Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@Hammie Pooja had allowed Adi to be the way he was. And when she felt he was not good enough for her to feel prem ki barsaat went for another man.
haaa haa you cracked me up... not good enough! dekhe nehin uske ke packs!😛 sorry me behaving badly...😆 maaf ker de...Instead if she had spent time with him, allowed him to grow maybe thing would have been different.not the way they were going.. he was football fan like most guys in UK... and she was " well versed"!But Zoya brings out his weakness. Make him face them and address them thus evolving him. A marriage is successful when both couple evolve over a period of time.touche! correct! couldn't agree more..This I can say as a woman married for ten years. The person I was and the person I am there is a lot of difference. Lot of perspectives changed and this is true to my hubby also. Reason is we have fought our disagreements, discussed on issues and slowly instead of adjusting we have accepted and adapted.,,would have loved to see more pooja and adi discussions.. we had some.. but only ones that pre-empted forthcoming discord between them.. or we got to see some lovey dovey bits..ohhh ... so you should know.. 10 years a decade.. god bless your family..😃 I can only remember my parents.. but I see the subtle adaptations and adjustments two individuals have to make a serious commitment work..😃 hammie