Originally posted by: vaishuarshi123
I read in google wen a couple take divorce on mutual consant the Shari'a board gives a stipulated time period to reconcile if not than they are divorced .once the divorce happens they can re marry if the couple want to (husband and wife can marry each other again) only problem comes wen husband divorces or rejects is wife for 3 times it becomes major divorce she need to marry some one to reconcile with her husband which won't obviously happen in the show .IThink they will be back together before the divorce is officialised. It seems mostly men won't give divorce or prefer giving divorce as they need to bear expenses life long of the wife take Care of thier child if they have mostly from womens side
You are right. The whole procedure is here
After watching various speeches of renowned scholars on YT, here is what all of them said about the Talaq procedure as mentioned in Quran.
First of all Divorce or Talaq though is the legitimate thing but is the least favorite of Allah too
Divorce is to be taken only in extreme cases like when there are irreconcilable differences between husband and wife. But before that a mediation process has to be carried out by bringing in an arbitrator (usually the one who is an elderly and experienced person) from both the sides. Even then if the matter is not sorted, then the person can resort to divorce.
The man then has to pronounce a 'Talaq' (once) after which a period of 3 menstural cycles or 3 months is given known as Iddat. This time is given so that the couple can rethink upon their decision. Also, there are certain conditions laid down for divorce
Conditions for divorce
Divorce can be given only during the clean period i.e. a divorce cannot be given when the woman is on her menses.
If during the period of Iddat the wife becomes pregnant then the Talaq automatically stands cancelled
If you have sexual intercourse with your spouse during this period then also the Talaq automatically stands cancelled
Talaq would be an invalid one if it is given in a drunk state, in sleep or in anger
If the couple get back together during the Iddat period then no Talaq will happen. But if Iddat period is over and they haven't got back together then Talaq is deemed to have been taken place.
After the Talaq the same couple can remarry please note they can remarry even without performing the Nikah Halala (wife getting married to another man and consummating it) for maximum 3 times i. e. they can give Talaq and remarry the same person again at the most 3 times. After the 3rd time the woman has to marry another man consummate the marriage and can get back to the man she wants to marry only when her current husband dies or divorces her.
This is a kind of punishment from Allah who make a mockery of a sacred institution like marriage.
