Sameer and Kamya--Money & Happiness Debate - Page 2

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I know popular belief is that money cant buy happiness and love is something which is more important for survival ... But based on my some bitter experiences all i can say yes money is something which can buy everything u wish for ... Being a little personal here i connect alot to sameer's onscreen charcter alot ... Whatever sameer is shown facing i have been through but only fact is that i didnt had that financial power like him ... So far what life has taught me i believe money is the only way in which u can conquer the world ... Love is secondary atleast this what i have seen in my life ... I know u may not agree to my opnions but sometimes life makes u believe in such stuff . I m actually supporter of love but whenever comparision will be made between love and money i would choose money
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Comment toh banta hai ispe 😆

Coming soon... :P
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This post is 👏 love or money...highly debatable..both are required for existence.
But I think depends upon the priorities of a person in his life and his state of mind...which one is on a higher strata for me...I can quote my own example
I am a very emotional person and I would require money only to fyulfill my daily needs..just to support my existence...I don't give it .much importance. .for me love is what makes the world go round
But my hubby is quite a practical person...he gives importance to money...for him the more,the merrier...so we are two people with different ideologies...😊

The terminology that you use in your posts is quite impressive ...in all my sanity I can never even think such terms😆
As usual amazing one...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Unresd on pg-1...Lamba comment hui gawa...Sorry shaktimaan😛
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: suhaaniladki

I know popular belief is that money cant buy happiness and love is something which is more important for survival ... But based on my some bitter experiences all i can say yes money is something which can buy everything u wish for ... Being a little personal here i connect alot to sameer's onscreen charcter alot ... Whatever sameer is shown facing i have been through but only fact is that i didnt had that financial power like him ... So far what life has taught me i believe money is the only way in which u can conquer the world ... Love is secondary atleast this what i have seen in my life ... I know u may not agree to my opnions but sometimes life makes u believe in such stuff . I m actually supporter of love but whenever comparision will be made between love and money i would choose money

Sorry to interrupt.If you have to choose between money and love.Everyone will choose money.Because you feel settled when you are financially stable not when emotionally.But.I would like to share this with you.
In childhood I used to tell Dad we are not rich..We don't own anything like Mobile phones,own house,AC etc etc..Each time he used to fulfill something like he got mobile phone and asked me '''Are we rich now'''..Each time I would say NO.
But now that I have everything..At the drop of my hat he would get anything now..But he don't have time for me...I miss how he used to drop me school..Now for anything..Either he will send my uncle or our driver..I miss talking to him.I miss every bit of those happy days.
I never really cared about the happiness I used to get in our small house.I miss it when in my big bedroom there is no one to sleep with me or talk to me.Above all now that I have my own room.I hardly see them.
You will value happiness when you have lost it.Because for me money does not buy happiness ..that happiness that we get from loved ones..I don't know anything about you..But I just hope you get every happiness that you wish for.May you get every thing that you wish for..But if at all you get opportunity choose love or happiness..You will not regret.
Lots of love and wishes
Sweety
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetylina

Sorry to interrupt.If you have to choose between money and love.Everyone will choose money.Because you feel settled when you are financially stable not when emotionally.But.I would like to share this with you.
In childhood I used to tell Dad we are not rich..We don't own anything like Mobile phones,own house,AC etc etc..Each time he used to fulfill something like he got mobile phone and asked me '''Are we rich now'''..Each time I would say NO.
But now that I have everything..At the drop of my hat he would get anything now..But he don't have time for me...I miss how he used to drop me school..Now for anything..Either he will send my uncle or our driver..I miss talking to him.I miss every bit of those happy days.
I never really cared about the happiness I used to get in our small house.I miss it when in my big bedroom there is no one to sleep with me or talk to me.Above all now that I have my own room.I hardly see them.
You will value happiness when you have lost it.Because for me money does not buy happiness ..that happiness that we get from loved ones..I don't know anything about you..But I just hope you get every happiness that you wish for.May you get every thing that you wish for..But if at all you get opportunity choose love or happiness..You will not regret.
Lots of love and wishes
Sweety

Yeah m getting your point dear ... Hope some day i can have thoughts as u have ... May be time is a big healer ... Hope so everything is sorted. .. btw thank you soo much for your good wishes 😊
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Posted: 7 years ago
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i believe there is as such no comparison... its not that if u hv all the love u dont need money... and same if u hv money its not that u dont need love... everything in moderation is good... ofcourse if u r in rat race to become millionaire u dont hv time to enjoy simple things in life... i remember someone asking Shah rukh khan that dont u miss not taking ur children to juhu beach and have street food and he was like no i dont as i enjoy travelling in my own jet... so its all about choices...
as i wud like to put in comparison with present indian classes, i wud love to belong to the upper middle class since its like u r neither rich nor poor and at the same time u r able to provide things above average to ur loved ones as well as have some quality time with family as well...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU

The sages always say that money can't buy happiness; all you need is love. Popular media begs to differ, alongside grandstanding doctrines like Objectivism and Machiavellianism: Work hard to earn, save, and squirrel away your largest possible personal fortune, and guard it at all costs.

What does the research say? People who fall into the category of "very happy always have strong social connections. However, the apparent paradox from these studiesthat richer people spend less time socializing but say they feel less lonelywarrants further inquiry into the interplay between wealth, social connection, and happiness.

Sameer and Kamya both can be put into the 'rich,lonely kid' category.So whats your view on their patterns of behaviour.
Does it warrant that wealth -social connection-love -happiness are inversely proportional?

Do share your opinions!



@Bold: I completely agree because happiness is a feeling, an emotion and an abstract noun so it can only be felt and not touched 😆

Jokes apart, in my opinion, I believe strongly that having lots of money and no one to share with is of no use! Mostly rich people are busy in increasing their bank balance rather than focussing on human relations!

It is completely true that rich people do attend parties but that is more or less a show off just to satisfy their ego! That connection, human touch is always missing in such gatherings. One such incidence I recall from the show- when Somani and Vishakha went to attend a party and they returned the next day. Meanwhile, Sameer ran away from home the very same day. So, how money helped here in such situation? May be if he was kidnapped then money might have helped :P

All this definitely not warrant that wealth and happiness are inversely proportional. Nevertheless, if a person can balance out their life and know the difference between inner satisfaction and false praises then definitely money can buy him/her those relations and luxury which can give him/her happiness!

Thus said, don't spend too much time in gathering money thinking that it will make life happier rather earn and spend it which would not make you regret anything in life when you die!


Anyway, that's all I can think of right now. Let me know if I made sense or not because I am listening to sitar instrumental and typing all this 😆 Do correct me if I am wrong somewhere 😃


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