Were Yash and Pooja right in their attitude towards their partners ?

I was away this whole week for a family function abd couldn't watch the show. Just watcjed the last 3 epis. So finally thr diary is in Zoya's hands and we will see how Pooja amd Yash fell in love.

I was wondering about something. We have always seen that Aditya and Zoya are faced with situations which make them realize that they didnt know their partners as well as they thought. But did Yash and Pooja know Aditya and Zoya ? Aditya and Zoya werent the ideal spouses. Yes. Maybe they were the ones who always got their way. But does that make Pooja or Yash the ideal spouses? Was their attitude or stance their relationships right ?

Why did Yash never see the strength in Zoya that Adi did ? Yash loved Zoya and she too loved him, enough to elope with him. That must not have been easy on her. Yash supported her through it but never saw her innate strength. He protected her from the world as jer father had. He gave her everything she wanted. But was he the perfect husband ? To me he is no more perfect than Adi. He kept Zoya safe but was that right for her ? As a wife or even as a person Zoya deserved to know what is going on around her. She deserbed to know both the good and bad in Yash's life. He was afraid of shattering her but didnt he who had struggled enough in his life know that everyone has through go through ups and downs. Yes Zoya might have been worried but he could have supported her them rather than not tell her anything at all. He should have shared his problems with her. She should have been his friend. That was her right and duty. Yash treated her more like a child rather than a wife. He gave in to her wishes but never told him hers. How can a relationship like that stay healthy ? Every relationship works on give and take. If it was wrong of Zoya to be the one who took always, then it was wrong for Yash to be on the give side always.

The same goes for Pooja and Adi. Adi was inconsiderate . Yes. He is a bit lost in himself. He didnt bother to meet her friends. He walked out on the party without thinking of her. Yes. Pooja felt bad but did she ever tell him how bad she felt ? She was his friend. Didnt she know thar despite all his impulsiveness and anger he loved her? She was his anchor. Adi cared so much for Zoya despite havong no relation with her. Wouldnt he have cared for Pooja if she told him how bad she felt ? Maybe he never felt the need coz he never understood how deeply it hurt her. Why did she never fight ? If Adi made a mistake by not considering her feelings didnt Pooja make a mistake by not taking a stand ? By not telling him what she wanted ?

Sorry for the long post guys. 😆

exactly

i mean did they even try to get along with their partners? really wanna know more about the diary to understand what they were thinking

They have walked out of their boundaries and chose to live a seperate life and never told anything about them. Kept them in dark...whereas they themselves lived in their own world of oblivion were everything for them had to be perfect.

Such a selfish act 🤢

pooja wanted adi as perfect husband rather than a friend but was she a good friend no..

not even a good human being hurting her hubby who was already disturbed from his parented relationship ...

yash failed to communicate even if he did zoya couldn't understand he didn't try hard to explain ..

That's why I am saying except for that paak rishta and sachha pyaar dialogues, I didn't feel like they were justifying EMA because they showed problems in all 4 people.

Of course, he could have tried to give her a reality check but it seems he did not try hard enough to explain and just gave up.