Kabir: Rukhsar over Zara?

There is actually something that's been confusing me about Kabir. Kabir doesn't want to marry Zara because of her ideas, he doesn't really have anything against her as a person. He thinks her ideas and her way of thinking doesn't go with what he believes, but what about Rukhsar? Why is he ready to marry her if his dad accepts? The girl who enters his room without his permission and touches his hand while he's praying and worse she shamelessly uses his bathroom on purpose and tires to get close to him. How is he ready to marry a girl like Rukhsar if his dad tells him to, yet he doesn't want to get married to Zara who only has a different mindset but has never been as daring and shameless as Rukhsar. Someone like Kabir should really have a problem in getting married to a girl like Rukhsar, but he really looks like he doesn't mind getting married to her if his dad says so.🤔 I find that really weird to be honest. 

Actually many man think someone as wife material before marrying a girl. Thats why i have heard many man marrying someone else ditching their gfs. May be Kabir thinks Ruk will be a wife material and Zara will not be due to her outspoken natute of questioning things. He will not be threatened by someone like Ruk for what he does.

Rukhsaar always wanted to marry Kabir and she was always open about this to him. He knows that she do all these things around him just because she thinks she'll become his wife in future. According to him she won't do the same to any other boy... 

It is not about his likings or dislikings . Kabir is a typical guy, who is very loyal to his family. He wants to please his parents, coz Allah blesses those who obay their parents. That's why he's ready to marry Ruksar. As for Zara she herself asked him to stop their nikah, warna he was ready to marry her as per his father and peer's wish.. 

I guess Kabir feels Rukhsar will conform to his norms and ideals. Plus, her sister is also there to guide her, etc. So while she does certain things that he considers inappropriate, none of those things matter after marriage. But with Zara it's obvious that she isn't the conforming kind and she has opposite views about many things. And living with such a person will be like being in a battle-field; and the issues will also be such that will affect the marriage. Basically, Kabir is thinking more practically.

[QUOTE=__VIHU] Rukhsaar always wanted to marry Kabir and she was always open about this to him. He knows that she do all these things around him just because she thinks she'll become his wife in future. According to him she won't do the same to any other boy...[/QUOTE

Maybe Kabir will marry Ruksar because in yesterday's episode when he saw the interaction between both the sisters he felt bad and on in off screen pictures the actress playing Ruksar has been seen in bridal attire

Originally posted by: crispsy

Actually many man think someone as wife material before marrying a girl. Thats why i have heard many man marrying someone else ditching their gfs. May be Kabir thinks Ruk will be a wife material and Zara will not be due to her outspoken natute of questioning things. He will not be threatened by someone like Ruk for what he does.

Edited by Ishq-Dua - 6 years ago

Originally posted by: __VIHU

Rukhsaar always wanted to marry Kabir and she was always open about this to him. He knows that she do all these things around him just because she thinks she'll become his wife in future. According to him she won't do the same to any other boy... 

Originally posted by: awida

It is not about his likings or dislikings . Kabir is a typical guy, who is very loyal to his family. He wants to please his parents, coz Allah blesses those who obay their parents. That's why he's ready to marry Ruksar. As for Zara she herself asked him to stop their nikah, warna he was ready to marry her as per his father and peer's wish.. 

He can marry both in same mantap 😉