will u forgive n let go if ur spouse says he/she is in love with else?

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will u forgive n let go if ur spouse says he/she is in love with else?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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yest adi had said a line "agar kisi aur se pyaar hua toh bata deti,mere dill ke hazaro tukde hojate bt.."
i pray such situation never arises ...but will u forgive n let go if ur spouse says he/she is in love with someone else?or ws in love bt now want to be back... what would u do...tell me other than the options too if having...n reasoning to for the answer..
Edited by Saumya0211 - 7 years ago

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'll prefer moving on... There's no point in being with a person who doesn't love you anymore so let him/her go and move on...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Immediately divorce 🤣

Jokes apart, yes I would do that. Cs yaar what's the purpose of even discussing?? Pyaar toh hua nah usse?? Kya mujhse poocha karne k pehele?? Nai naa. Ho gaya. Toh ab kyun discuss karni hai?? Theek hai kar bhi diya toh kya kahenge?? Mere saath reh reh k kissi dusri ko pyaar kiya toh uske liye ab mein kaun hun?? Koi nai. Bas the moment he fell in love or even had a thought of another woman the very moment he lost the love for me in his heart. No use of discussing even thinking of patching up or living together again. Just my opinion though. It could vary. Sigh
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Me had move on in life if I know aise rishta ka koi matlab nahi ho if my partner do not love me lekin uske pehle I geneuly asked him why you do not want to be with me
Depends on situation
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Posted: 7 years ago
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My gut reaction would be to flip out at first and be super angry but in the end I would recognize that you can't force love.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I voted for mutually separate.
I will be hurt but slowly i will understand that, he fell out of love, okay we can't hold on to it anymore so best option is to move on. So will choose to mutually separate. And I will not forgive him soon because i take time to get over the betrayal. [Still trying to get over one happened six years ago]. I have taken that person back but the seeds of betrayal are still inside fresh.

I think there is nothing we can do if our partner falls out of love with us than moving on.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I will give divorce and try to move on but will never forgive him...this is what I feel now as an unmarried girl.
Edited by Ardhanarishwara - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I kind of disagree with most answers here. Being in love and acting on it are different things. As long as she is ready to make a choice to never act on that attachment, I will be willing to be with her. Besides, she being in love with some other person does not mean she doesn't love me. You can very well love two persons at the same time. It is all about making choices. My opinion.

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