Indian serials can never be progressive

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So AKAJS just took a major weird illogical twist, so much for wanting to create acceptance of a different couple the woman being older than the man and this is gone the illogical manner, even if the lady could tell about their past life which some astrolegers are able to, its illogical for him to show him in a crystal ball 🤪 They've lost it and made the show even more silly and illogical
And Sahil asks why is his love not able to go forward from there, doesn't mean he loves Vedika and wants to spend the rest of his life with her mean that he forces his love down her throat.
All he could have done was let her know and decide for herself, if she says no even if its for multiple reasons even though she loves him he should take the hint and give her space. If she truly loves him she won't be able to live without him either and will eventually confess to him.
Sahil is 100% acting like a stalker and being a menance, she can actually file a report against him to stop his childishness. A mature man would know how to stand back and let the woman breath.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: happygirl123

So AKAJS just took a major weird illogical twist, so much for wanting to create acceptance of a different couple the woman being older than the man and this is gone the illogical manner, even if the lady could tell about their past life which some astrolegers are able to, its illogical for him to show him in a crystal ball 🤪 They've lost it and made the show even more silly and illogical

And Sahil asks why is his love not able to go forward from there, doesn't mean he loves Vedika and wants to spend the rest of his life with her mean that he forces his love down her throat.
All he could have done was let her know and decide for herself, if she says no even if its for multiple reasons even though she loves him he should take the hint and give her space. If she truly loves him she won't be able to live without him either and will eventually confess to him.
Sahil is 100% acting like a stalker and being a menance, she can actually file a report against him to stop his childishness. A mature man would know how to stand back and let the woman breath.

dear but this is mahamovie..and the makers had to do it and if u see this doesnt have any connection with the actual show..even i dint like this concept and was really scared if they wwud show this in connection with the show..but luckily it dint have any connection with previous epi..it stopped somewhere at friday..and then will start from the same where sahil trying to kill puneesh..on monday
and abt sahil being a stalker..
till the swap drama he never forced her for anything..he was always respecting her decisions..her reasons..especially after the holi incident after being tagged as a stalker..then they met in temple..and vedika asked him to remember his limits..then they wud be friends..after that he did try to do that like when that sextrafficking case when he sensed something wrong he wanted to call her but dint..as he remembered her words..and then after that it was vedika who called sahil to temple.tho what she had in mind was to make him understand again..again there she did give him a false hope asking him to come to temple..to talk abt their matter...but there he got kidnapped..and then he came to know from karan to what extend vedika went to save him..and then he asks her to meet him in temple with the answer..
and there vedika did the worst mistake..of fooling him saying that she is ready for the marriage..and then replaced nidhi there...
so here he never forced her to marry him..he was just asking her yes for the marriage..and even if she said a no..he wud have stayed there happy just being around her all life..thats what he told during the holi..that she just being in his life is more than enough for him..
but vedika and the family fooled him int marrying nidhi..and all tried to force him to accept her...and its from there sahil really looked like a "stalker"..and i wont blame him that much for that..cos what he told was wright..when he took saath pheres..he had vedika in his mind..he did all the vows and promises in her name..so for him vedika is his wife..and vedika literally cheated him..so for sahil..when vedika took such a big freedom to fool him and decide his future..why cant he take that freedom of being her hubby..and throughout the whole process..sahilwas just trying to be the pati..he never forced vedika to be biwiji..
and here its sahil only who can make her understand..and if he stops..vedika will never go behind him after he being married to nidhi..u think vedika even if she realises her love will go to sahil considering the fact that nidhi is his wife...thats why sahil is made to look like a stalker and its necessary..otherwise the story will end with sahil living a loveless life with nidhi and vedika happy for them or sahil divorcing nidhi and vedika being all angry with him...all this..
so in short it was the everyone fooling him into marriage with nidhi he turned out to be a stalker..and that was necessary..
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: happygirl123

So AKAJS just took a major weird illogical twist, so much for wanting to create acceptance of a different couple the woman being older than the man and this is gone the illogical manner, even if the lady could tell about their past life which some astrolegers are able to, its illogical for him to show him in a crystal ball 🤪 They've lost it and made the show even more silly and illogical

And Sahil asks why is his love not able to go forward from there, doesn't mean he loves Vedika and wants to spend the rest of his life with her mean that he forces his love down her throat.
All he could have done was let her know and decide for herself, if she says no even if its for multiple reasons even though she loves him he should take the hint and give her space. If she truly loves him she won't be able to live without him either and will eventually confess to him.
Sahil is 100% acting like a stalker and being a menance, she can actually file a report against him to stop his childishness. A mature man would know how to stand back and let the woman breath.


