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This post analyses the fine stark difference between 'love' and 'head-over-heels'.Those who are worried about the Precap fall out and Naina failing,we must accept the fact that Sameer and Naina are head over-heels about each other and are still taking the baby steps towards the 'Lasting Love'.
From boosting happiness to making one less judgmental, head-over-heels transforms...
How their's is not love and just Head-over-heels with rush of teenage hormones,below are the points:
You may ask how it's possible to feel happy and anxious at the same time. But when it comes to being in love, really, any and all feelings at once is very possible. A person can feel happy when they're in love, but they can also feel anxious. Isn't that something?
Naina and Sameer both have been anxious about each other and we saw how both are relieved with assurance' of love letters.That flicker of suspicion is always present in early stages of love.
Love is an addiction you just can't kick. It releases a feel-good chemical, similar to another other addiction that creeps into our lives.
Sameer and Naina had got addicted to each other's presence.
No matter if the person you love is two door down or two countries away; that "addiction we feel because of love makes us more driven to take risks in order to get to that person.
We have witnessed all the risks both have taken to just contact each other.
If your mind begins to dance around in circles and even focusing on something ordinary makes you crazy, blame it on your love. Being in love interferes with your brain's ability to stay on task, says a study from the University of Maryland.
Thus we find Naina and Sameer failing in their own spheres to match upto the expectations or to be their former true selves.
Psychology behind Early-Phases of Love'
When we are falling in love, chemicals associated with the reward circuit flood our brain, producing a variety of physical and emotional responsesracing hearts, sweaty palms, flushed cheeks, feelings of passion and anxiety. Levels of the stress hormone cortisol increase during the initial phase of romantic love. As cortisol levels rise, levels of the neurotransmitter serotonin become depleted. Low levels of serotonin precipitate what Schwartz described as the "intrusive, maddeningly preoccupying thoughts, hopes, terrors of early lovethe obsessive-compulsive behaviors associated with infatuation.
Being love-struck also releases high levels of dopamine, a chemical that "gets the reward system going''.Dopamine activates the reward circuit, helping to make love a pleasurable experience similar to the euphoria associated with use of cocaine or alcohol.
In addition to the positive feelings romance brings, love also deactivates the neural pathway responsible for negative emotions, such as fear and social judgment. These positive and negative feelings involve two neurological pathways. The one linked with positive emotions connects the prefrontal cortex to the nucleus accumbens, while the other, which is linked with negative emotions, connects the nucleus accumbens to the amygdala.
When we are engaged in romantic love, the neural machinery responsible for making critical assessments of other people, including assessments of those with whom we are romantically involved, shuts down. "That's the neural basis for the ancient wisdom love is blind'.
So we now know how Sameer and Naina are going through hormonal mess.
If love lasts, this rollercoaster of emotions, and, sometimes, angst, calms within one or two years. "The passion is still there, but the stress of it is gone.''
Cortisol and serotonin levels return to normal. Love, which began as a stressor (to our brains and bodies, at least), becomes a buffer against stress. Brain areas associated with reward and pleasure are still activated as loving relationships proceed, but the constant craving and desire that are inherent in romantic love often lessen.
Many theories of love propose that there is an inevitable change over time from passionate love to what is typically called compassionate lovelove that is deep but not as euphoric as that experienced during the early stages of romance.
Then only the love becomes a strength and everlasting.From a malady becomes a remedy of many emotional and physical difficulties,trials and tribulations.
So our Naina and Sameer have a very long way to go.And we have to be patient enough to watch this journey.
This is strictly my POV,and sourced by Psychology Books/Sources.
Do share your opinions as well.😳
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