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Posted: 7 years ago
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Adi and Poo didn't directly went to husband wife mode,as per the strawberry fb they were dating also.So, according to me Poo had a lot of time to know adi's love is junoon wala or not. Moreover according to poo it seems junnon wala love means
to eat strawberry even after having allergies
to get drenched in rain even if you are going to get ill
to go for moisiki
to call frittata as omlette
to sit hours in a same mode so that your painting can be made

Bringing your ma in law home and loving her like a mother
giving 5 crores without asking a question
to share all the passwords and each and everything in life
to appreciate your skill and motivate to become a big name
running all over mussiorie to get a gift of your choice
are actually friendship things and quite silly.
No relationship is perfect you need to make it perfect but she never tried if adi was sab kuch of her then why she didn't tried?

for adi poo was his family but She wanted to have adi in life as husband so that she can get all the peace and security because if adi was not her type she could have easily said that,but she cheated.
Even if Adi wasn't a great husband according to her at least he was a great friend but pooja failed as a friend too.She failed in all her relationships.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Santiago24


You are just reiterating what I intended to convey - its easy for us to take the moral high ground and point fingers..

@bold - do we know how she communicated her expectations.. for me, her bringing up the football match reference was an indirect way of telling Adi, that hey look I make compromises, why cant you? Communication can be subtle, indirect etc.. everything need not be, ok lets sit down and discuss.. and btw even if folks are best friends, its extremely difficult to get emotionally naked in front of another.. and yet again, in long friendships, there is this angle of, he knows me so well... shouldnt he know what I feel etc etc.. which creeps in.. as I say, its all very complex, this tussle of feelings..

Cheating is wrong.. but the very fact that it exists as an act points to the fact that people have resorted to it..

Well may be because I live by those high moral grounds myself so morally degrading stuff is unacceptable for me I can understand your views being different here.
We all see things from our perspective the way we are. Pooja put absolutely no effort to make her relationship work in any way. You don't feel happy in your marriage and you are choosing indirect communication to convey that and that too about going to a football match, really? If she was so mature and understand why didn't she handle things like mature person? It was easy for her to cheat on her husband but communicating her feelings was difficult, like really? Why did Adi not feel all those stuff you are saying because he was clear about his feeling. But pooja wasn't and she realized it after marriage. But then also being the coward she was she choose to bring other person in her life while she was still married.
Its very easy to say things you have mentioned but consider yourself in the situation where your partner will cheat on you. You can't apply any such logic there.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: incrediblycute

Adi and Poo didn't directly went to husband wife mode,as per the strawberry fb they were dating also.So, according to me Poo had a lot of time to know adi's love is junoon wala or not. Moreover according to poo it seems junnon wala love means

to eat strawberry even after having allergies
to get drenched in rain even if you are going to get ill
to go for moisiki
to call frittata as omlette
to sit hours in a same mode so that your painting can be made

Bringing your ma in law home and loving her like a mother
giving 5 crores without asking a question
to share all the passwords and each and everything in life
to appreciate your skill and motivate to become a big name
running all over mussiorie to get a gift of your choice
are actually friendship things and quite silly.
No relationship is perfect you need to make it perfect but she never tried if adi was sab kuch of her then why she didn't tried?

for adi poo was his family but She wanted to have adi in life as husband so that she can get all the peace and security because if adi was not her type she could have easily said that,but she cheated.
Even if Adi wasn't a great husband according to her at least he was a great friend but pooja failed as a friend too.She failed in all her relationships.

Very well said. Pooja's definition of love and passion is beyond me. She would her wife status to take money from her husband and then label him a bad husband.
Wish Adi has bought her a puppy because that's what she needed for an husband.

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