Adi was the reason Pooja cheated - Page 4

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

Cheating can never be justified.. If you fall out of love or are not compatible but realize only after marriage.. get a divorce but never cheat

Originally posted by: pearl100

She could have spoken about her problems to Adi but instead expected him to understand on his own, without communication how can the issues be solved. Going behind his back and choosing someone with the similar interests doesn't make her right. She could have made Adi understand what are her expectations if nothing changes she could have parted her ways with him. But cheating doesn't make her righteous.

Originally posted by: Nandini30

Puja is an opportunist she wanted to enjoy adis money status and have fun with another man. If she left Adi who will give her expensive lifestyle Yash was a failed businessman.
Useless woman no career no beauty using husbands money.
Thank God she died or else she would have brought up Yash s babby with adis name without knowledge of Adi
No sympathy for the lady criminal

Originally posted by: luvurishbala

Agree... well written... infact I had made a similar post. Pooja was wrong... n ll be. She chose the wrong path. She chose to break Adi completely to fulfill her needs... rather thn solving n communicating!

Originally posted by: mijanur

Pooja did not know definition of love . She did not realize being faithful is a great characteristic of a lover.

Originally posted by: -BebaakBegum-

Giving 5 crores to his wife without giving it a thought does not make Aditya a good husband. It just makes him look careless. As partners, one has to make financial decisions together. Had he said I'd also join you in the meeting that would make him a good husband.

Originally posted by: S.Stephy

I won't say Adi is the reason for the cheating.

If we consider that the cheating never happened, even then there were some problems in the marriage. All wasn't well. Both Adi and Pooja were responsible for it. As of now, some of Adi's behaviour in the fbs make it clear that he had some fault. We don't know whether Pooja tried communicating her needs or not... but if she didn't then there is fault on her side. Here, I'm just talking about the issues in the marriage excluding the cheating angle.

But when it comes to the cheating aspect, then it is only and only Pooja's fault. Adi cannot be blamed in this.

Originally posted by: Angels11

This is like victim blaming. You cheat & then blame ur spouse. BS. If Adi was childish & immature Pooja s'd ve made him sit down & listen 2 her concerns. If he had still been insensitive she s'd ve simply walked out of the marriage. Not even trying 2 sort out ur issues with ur spouse & then cheating on him with another guy is "PATHETIC"

Originally posted by: Ianoconic.

Pooja and Adi were childhood friends and she found it difficult to communicate her expectations with him and it was easy for her to cheat on her husband cum best friend? what logic is this?

She very conveniently put all the blame on her husband but I want to know what great efforts she put to improve her relationship. Its easy to blames others for your faults but difficult to accept it.

She was just spineless cheater who did not know meaning of loyalty and faith. He was cheating not only her husband but also best friend.

If she was so unhappy why she did not bother with divorce? Because she was coward to face people,to make them understand what she felt.

When you cheat, no one else but only you are responsible for it. You have no right to blame your partner as your partner is not doing what you are doing to him/her.