Bold: when I first saw the promo of this show I really liked it. But somewhere in the middle I lost interest because of this particular reason. I always felt like sahil was acting like a maniac obsessed lover. If Vedika would have loved him back then it was understandable but the way he was acting it seemed like he was telling her you can love me and no one else, sorry to say this but it is actually sending a very wrong message to the viewers. In a way it's saying that being an obsessive lover is fine because the guy is adorable😕 plus sometimes it used to look like that sahil has zero self respect. This show has a strong concept which I think if it utilizes properly, will create wonders. Zee Tv had a similar show called Astitva, many years ago, and that show became one of the most popular of it's time because the story was shown beautifully but nowadays the CVs are so much into illogical drama that they can ruin anything and everything
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dear but this is mahamovie..and the makers had to do it and if u see this doesnt have any connection with the actual show..even i dint like this concept and was really scared if they wwud show this in connection with the show..but luckily it dint have any connection with previous epi..it stopped somewhere at friday..and then will start from the same where sahil trying to kill puneesh..on monday

and abt sahil being a stalker..
till the swap drama he never forced her for anything..he was always respecting her decisions..her reasons..especially after the holi incident after being tagged as a stalker..then they met in temple..and vedika asked him to remember his limits..then they wud be friends..after that he did try to do that like when that sextrafficking case when he sensed something wrong he wanted to call her but dint..as he remembered her words..and then after that it was vedika who called sahil to temple.tho what she had in mind was to make him understand again..again there she did give him a false hope asking him to come to temple..to talk abt their matter...but there he got kidnapped..and then he came to know from karan to what extend vedika went to save him..and then he asks her to meet him in temple with the answer..
and there vedika did the worst mistake..of fooling him saying that she is ready for the marriage..and then replaced nidhi there...
so here he never forced her to marry him..he was just asking her yes for the marriage..and even if she said a no..he wud have stayed there happy just being around her all life..thats what he told during the holi..that she just being in his life is more than enough for him..
but vedika and the family fooled him int marrying nidhi..and all tried to force him to accept her...and its from there sahil really looked like a "stalker"..and i wont blame him that much for that..cos what he told was wright..when he took saath pheres..he had vedika in his mind..he did all the vows and promises in her name..so for him vedika is his wife..and vedika literally cheated him..so for sahil..when vedika took such a big freedom to fool him and decide his future..why cant he take that freedom of being her hubby..and throughout the whole process..sahilwas just trying to be the pati..he never forced vedika to be biwiji..
and here its sahil only who can make her understand..and if he stops..vedika will never go behind him after he being married to nidhi..u think vedika even if she realises her love will go to sahil considering the fact that nidhi is his wife...thats why sahil is made to look like a stalker and its necessary..otherwise the story will end with sahil living a loveless life with nidhi and vedika happy for them or sahil divorcing nidhi and vedika being all angry with him...all this..
so in short it was the everyone fooling him into marriage with nidhi he turned out to be a stalker..and that was necessary..


Are you for real??? Like seriously this is so illogical
1) If he doesn't admit Nidhi is his wife is fine but what rubbish that he takes Vedika as his wife just cause he thought he took pheras with her.Like that every guy getting marrying out there will say I loved another but married another due to parents forcing me etc but while I was getting married I still was thinking I was actually marrying the girl I love and hence she becomes my wife

2) Vedika only did make him marry Nidhi is because she thought it will stop him from becoming utterly mad stalking her that he finally will have a closed chapter, and no way does that give him a right to stalk her even if she forced him to marry her...Helllooo today if a guy likes you and you say no would you like if he keeps coming and telling you I love you despite you saying no many times. Where do you draw the line. This is obsessions
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramisaaAli


Bold: when I first saw the promo of this show I really liked it. But somewhere in the middle I lost interest because of this particular reason. I always felt like sahil was acting like a maniac obsessed lover. If Vedika would have loved him back then it was understandable but the way he was acting it seemed like he was telling her you can love me and no one else, sorry to say this but it is actually sending a very wrong message to the viewers. In a way it's saying that being an obsessive lover is fine because the guy is adorable😕 plus sometimes it used to look like that sahil has zero self respect. This show has a strong concept which I think if it utilizes properly, will create wonders. Zee Tv had a similar show called Astitva, many years ago, and that show became one of the most popular of it's time because the story was shown beautifully but nowadays the CVs are so much into illogical drama that they can ruin anything and everything


