Saree of a dead woman- Pooja in Zoya

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 7 years ago

You know yesterday Zoya's illusion was broken. Her so called see good in everything was dealt a blow when she realized she was wearing Pooja's saree. How the saree came to her and how the saree was perceived was two different things. Here Zoya did one mistake unknowingly ie accept the saree from Sakshi and wear it, and one knowingly. She took the personal photos from Adhi mobile.

It's a different thing when a wife gives couple photos to celebrate her hubby's birthday.She would know what can be displayed and what cannot.But Zoya took what she felt was right.In the FBs itself it is clear Adhi never showed his love, he was private when it came to expressing his intimate moments. Even in FB Anjana and Sakshi left Adhi and Pooja to spend their private time after wishing him birthday at mid night. So those private moments she had kept in a slide show, the very same moments that is eating into him.

I would say Adhi was fine when kids wished him happy birthday. He was even fine when Happy birthday came in the slide. his mood changed only when couple photo came and he went beserk when he saw her standing in pooja's saree. If Zoya had arranged his birthday the way she thought was right Adhi would have been fine, problem was Zoya tried to be Pooja. In that saree she brought alive the woman who had died.Whatever accusations Adhi threw at Zoya were aimed at Pooja. Especially the fact that behind the innocent face you are a smart player. Pooja too had an innocent face, but she had secrets. A secret that broke Adhi.

Zoya told Adhi had made it personal.Both of them had made it personal. Adhi wants to prove Zoya wrong on trusting Yash and Zoya wants to prove Adhi wrong for distrusting Pooja. Yes it is a war between them on who will win.It's about proving one's perception right and trying to force your perception on other. It will lead to destruction only as with those perception you are bringing death back and not life. Life needs rational thinking and ability to move on and not stay at a point.Ability to look at present than debate the past which both of them are doing.In the whole mess they are making a spectacle of themselves as people like Mahi enjoy.

What I liked the most was CVs are breaking Zoya's thoughts.Making her understand to look beyond what is seen and not blindly accept things, else it would come out as Pooja's saree.

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Subha

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Posted: 7 years ago

Well, arranging a birthday party was not wrong. Aditya wouldn't have got angry if he was shown only his pics that Zoya clicked while stalking him the whole day. Yeah she crossed the line when she took Adi and Pooja pics from Aditya's mobile without his knowledge or permission.

Aditya's main reason for anger was not the party but those photographs. He felt Zoya invaded his privacy and did tamasha of his personal life.

But then even he has tried to invade Zoya's privacy couple of times too. I guess that's what Zoya will tell him in tonight's episode that dude, U must have realized how it feels when U would mock and insult me in front of everyone, even inside the jail for trusting Yash.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 7 years ago

@tulips that's what I said, both of them had made it personal as each want to prove another wrong. Not realizing in the melee they are making a spectacle of themselves.

And I agree Adhi would have been fine if only those solo photos were displayed.

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sagarvandana

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Posted: 7 years ago

Sruthi🤗 a big shout- out for your excellent analysis of the situation!👏 I always love to read your psychoanalytical evaluation of both the characters Zoya and Adhi .😊

Sometimes we have to assume that men are from Mars and women are from Venus! Many unsaid arguments between pairs stem from simple misunderstandings based on different communication styles! For example, women often want to be expressive in a different style and a man will often misinterpret this by thinking he's meant to find a point to ponder! In the illusion of sameness, Zoya tempted to express her sense of belonging to Adhi in that particular manner for which Adhi reacted in such a way as she intruded into his private life!

In this illusion of the sense of belonging, first Zoya and later Adhi assumed that the events and the particular behaviors in such situations have the same emotional meaning for both of them. Zoya put herself in an invidious situation by showing Adhi's personal photos [and wearing Pooja's saree ] to him to show her apnapan in his life. At first, her illusion leads to hurt and bewilderment in Adhi. The great irony of the illusion of this sense of belonging is -- besides having different attitudes ,different core vulnerabilities, different temperaments, different gender socialization, and they certainly had different life experiences, and different trajectories to their emotional development, undercurrent there is a strong presence of love which is combating with the ego of Adhi and a slight hesitation of Zoya . All of these caused them to give different emotional meanings to the same events. These differences are a large part of what attracts lovers, expands their views regarding life , and enhances their experience of being in love , alive !! Thanks once again for this excellent post Shruthi .😊

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Posted: 7 years ago

I disagree about aditya being a private person.I percieved that bedroom scene so differently than you did! It is anjana sakshi and arjun who left the room themselves without waiting for any hint by adi or pooja...and adi and pooja did not bother with asking them to leave at all...it seemed like they were fine either way...how is this private?

Also the pictures zoya used, they weren't personal at all or were they?at least pooja's pic in saree...what is so intimate or private about that...she was just standing alone with a cake in her hands!

Though I can understand why he said zoya made a mockery out of his personal life,it's because she brought all his issues with pooja out for everybody to see(so I understand his reason but his reaction seemed very juvenile and forced/contrived...specially when he started his "that is why he cheated on you BS again)...and what was zoya thinking?it was a very stupid plan...the right,mature thing would have been to just tell adi that pooja was planning this for him.

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Joy

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Posted: 7 years ago

Nicely written as always!

Exactlyy... Zoya did a mistake... she was wrong... N she had made it personal too like Adi.

Adi wud hav been angry if he wud hav knwn that it wasnt a charitable event but his own bday party... whch he didnt wanna celebrate... but those kids' smile wud have him smiling...

But Zoya not only made him angry but she hurt him... n that is whr evrythng went wrong!

She organised the party to prove hr point ryt ... to prove Pooja's love... that was wrong!... She cud hav told him that Pooja planned it but presenting as Pooja made things worse.

He wudnt mind seeing his collage whch she was preparing frm recent pics... but seeing His n Pooja's pics on display left him shattered

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geet0910

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Posted: 7 years ago

i agree with u.. wat is zoya n adi biggest n similar prblm is that they see the world n ppl only according to their illusion.. like zoya is such a person that if someone wud have done this party thing for her on her bday, she would have been overjoyed to see the efforts the person has put to make her bday so memorable.. n wud have thanked that person a lot. n thats y she felt adi wud do the same.. similarly adi also thinks that if he can see the proofs of pooja n yash being cheaters clearly then she should also see that n accept it n as she doesnt see the things in his way of seeing it irks him.. both want the whole world should see the world only thru their eyes.. 😆

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 7 years ago

@sagarika that'a why communication is needed in married life. Men have certain perception about women and we women to have perception about them.expectation is kept based on those perception. Unless u talk and understand each other, accept differences marriage won't be smooth. @geet we need to understand we have a view,but others view may not be ours.either understand or politely agree to disagree than try to prove ur point or impose your view on others.