matter what.

Sorry if I hurt anyone. This is purely my take. And yes, I do agree that instead of focussing on such heavy topics, they should treat us with college romance n such appropriate topics.