if i were pooja

If I had been in her place, I would hv talked about this with him that I m unhappy.

I m so surprise with forum mates they people r blaming victims , sympathizing d culprits & backstabbers. Great going

Yes, definitely I would be hurt. If we do something for others we expect the same thing for us, that's not selfishness but human nature. There is no relationship without expectations. But I would never opt for EMA👎🏼

Originally posted by: ssnehaaa

If I had been in her place, I would hv talked about this with him that I m unhappy.

Some people in this forum are saying that just bcz he dint go for poet recitation ,she started having affair🤪

This is not about poem or football. It's about being with each other, taking interest in what your partner likes etc. Adi was shown like a selfish 3 year kid. If he wants to watch football he wud take Poo with him but if she wants to go somewhere, then he wouldn't accompany her bcz he isn't interested in it .Why shud Pooja put in all efforts and Adi wil play video games??

Isn't marriage about commitment and efforts from both sides?

Generally in India people feel If your husband is not abusive, and is friendly n nice and doesn't hit u, then it's ok to be with him happily .There is something called EMOTIONAL intimacy. Every girl dreams of marrying a man who wud sweep her off her feet. Jo uske liye chaand Taare Tod aayega .Who would loved her madly . That madness and Junoon was not there in Adi poo marraige.

Aditya loved her but HE was Not in Love with her.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

I m so surprise with forum mates they people r blaming victims , sympathizing d culprits & backstabbers. Great going

Did Pooja mentioned ADI forcefully take her along with him

Pooja just blamed ADI & justified EMA . Dairy is from pooja's pov,

Really story will comeout when ADI will read d diary, then d real pic of Pooja will comeout

no you're getting it wrong, what we saw through pooja's pov, she is bound to get hurt. No adi didn't take her forcefully to the match, she herself went there for adi's happiness, she did not blame adi she just said he wasn't with her when she needed him the most. She was blaming herself for having emotions for THE OTHER MAN. She was wrong, totally wrong. There is no justification for cheating-period

yes i agree.. its hurting wen the person u consider ur world takes u for granted n doesnt do things u expect them to do for u.. n ppl r saying, in such cases u talk n ask for it.. bt sometimes we feel that somehow asking for everything feels like we r begging.. begging for that kind of attention, that kind of love which we desire n dream of, begging to b the topmost priority in their life,begging to b not taken for granted n soo on... n thats y we feel that the person in front of us should undrstnd it himself n give everthing to us without demanding.. coz maanga hua pyaar real nhi hota.. it can become fake.. maybe thats wat happened with pooja.. she wanted her best frnd to understnd her himself n give her everything without asking for it.. thats y she wanted him to grow up which she said, coz she wanted the love of a grown up matured man who will undrstnd her needs n desires even without asking for it.. ofcourse she should not have cheated, but then nobody is perfect n flawless.. we r not in her place n circumstances to judge her.. "only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches" i will not judge her character for that cheating.. but i will also not say that she is right in cheating.. she made a mistake but then "to err is human" .. but then its my PERSPECTIVE. ppl r allowed to not agree with it..

Ok. I get that pooja had her reasons for cheating but if she is the so called mature one, why did she not communicate with him? Going behind her husband's back and having an affair was her solution. That shows how much respect she actually had for her relationship. If she had a little dignity or maturity, she would have tried to end her relationship with aditya first. Nobody forced her to marry aditya. Nobody forced her to have an affair. She could not even respect her friendship with aditya. Also I find it a little strange for arjun to go around looking into his bhabhi's personal diary like that. He should have given it to aditya. It is none of his business.