Oh thank you for being someone who echos my thoughts. Never thought would find anyone in this forum who wasn't so blindly glorifying stalking and hence lead to society problems of rape harassment. We have TV to blame. I love Suhasi and it seemed to go well initially and now its a circus. Sahil is in denial. Nothing stops him really where is his self respect like you said.
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Originally posted by: happygirl123


Are you for real??? Like seriously this is so illogical
1) If he doesn't admit Nidhi is his wife is fine but what rubbish that he takes Vedika as his wife just cause he thought he took pheras with her.Like that every guy getting marrying out there will say I loved another but married another due to parents forcing me etc but while I was getting married I still was thinking I was actually marrying the girl I love and hence she becomes my wife

2) Vedika only did make him marry Nidhi is because she thought it will stop him from becoming utterly mad stalking her that he finally will have a closed chapter, and no way does that give him a right to stalk her even if she forced him to marry her...Helllooo today if a guy likes you and you say no would you like if he keeps coming and telling you I love you despite you saying no many times. Where do you draw the line. This is obsessions

then she shud stop acting like his lover or wife..and why isnt she stopping him when he is acting her husband..and esp nowadays when he is crossing the physical boundary too..
first of all she had no right in deciding his future..when she herself caller her an outsider in sahils life..and even after he started acting like her husband...telling the neighbours..why cant she deny..why cant she say..no he is lying..we arent husband wife?that is my question..
this happened quite a few times..first in that party he introduced her as his wife..she never told the people that she isnt his wife..after that in that competition..also when he told to the whole kanpur..did she deny?no..then even to the school kids and parents who came for tuitions sahil sad to them that she is his wife..did she deny?no.
and yes i wudnt like a guy coming behind me even after i say him no several times..but for that i wont interfere in his life matter on his family pressure..and decode his jeevan saathi without his premission and cheat him..
and also after marriage if he comes and call him as my hubby..and keep saying that to the world..i wud deffinitely say a no..to that..to the world..
yes dear i agree sahil does look like a stalker..but i also find its vedikas fault of not denying it..when he keeps saying this..
and i dont understand abt vedika being justified for making him marry to nidhi..just cos she thot it will stop his madness...and where did u see a stalker sahil before this bride swap?
ok that holi incident was kinda bad from his side of decisding to get her drunk and confess..but we saw after her accusation how he was trying to be in his limits...
he also did say it very clearly that she just being in his life is enough for him
for stopping someone from stalking u...will u say a yes to him and demand marriage next day and then do the bride swap?get that person married to someone else?
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Originally posted by: divyaak123

then she shud stop acting like his lover or wife..and why isnt she stopping him when he is acting her husband..and esp nowadays when he is crossing the physical boundary too..

first of all she had no right in deciding his future..when she herself caller her an outsider in sahils life..and even after he started acting like her husband...telling the neighbours..why cant she deny..why cant she say..no he is lying..we arent husband wife?that is my question..
this happened quite a few times..first in that party he introduced her as his wife..she never told the people that she isnt his wife..after that in that competition..also when he told to the whole kanpur..did she deny?no..then even to the school kids and parents who came for tuitions sahil sad to them that she is his wife..did she deny?no.
and yes i wudnt like a guy coming behind me even after i say him no several times..but for that i wont interfere in his life matter on his family pressure..and decode his jeevan saathi without his premission and cheat him..
and also after marriage if he comes and call him as my hubby..and keep saying that to the world..i wud deffinitely say a no..to that..to the world..
yes dear i agree sahil does look like a stalker..but i also find its vedikas fault of not denying it..when he keeps saying this..
and i dont understand abt vedika being justified for making him marry to nidhi..just cos she thot it will stop his madness...and where did u see a stalker sahil before this bride swap?
ok that holi incident was kinda bad from his side of decisding to get her drunk and confess..but we saw after her accusation how he was trying to be in his limits...
he also did say it very clearly that she just being in his life is enough for him
for stopping someone from stalking u...will u say a yes to him and demand marriage next day and then do the bride swap?get that person married to someone else?

I very much agree...im not glorifying stalking..but how does it look like stalking when vedika isnt denying what sahil is saying?
Yes as u said vedika shud stop acting like a wife before we all tagging sahil a stalker..she shud stop interfering in.his matters already she did interfere in one of the.most imp decision of his life...and isnt it more than enough?..she.had to stop after that but yes sahil came and started.being her hubby...still she cud have stopped him wright by denying it to the world that They are not hubby wife..but she.dint also after that she wanted to interfere in his life by patching him with.nidhi..
And yes I really cant understand how people support vedikas bride swapping ...Like seriously if a guy stalks u..to stop him is this the way?

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