Pyar Kiya Nahi Jata Ho Jata Hai

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MeenAkshi Kalra

@dreamyp

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Pyar kiya nahi jata ho jata hai.. how many of I believe in this line? I do.. pyar kbi b kisi se b kahin b kisi b pal ho sakta hai..Chahe aap jawan ho, old ho, dusre religion se ho and and and single ho ya married ho.. it's just a feeling which can anything knock on your heart..

Today pooja story start unfolding. Pooja n adi were best frnds frm childhood yes FRIEND but lovers? Did they really love each other or did they feel that they love each other?

I dnt know pooja had an affair with yash or not..May b yes may b no.. n I cnt justify her act too.. but she was a girl who was craving 4 love and if she got that love from a stranger then wat was her mistake ? She was at fault really ? If we judge her as a married person then we ll judge her character but if we judge her as an individual then our pov will change.. yes the story ll unfold slowly n lete c wats in future track..Were pooja n yash really at fault??

P.s. It's just my pov..All comments are welcome..

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

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Posted: 7 years ago

Dreamyp, you make an excellent point.. actually not one but two..

1. The distance between friendship and love - what is it? what is that x factor which sets apart the person who we love deeply passionately apart from our best friend? Am not saying that one cant experience that deep love with one's best friend.. but more often than nought there is that difference.. Pooja and Adi ended up remaning friends in the guise of married couple.. Pooja wanted to transcend that but Adi for who pyar dosti hai didnt get it.. and thats where the relationship stalled

2. About PoV changing about Pooja, had she been single.. this is a point worth mulling over..

One would never judge her morally had she been single... but yes marriage is an institution which comes with a set of tacit binding, one of which and the foremost being committed and loyal.. so in the event of that, her act gets judged as wrong.. forget marriage, even if she had been in a committed relationship, the act would have been wrong..

Mind you, that am stressing on the word - act. She is not wrong or bad.. but its act given the context which can be deemed wrong..

P.S I know you from another forum - RKC?

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MeenAkshi Kalra

@dreamyp

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

So true yrr.. completely agree with you.. bhot c feelings hoti h jinhe hm sahi ya galat nahi keh sakte..N who r we to judge them?

M very active on ye unn dino ki baat hai forum..

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PenguinBaby

@PenguinBaby

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

I completely believe this statement. Love is a feeling and no one, no one in this world has control over their feelings. Be it a boy or a girl, a man or a woman, married or unmarried, young or old.

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Half Tamilian

@AuthorSneha

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 7 years ago

I completely agree that pyar Kia nai jata and ho jata hai.

Nobody here is blaming Pooja for falling for Yash .what we are trying to say is she shudnt hv cheated. We can clearly see Adi loved Pooja but never tried to show it and never put in any efforts for her. He simply took her for granted. So it's quite possible for her to get attracted to someone but she shud hv told him and got divorced before starting a new relationship

As I already mentioned in one of the thread,

Though cheating is wrong and I can never support it, but atleast I got to know Pooja's side and can sympathize with her a lil bit . Please don't get me wrong .m not supporting her but just keep yourself once in her place. U go for football and every thing that your husband wants u to but jab tumhari baari aayi, when u r interested in something then your husband doesn't join u.

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: dreamyp
So true yrr.. completely agree with you.. bhot c feelings hoti h jinhe hm sahi ya galat nahi keh sakte..N who r we to judge them?
M very active on ye unn dino ki baat hai forum..

Ah! I have seen you in un dino forum.. I read there but don't post much 😊

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Santiago24

@Santiago24

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: ssnehaaa
I completely agree that pyar Kia nai jata and ho jata hai.
Nobody here is blaming Pooja for falling for Yash .what we are trying to say is she shudnt hv cheated. We can clearly see Adi loved Pooja but never tried to show it and never put in any efforts for her. He simply took her for granted. So it's quite possible for her to get attracted to someone but she shud hv told him and got divorced before starting a new relationship
As I already mentioned in one of the thread,
Though cheating is wrong and I can never support it, but atleast I got to know Pooja's side and can sympathize with her a lil bit . Please don't get me wrong .m not supporting her but just keep yourself once in her place. U go for football and every thing that your husband wants u to but jab tumhari baari aayi, when u r interested in something then your husband doesn't join u.

True Sneha... Uff what pain.. I can't imagine being Pooja.. craving love and the husband is like you are my best friend.. let me play video games!

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Flame.

@Flame.

Rocker

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Posted: 7 years ago

Sometimes some things happen on the spur of the moment. Neither do you plan them nor do you intend to hurt people through your actions. You realise the ramifications only after you're done. Perhaps, that is what Pooja may have experienced with Yash. She never may have wanted to hurt her husband, but things may have gone out of her control before she even realized it.

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AparnaChinnu

@AparnaChinnu

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

You know wat actually after seeing today's episode i got something different that it's not about yash and pooja having a affair yar...its about the relationships the both couples shared...its not that best friends can never be lovers and lovers never can be best friends...

marriage should be a mixture of both love and friendship...when one person looks from outside yash and zoya as well as adi and pooja are perfect couples and then why they cheated... sometimes it's not the same wat we see...something was missing in their relationships... let's take adi's and pooja's case... there were friendship and love also but not the type of love between two lovers...pooja never got that... the passion was missing...Next in yash and zoya's case it's like love was their but not a friendship... yash never shared anything about his work with zoya...come on husbands usually talk about their work pressure to their wife... yash knows pooja for 1yr and zoya had no idea... his company had crisis that also was unknown to zoya... and in today's episode yash told that zoya can never live in cities but see how is she living and working...

its like even after living together for 5 yrs they know nothing about their partners...its like pooja said... being after so close also they were so far and sometimes strangers understand us better... maybe that happened with them also...plz don't think that I am justifying pooja and yash...its not...I hate infedility... wat ever reason it is...but i really don't know why I feel something different here...From the beginning itself i felt something was missing in both relationships and slowly it's getting their...maybe the writer will show wat was missing in their relationships and how will adiya figure it out through their journey... like pooja said today he doesn't felt that junoon of love from adi... let's see whether zoya get it from him...ofcourse adiya have that intense vibes even before falling in love... so later it's sure

Edited by AYUSHIVISHU - 7 years ago

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MeenAkshi Kalra

@dreamyp

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: Flame.
Sometimes some things happen on the spur of the moment. Neither do you plan them nor do you intend to hurt people through your actions. You realise the ramifications only after you're done. Perhaps, that is what Pooja may have experienced with Yash. She never may have wanted to hurt her husband, but things may have gone out of her control before she even realized it.

Yeah pooja never wanted to hurt adi.. That why she write ki kosti hu khudko n ol.. no wife will want to cheat her husband cum best frnd.. may be that lack of love made her attracted towards yash.. Lets c wats gonna come in further epusodes..

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