There is a reason why marriage is called a commitment/promise

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Posted: 7 years ago
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There is a reason why people are a bit scared before entering into an institution of marriage and some people preffer to be in livein than marriage.
Marriage is a commitment which two people make To be beside each other forever,to trust each other.According to me its a very beautiful realtionship.
I will not say that if somebody has once married then he cant divorce if he/she is not happy.But cheating is not a solution.

I was astonished how easily Sakshi blamed Aditya for Pooja's cheating.Adi might not be perfect but he loved and most importantly trusted Pooja.They were both commited.And you dont break promises like that.Its wrong😭

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I rather find Pooja's so called reasons as mere excuses to be away from Aditya.
She didn't tell Aditya because she didn't want to hurt him, but having a relationship with another person, it doesn't justify it either.She could have at least tried explaining Adi the problems in their relationship or taken a divorce from him, but she found cheating and writing a diary filled with guilt a better solution.

Extra Marital Affairs can never be justified.

If she loved him enough, she would have tried.

Till now I felt that Sakshi was innocent but hiding something this big until now is synonymous to cheating.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: someonelikeyou-

I rather find Pooja's so called reasons as mere excuses to be away from Aditya.

She didn't tell Aditya because she didn't want to hurt him, but having a relationship with another person, it doesn't justify it either.She could have at least tried explaining Adi the problems in their relationship or taken a divorce from him, but she found cheating and writing a diary filled with guilt a better solution.

Extra Marital Affairs can never be justified.

If she loved him enough, she would have tried.

Till now I felt that Sakshi was innocent but hiding something this big until now is synonymous to cheating.

Just my views.

Exactly!I share the same views😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If u r married n faithful, u wud never think of crossing d line. If Adi was d probm, why didn't Pooja realise it before meeting Yash? She knew him as a kid, so itz not like an arranged marriage where she knew nothn abt d person. I agree Adi needed growing up, but cheating is not d answer.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SQ.com

There is a reason why people are a bit scared before entering into an institution of marriage and some people preffer to be in livein than marriage.

Marriage is a commitment which two people make To be beside each other forever,to trust each other.According to me its a very beautiful realtionship.
I will not say that if somebody has once married then he cant divorce if he/she is not happy.But cheating is not a solution.

I was astonished how easily Sakshi blamed Aditya for Pooja's cheating.Adi might not be perfect but he loved and most importantly trusted Pooja.They were both commited.And you dont break promises like that.Its wrong😭




So true and sakshi claims she has best interests of Adi and loves him more than her daughter. I will not wrong Pooja if she has fallen for someone else but saying that she loves someone else only because of Adi is completely wrong. If only she has taken divorce. It is not something she couldn't help, if she was ever in love with Adi Pooja would have never done this to him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I have always found sakshi very shifty since the beginning. Despite of how much love she showered on adi, I was never completely convinced of her and now I finally got my answer. Adi and pooja' s marriage was not perfect and I know that adi has his set of flaws but his plus points are way too many compared to his minus points. Moreover pooja and adi were not strangers and they both knew each other for a long time. The BS reasons pooja gave for cheating on adi makes no sense as she was his best friend and she must be completely aware about adi's likes and dislikes. If she was the so called mature one, why did she marry him in first place and even if she did, why did she not bother to openly talk about this to adi. Her 'mature' response to all her issues was cheating on her husband who was also her best friend. No wonder adi was behaving like that after her death. Such betrayal of trust breaks a person and adi bore this twice. I mean his mother was cheated by his father he was the one who has to see all this, live with it and pick up the pieces to carry on with his life. Second time it was his best friend who was also his wife. At this point I don't really care what pooja's reasons were because she did something unforgivable and cruel despite of knowing exactly how much adi hates cheaters. Sakshi is worse than pooja.

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