Naina- sharing a real story

I think I have reacted to many posts today and might be coming across as negative to some but I am really upset..I have seen my cousin commit suicide in a very similar situation and today I had to relive that horrible experience!
I am upset as today's episode was so wrong..it's a show but it impacts people and in the name of being realistic we have seen a lot - Shefjun story giving such a negative message, Dadi (not even worth any discussion), naina's family, all those constant comments on looks, money talks showing how rich Sameer is, etc etc.
I tolerated all that as I saw a beautiful love story in all that mess that was based on trust..but Sameer taking jealousy route raises so many questions- he does not trust Naina and really thinks she will be jealous at this stage? Can he not see how broken she is and that she needs support and not these crap ideas, does he not realise what can be the consequences if she further breaks? Is he telling her that getting engaged is actually right for her as he straightaway moved on?
I am looking for positive views to calm myself down as it was really a bad episode today!

I feel Sameer is being extremley insensitive for not being able to understand Naina's Pain & her Situation, when she is being forced into a Marriage. How can she blamed entirely? It is not like she can change her Family's mindset, Did Sameer realize how hard Naina's situation was & what situations she was placed in ~

Learn to treat fiction like fiction. Here both sameer and naina are wrong but what forced them?

Lol... lame story from love story.

Don't take it seriously , its a fiction and that too a serial . I don't think this is a finite show so obviously there has to be conflict and patching up...and there has to multiple conflicts at different intervals so it might not be logical always...just forego it...wait till they start the happy times...

Pls do remember they have invested a lot of money in this project so , it needs to run to recover that amount plus profit for them to survive in the industry...so some amount of over the top drama will be done to please or lure the typical serial viewers...towards the end of the serial is a commercial product and it has to sell.

Originally posted by: Saras100

I feel Sameer is being extremley insensitive for not being able to understand Naina's Pain & her Situation, when she is being forced into a Marriage. How can she blamed entirely? It is not like she can change her Family's mindset, Did Sameer realize how hard Naina's situation was & what situations she was placed in ~

1. She wanted to Protect Sameer from getting hurt/insulted by her Family members. Sameer did not realize this or what? He couldn't understand.

2. She tells Preeti in one of the last week's conversation as to what her fears/insecurities are ~

a. Her Father's Position and his oversensitivity

b. Arjun and Shefali's Relationship & how it affected their Family

c. Taiji's Pressure

d. How she is responsible for her Loving Family

e. Most Importantly, she did not want Sameer to Fall Down in front of her Family

3. Did Sameer Understand Naina's Position and her Internal Pain? She loves him one side and she loves her Family equally well & she is not able to choose between both of them ~ She was quite and she did not expect Sharad's Marriage alliance to come in between. Instead of Understanding/Helping Naina, Swag Sameer Jaise Pose Maar Rahe Ha wiith Sunaina as if to make Naina Jealous, Sameer is not understanding that he would have to Cry if he does something foolish / if he misses on Naina. ***Wrong interpretations, Wrong Judgments, Wrong Friendship Advice & Lack of Maturity/Childishness.***

On Top of it, I question myself if Pandit & Munna are really Sameer's True Friends ? Because when Naina and Sameer are going through a Misunderstanding, instead of helping them out, how many times did they both Push Sameer to do Wrong things? And, they made Sameer to confess to Sunaina "I Love You" karke. This is the Third Time Sameer is doing a Foolish act as such. That's why Sameer is a Dumb who doesn't Understand Real Value of a True Loving Girl.

AND, SAMEER CLAIMS HIS LOVE IS "TRUE" ??!! If he was really a True lover, will he give a Rose to Sunaina and say I love you? His love is not true.. that's what it shows / seems. Love is not Cheap & it can be bought/sold, I Love You is like a Cheap Concept that is being shown by Lovers. Horrible.

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Originally posted by: haritha45

This is what I exactly want to say.Telling "I LOVE U" intentionally is not a small thing .If he really wants to MOVE OUT from naina then there r many modes like he did earlier like meditation,going to pune etc etc.He can move on by concentrating on studies or business but moving on with Sunaina is just to hurt Naina deeply.This is not to get naina back because he already got experience that Naina is not going to come back with jealousy.

With this action Sam will only clear d blind trust in naina that he only loves her.After this naina can never heartfully make herself believe that sam can only love her

Sorry to hear about your Cousin...YUDKBH might be a fiction, a story, a serial in a make believe world but since we are so involved with our show from the beginning it does affect us. and especially for teenagers and youngsters here it is sending a wrong message...first of all showing a young girl falling head over heels madly in love with her school friend at such a young age...in reality nothing like this happens or exists...there maybe exceptions though...but once in a bluemoon...and yes Sameer going after Sunaina at just a blink of an eye..he never even bothered to check the reality..the pain and the heartbreak Naina is going through...and on top of it blames her that she was the one who started it all..and always thought about herself...mein..mein..mein...I mean seriously Sameer did you not see from Day 1 Naina has only and only kept Sameer's happiness above everything else...did all sorts of things and lied too for the first time to see Sameer is happy and for what...to hear that She is selfish..selfcentred and just like that he goes and proposes to Sunaina..he did not have the guts to propose to even Naina in front of everyone and now just like that he does this.

Originally posted by: Latas

Sorry to hear about your Cousin...YUDKBH might be a fiction, a story, a serial in a make believe world but since we are so involved with our show from the beginning it does affect us. and especially for teenagers and youngsters here it is sending a wrong message...first of all showing a young girl falling head over heels madly in love with her school friend at such a young age...in reality nothing like this happens or exists...there maybe exceptions though...but once in a bluemoon...and yes Sameer going after Sunaina at just a blink of an eye..he never even bothered to check the reality..the pain and the heartbreak Naina is going through...and on top of it blames her that she was the one who started it all..and always thought about herself...mein..mein..mein...I mean seriously Sameer did you not see from Day 1 Naina has only and only kept Sameer's happiness above everything else...did all sorts of things and lied too for the first time to see Sameer is happy and for what...to hear that She is selfish..selfcentred and just like that he goes and proposes to Sunaina..he did not have the guts to propose to even Naina in front of everyone and now just like that he does this.

bold: not true at all.Almost 20-25 couples in my own family and relatives were all in love sinve their class 8-9. Yahaan naina phir bhi 11th class mein pyar karne lagi .