Adija and Poosh - What is Love? And Is Love enough?

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Nidhi

@lovely_Angie

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Posted: 7 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: g.sreedurga
I can't tell you how much I loved this post!
Hats off to you!😊

Thank you so much dear😊

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Haya Zehra Jafar

@HayaJafar313

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

Beautifully written...😳

Loved the way of ur explaination...😳

Keep giving us such posts...😳

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Karia

@Kaaria

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

Nicely Written Post, Gal!!

Pooja has wronged .. trying to justify herself that how she was left with no other option but to cheat on her husband who literally worshiped the floor you walked on..only because their relationship lacked passion. She must have asked, desired and communicated with Adi of her expectations...apparently the TALKING is where she lacked. Ironically she was the more mature amongst the two.

It was only Pooja who didn't feel the heart wrenching love from Adi.. but Adi didn't. She was asking for a stereotyped love...which Doesn't Exist.

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Joy

@_Joy_

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Amazing post!! Completey agree...

Thats why I dont think Pooja is a victim as painted by her diary! She suffered n suffocated due to the marriage which failed coz of both... but her decisions n choices r what made her a victim!!

How wud Adi evn realise that he shd change whn he himself didnt know that his actions had such worse impacts on Pooja?! He was ignorant but he didnt want to hurt her intentionally...

He wasnt a bad guy... who deserves such guilt!!!

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Nidhi

@lovely_Angie

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Posted: 7 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: HayaZehra313
Beautifully written...😳
Loved the way of ur explaination...😳
Keep giving us such posts...😳

Thank you!!

Would definitely try to pen down something or the other as and when time would allow😊

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Nidhi

@lovely_Angie

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Posted: 7 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: .MooN.
Nicely Written Post, Gal!!
Pooja has wronged .. trying to justify herself that how she was left with no other option but to cheat on her husband who literally worshiped the floor you walked on..only because their relationship lacked passion. She must have asked, desired and communicated with Adi of her expectations...apparently the TALKING is where she lacked. Ironically she was the more mature amongst the two.
It was only Pooja who didn't feel the heart wrenching love from Adi.. but Adi didn't. She was asking for a stereotyped love...which Doesn't Exist.

Thanks Dear😊 That's my only problem with Pooja and to some extent, even with Sakshi😕 They both could have communicated with Adi instead of assuming and playing victim.

The way Sakshi blamed Adi for everything, it boiled my blood to say the least😡 She painted a picture like Adi was a horrible husband who failed miserably and no one should deserve a husband like Adi. It was her saint like daughter who was so mahaan that she did everything she could (apparently everything except COMMUNICATING which the mother-daughter duo conviniently chose to ignore).

Just because she threw in dialogue "I dont justify EMA" repeatedly, doesn't mean she actually didn't. Because the whole long speech she gave sounded totally like she was accusing Adi for Pooja falling out of love. That's where my problem is

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Nidhi

@lovely_Angie

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Posted: 7 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: _Joy_
Amazing post!! Completey agree...
Thats why I dont think Pooja is a victim as painted by her diary! She suffered n suffocated due to the marriage which failed coz of both... but her decisions n choices r what made her a victim!!
How wud Adi evn realise that he shd change whn he himself didnt know that his actions had such worse impacts on Pooja?! He was ignorant but he didnt want to hurt her intentionally...
He wasnt a bad guy... who deserves such guilt!!!

Thanks!!

Yes.. Totally agree with you!! I don't want to say that Pooja was a bad person, but I totally hated her and Sakshi for playing victim and blaming Adi for everything.

They both chose to conveniently ignore the lack of communication on Pooja's part and painted Adi to be such a horrible and nightmarish husband that no woman on this earth should deserve a husband like Adi. I mean, common woman, the guy has such a pure heart and soul And he literally trusted you blindly, encouraged you to persue your dreams, gave you all the freedom. And all you seemed to notice was his flaws and shortcomings😕